marie as a mother
*long post srry i need to rant hehe*
i’ve been having a blast on marie’s subreddit, it’s really funny talking to her and watching her just attempt to gain any control but she just talks in circles. but she did come for my parenting in a recent comment and i have to laugh.
so it made me want to make a post about marie’s parenting just to highlight some of the neglect.
marie didn’t take her children to the dentist regularly or instill proper tooth and mouth care- that’s neglect.
marie also didn’t help her allegedly mentally disabled daughter seek a diagnosis when she was young in school, they just took what the school suggested and ran with it without seeking any professional opinion on what tophias learning disability is, so they don’t even know because marie never got tophia checked out- that’s neglect.
marie refused to work and get a job while her kids were young, having them resort to going door to door to their neighbors as children to pick up trash or mow the lawn to earn money because she wanted to be a stay at home mom without stay at home mom money- that’s neglect.
marie never taught her children basic hygiene- that’s neglect and fucking gross.
marie allowed a mentally ill man to control their household and finances and be perverted around her children- that’s neglect.
marie never motivated her children to be successful in life and has coddled them into thinking they’re too good to work a normal job and enabled their poor behavior for so long that they’re now entitled, broke, begging adult- that’s neglect.
marie has let her family fall into extreme poverty their whole lives, taking children from shelter to shelter rather than do the hard work it takes to support a family and work jobs, never giving her children an example of a strong independent and supportive mother- that’s neglect.
marie has passed down her bigoted and racist ideals to her children and in turn made them bigots and racists- that’s neglect.
marie refuses to discipline her children and believes they could do no wrong and that it’s everyone else that has a problem, not her kids- that’s just bad parenting.
marie has raised two disgusting humans who are practically irredeemably fucked. they have no goals. they beg online for money or help and when given help they turn it away because it’s not a hand out. they spew hateful and racist ideas because of her. she’s raised them to be convinced they’re better than the average person and don’t need to work a stable job because marie has been comfortable living off other people and the government, so why wouldn’t she teach her kids they could do the same, even if it means living in a motel with three adults for over a year.
marie tried to say me working three jobs when i was younger was a bad thing. yet it provided me everything i have today, and i am so grateful my parents instilled in me the value of hard work, because it pays off.
as a mother myself, it’s extremely disturbing to me how bad of a parent marie is. i barely scratched the surface of her negligent parenting so feel free to add what i forgot to. i can’t imagine raising my babies in the shit show she allowed. i can’t imagine coddling them to the point where even in extreme need they refuse to lift their finger and work a real job to earn money and get out of a dire situation.
my child (and one otw) will never know struggle because i have set up my life to give them the best possible childhood. marie wants to make fun of me working three jobs when i was younger but that built my life now, so that now i don’t have to work as hard. now i can relax and be present for my kids early childhood and never stress over bills or money or where we’re going to live. and i will teach them the value of hard work. i will teach them how to care for themselves. i will take them to every doctor check up and dentist appointment and anything they need health wise i will be there for. i will read to them so they have a love of reading and knowledge so they aren’t ignorant and can develop comprehension skills and read and understand complex reading material. i will help make sure they’re succeeding in school and get them any help they may need. i will help them get into college, i already have college funds set up for them and they grow weekly because every cent i make from tiktok i put towards their future, on top of everything else we add to their funds. my children will grow up to be independent, well rounded, hard working individuals who won’t have to resort to the shit tophia and her family does just to keep a motel over their head.
hard times fall on everyone. they fell on my mother when i was only 6 months old, and she worked multiple jobs too and got us out of a bad situation and now she’s retired at 53 and traveling with my dad because she worked so hard to earn a life and deserves to travel and see the world now.
hard times fell on me right out of high school which led me to be homeless, drug addicted, and struggling but instead of wallowing in my filth i got clean, worked three jobs, saved my money, and climbed out of a bad situation by myself. because my mother didn’t enable me. she saw me struggling and helped where she could but would not enable my toxic behavior and i THANK her for that. had she not shown me tough love idk where i would be today.
as a mother i cannot believe marie has let her family fall into such a mess. it’s giving me secondhand embarrassment. she said social services should be called on me because i’m on reddit yet her children would have been so much better off not in her care. they might have stood a chance.
and for her to come at me for my parenting just because i’m in a reddit snark group for her lazy, entitled, scamming daughter is hilarious. i cried laughing it was so funny.
sorry for the long pst. as a mom it really grinds my gears seeing how marie has raised her children.
you’re a negligent parent, marie. you failed your husband. you failed your children. and you’ve failed yourself.
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ty. having a bit of a hard time lately and this is just a reminder for me that it’ll pass like it has before
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it will always pass. and hard times will always come, because that’s life. and then they will always pass.
but your attitude and discipline makes the difference. if you’re willing to push through and try your hardest, you’re doing amazing. you’re doing more than most.if you ever need someone to vent to or seek advice i’m always open for private messages <3 life only started getting easier for me around 28-29 years old and that only because i *tried* so hard. life is hard. and things do seem impossible at times. but it isn’t always like this if you do the work needed to persevere.
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Thank you, I needed to hear this.
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By 30, I had a family, a degree, was a homeowner, had a full time job, and I don't have car payments. Mamachu failed her kids.
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and that’s something to celebrate as a normal and achievable milestone for 30 year olds! good for you, i know it’s not easy but it’s also very achievable!!
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It was tough but I did it! If my lazy butt can do it, she could, too.
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it’s tough because it’s work. and tophias family has proven they don’t want to do the work to earn the success.
yay for our homes <3
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Absolutely no one in that family uses a toothbrush and that’s wild to me that she didn’t do better then again look at her own teeth. Marie had no business having children to begin with if she couldn’t even teach them basic hygiene.
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that’s what i’m saying, like why did she have kids if she wasn’t going to be a mother to them. kids are hard work. not just until they’re 18 but forever. she is such a bad mom it’s crazy she tried to come for me and say social services should take my kids away when her kids would have been better off if social services stepped in when they were young. she couldn’t even teach them how to brush their teeth. my 18 month old knows how to brush their teeth. come on now, marie.
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u/Early_Hat_6595
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here i’ll go cross post it for her since she likes to do that <3
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“I live in a hotel not a motel 🧌” like bitch that’s still embarrassing as fuck 💀
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at her huge age too like come on dude. you live in a hotel??? i live in a house!!! we are not the same, marie!😂
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Thank you! I see so many people feeling sorry for Marie, I’ve said this before and I’ll keep saying it, Marie is the blueprint to why her kids are the way they disgustingly are - lazy troll looking, one cough away from deaths door looking ass.
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i haaaaateeee when people are like “omg her poor mom poor marie” like NO marie created this!!! marie enables this!! marie is happy to die in a stinky motel as long as her dotter is famous on tiktok!
like i get people automatically feel for elderly people but marie is an awful person and even worse mother.-
dotter? are u swedish?
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haha no, but when marie says “daughter” it sounds like “dotter” so many people started using “dotter” when talking about tophia haha
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ahhh ok thank you for letting me know lol!
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hehe ty🙈
she gon try to come for me as a mother, biiiitchhhhh she met the right one.
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I think Marie might be a lil….well maybe really slow too.. I don’t think she had the right guidance.. no one to actually help or want to help her.
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i fully believe that too. and she’s the produce of her environment. i really wish she didn’t have kids, as awful as that sounds. they’ve only known a life of hell.
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So social services should be called on you bc you’re playing around on the internet in your spare time, AFTER working and taking care of your family, but her and her daughter- you know what nvm
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😭😭😭 I don’t agree with the comparing to Marie. It’s easy to say what Marie could’ve, should’ve done but come on , she isn’t all there. Tophia is 30, if she can look up how to do makeup. she can easy google how to take care of herself and ways to help her hygiene. So to put the all of the blame on Marie just isn’t fair.
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*I* put all the blame on Marie? Or did you mean to reply to the OP. Cuz I never said it’s all Marie’s fault but I do agree she’s responsible for a huge chunk of it. It’s no coincidence that Marie’s kids have never seen her work a day in their life so now they both think they don’t have to work either. They’re comfortable in chaos and poverty bc Marie and Donald Sr never tried to provide any type of stable environment for them growing up. We all know Donald Sr is severely mentally ill but idk what Marie’s excuse is for never getting a job and contributing financially to her family so they wouldn’t have to live in shelters and motels off and on for decades. But of course now that Tophia is 30 and Donald Jr is almost there as well, they are long past capable of understanding that they need to have stable income to have a stable home life. They’re choosing to live like that.
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The OP lol!
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Oh okay 😂😂😂 my bad
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I just wanna say congratulations on ALL ur success!!!! Proves what hard work does for someone FUCK TOPHIA!!! She’s not worth even talking about!!!
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Marie disgusts me! She’s so fucking lazy and slow, she’d be happy in a cardboard box on the sidewalk. She just wants to easy way out of everything and puts forth no effort into anything. Her excuses for shit like how she can’t get a hold of papachu’s lawyer…come the fuck on. It’s been over a year smh…she prob called exactly one time and in her eyes that means she isn’t able to find out anything. She could’ve gone straight to the courthouse to get some help finding stuff out. That whole family is disgraceful and lazy.
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u read her to filth. i just wonder if she can even properly read half of this LOL
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I’m a single mom, and before I became disabled I worked 12 hour days, managed to make sure my child was clean and fed. House clean and picked up, homework done, school conferences set up, and made sure we made it to all dental and medical checkups. Now that I’m disabled, I still do the same just without working(and I’m on dialysis treatments now) lol there is absolutely no excuse besides laziness and incompetence.
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hit it right on the dot. I’m a mother too and if my baby came out to be anything like donald or tophia thats how i KNOW i failed. i might’ve had my kid young but i have a nice car (paid off), about to pick up a second job, my kid has EVERYTHING and more provided from me and my fiance. We’re able to spend while still living comfortably in a 6 bedroom house in CA. We’re going to start our college fund for our baby and i’d do everything in my power to provide everything i never had.
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Literally, it's so fucking annoying when people defend her
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Ok you gagged her.Also you're an amazing mother and Marie is in no position to critique anyone's parenting."Thank yew"
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Preach!! Anytime a clip of Tophia yelling at her comes out people are immediately in the comments like “ I thought we only hated Tophia🤓🤓” um sure I guess but why not also call out the person who’s enabled her for 30 years. Who’s allowed her to act like this past the age of 5. Makes no sense when both (all the fam) are bad people
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This is a great post. And Really well thought out.
Tophia sucks, but I blame Marie for the complete failure of the family. She could of done so much more for her kids and husband.
Ultimately, I think she is just lazy and ignorant. They are all so incompetent.
Also, I am so happy you got your life together and have a family. Congratulations with the baby on the way!
I love seeing success stories, and I'm in the process of restarting my life after years of poor life decisions and self-destructive behavior.
We do recover, and I understand how it feels to come from abusive lifestyles and look at the Slydells with complete contempt and disgust.
I, too, have overcome some horrible life choices I have made, and seeing the Slydells live in their delusions is insane to me.
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U worded this amazingly! Im really glad things are looking better for you and ill pray you have a safe delivery with your second child!! Marie really set her kids up for failure
and i hope anyone who reads this knows that if you’re in a undesirable situation, if times are hard on you, it is possible to get out of it. it just takes hard work. it takes discipline and determination.
i lucked out with my career and business. i paid my way through school to specifically work a career i knew would set me up for success and it did.
i’m 30 and i worked for everything i have. my fiancée worked for everything he has.
but it took a lot of blood, sweat, and tears to get to where we are. which is comfortable. and that’s all i ever wanted in life was to feel comfortable in myself, my finances, my life.
you can do it. i promise you, you can. it just takes hard work.