Tofupa is mixed with black, period. Stop invalidating biracial people based on what features you think qualifies as 'black enough'!

r/tophiachutiktok • by prettylilcorpse •

I hate Tophia but she is 100% biracial mixed with black, and everyone saying not I guarantee are usually white people have clearly never seen how different biracial kids can come out or black people who want to gatekeep, I have experienced both of those people in my personal life.

Me and my sister are biological half black siblings, same mother and father, but my sister is 4 shades darker than me with wavy hair (2b) looking like our black father, and I am lighter/white-skinned with coily textured hair (3c/4a) and a face exactly like my mothers. Genetics vary, and curly hair or other features that don't align with your idea of 'black' or 'biracial' doesn't mean black or not black. Hate her all you want, and we all know she overuses this fact, but Tophungus is very clearly mixed with black, her skin tone and similarity to Marie means nothing except we know she is Marie's kid (obviously).

She is biracial and I stand by that as a light-skinned biracial black person who hates her selfish guts. You guys need to learn about the way that biracial genetics vary. This whole argument invalidates so many biracial children who have a certain set of 'not black enough' features.

[Before you argue about her APPEARANCE, look at these biracial half black people and think again. HOW BIRACIAL PEOPLE LOOK DOES NOT MEAN WE ARE NOT GENETICALLY MIXED.](https://imgur.com/a/QrO8Ht5)

I fucking hate Tophia, but I am so so SO tired of every other comment invalidating people like me who don't align with their preconceived notions of how they believe I should look to be who I lliterally am.

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  1. Emergency-Flatworm90 Share • 22

    curly haired latinos exist bro

    1. Emergency-Flatworm90 Share • 10

      + we only know of marie as her only parent atm. her dad is not confirmed forsure so we can’t say she’s 100% actually black. marie is white with spaniard heritage soo idk why your assuming her ethnicity as well.

      1. prettylilcorpse Share • -7

        The same way you guys assume she isn't black when all of the proof we have so far indicates Donald is her father. You guys have no proof of this not being the case other than her literal birth certificate not being in your possession. Explain brotherchu? No one denies he is black and he looks just like his sister and Marie

        1. Unusual_Truck4064 Share • 15

          anyone can sign a birth certificate even if they aren’t the father.

          donald jr. actually looks like donald sr. from facial characteristics to a way darker skin color than tophia, he looks like his son.

          tophia does not. tophia doesn’t have a single characteristic from donald sr.

          1. prettylilcorpse Share • -6

            PEOPLE, AGAIN, [Before you argue about her APPEARANCE, look at these biracial half black people and think again. HOW BIRACIAL PEOPLE LOOK DOES NOT MEAN WE ARE NOT GENETICALLY MIXED.](https://imgur.com/a/QrO8Ht5). STOP INVALIDATING BIRACIAL PEOPLE BASED ON WHAT YOU THINK IS BLACK ENOUGH. holy shit. Who CARES if brotherchu is darker, my sister is darker and I have WHITE skin, however I AM biracial. Will you say because my sister is darker and I am lighter than I am not mixed?

            1. Unusual_Truck4064 Share • 5

              no. because you have solid proof who your father is.

              tophia does not.

              marie said donald wasn’t her father. tophia has called him her step father. there is an overwhelming amount of proof that he is not her father.

              i’m not invalidating biracial people. but tophia switched up once she started getting called out. that’s the issue.

        2. Emergency-Flatworm90 Share • 10

          so you think he’s actually her dad? even tho she said herself he’s her stepdad😭😭😭? no duh he looks like his half sister like what do u expect?? lmfaooo bruh i’m not gonna keep going cause you don’t even know what ur talking about

          1. NoDot7856 Share • 7

            Lmao she is losing it 🤣🤣🤣🤣 also Marie said Donald isn’t tophia’s dad but hey 🙃

    2. tiny_esthetics Share • 3

      ^^^ this lol. I’m half hispanic & half white & I have 3B hair, which comes from my hispanic side.

    3. prettylilcorpse Share • -4

      >Genetics vary, and curly hair or other features that don't align with your idea of 'black' or 'biracial' doesn't mean black or not black.

      1. Emergency-Flatworm90 Share • 6

        i’m not saying she isn’t black i’m literally just saying cause your reasons are exactly why she claims she’s black too when she doesn’t even know herself either😭

      2. Long-Web-8312 Share • 5

        She's not Latina, though. To be considered "Latina/o" on the US Census and other Latin American censuses, you must be from Mexico, South America, Central America, or some islands in between. Her mother's family has lineage from Spain. Spaniards are considered Hispanic, not Latino.

        1. Emergency-Flatworm90 Share • 3

          yeah ngl i always get hispanic and latino mixed up for others, im mexican so im able to use both for myself 😭😭😭

          1. Long-Web-8312 Share • 3

            It's easy to learn the differences! Hispanic = Speaks Spanish and Latino = Below USA not Spain lol Do you remember when Tophia called herself a proud Chicana?

            1. Emergency-Flatworm90 Share • 2

              that makes it better thank you!! ima remember this fs lol😭 and omggg yess LMFAOO u just reminded me

        2. prettylilcorpse Share • 1

          Thanks for this correction, you're right, I made an edit.

      3. Unusual_Truck4064 Share • 4

        i think she is mixed with latina and white. she looks so much like ronald, you cannot deny that. looo at tophia and donald side by side and you won’t find a single thing similar about them.

        also the fact that marie slipped up and said she met donald when she was already pregnant and tophia called him her step father until she got caught up being RACIST.

        i feel your pain here but tophia is not black. and until a test is provided i won’t believe it.

  2. Unusual_Truck4064 Share • 16

    genetics do vary.

    but tophia looks nothing like donald. not a single trait of donald’s passed to tophia.

    but ronald? the have the same eyes, nose, chin, cheeks, and ears dude.

    you can feel how you wanna feel about this topic because it’s close to you but tophia is not black.

    she called donald her stepfather for YEARS until she got caught up saying awful things about black peoples. then suddenly she’s half black so she can say those awful things.

    marie slipped up and said she met donald while she was pregnant with tophia when someone asked.

    she is not black. and until there is an ancestry test provided i literally will never believe she is black.

    1. prettylilcorpse Share • -5

      But they did pass to her, she does have tan skin and her mother does not, she does have textured hair like her brother and [her mother does not](). Brotherchu looks EXACTLY like marie and his sister, they have the same ugly ass face. And how do you explain mixed children like me or [those featured here](https://imgur.com/a/QrO8Ht5) who have less passed on features but are still biologically mixed? Just because Tofupa is a stupid racist who says dumb shit does not make her suddenly genetically unmixed. She is a bad person, we know, she uses it as an excuse, we know, but that doesn't remove her genetics. >until there is an ancestry test provided i literally will never believe she is black. I guess we need to stop believing Logic and Halsey and Meghan Markle and myself until they/we validate their biracialness.

      1. Unusual_Truck4064 Share • 6

        i literally don’t wanna argue with you because you clearly have an emotional attachment to this and i don’t want to offend you. no one is trying to take away your identity here, i hope you know. but there is so much proof that donald is not her father and tophia is claiming to be black when she’s not.

        donald jr. looks like donald sr. they share similar traits.

        tophia does not. she shares traits with ronald. and someone found information that proved donald sr. didn’t even live in new mexico at the time of tophias conception.

        explain why tophia called donald sr. her stepfather for so long? or her racist comments towards black people for years? only claiming to be black once she was being heavily called out for her comments?

        she’s not black. she looks like ronald. i’m sorry this upsets you, truly. but she looks nothing like the examples you provided. she looks more hispanic than anything, and ronald has features she also has. no one is trying to take away your identity with this. we’re trying to prove tophia and her mother are lying because they’ve had said other things in the past but have now switched up.

  3. TophiasArmpitHair Share • 6

    People say that tophia is not black for various reasons :

    - she started claiming to be half black after people called her out on her racist stuff

    - we are unsure of her background. You showed us some biracial people that do not present certain physical features to prove your point but the thing is, we can always check the background of those people. We can't do that with tophia because we don't know much about Marie's family

    . We are also unsure if papachu is her biological dad because she used to call him stepfather. Besides, a reddit user found out that papachu wasnt living in NM at the time when Tophia was conceived. You should find their post on this sub or Therealslydells sub. They also show in that post that Marie allegedly had a relationship with a man called Donald. Donald is a white man, who surprisingly shares similar facial features with Tofupa

    The fact that she does not show any features commonly presented by black people, nor does she resemble Donald like brotherchu does, adds to those doubts

    You take this way too personally and it feels like you're projecting some insecurities

    1. Unusual_Truck4064 Share • 2

      the post has unfortunately been deleted because of marie.

      which in my opinion, makes it true. she hasn’t deleted posts like this before and almost every post about ronald has been deleted. especially the one showing where donald was living when tophia was conceived.

      1. TophiasArmpitHair Share • 1

        Exaclty she reacted too suspiciously. She normally responds with " its not true dumbass mind your business"

  4. cinnamongir1s Share • 5

    isn’t it weird that she only started claiming her black side after she got attacked for saying racist things and using slurs??

    1. prettylilcorpse Share • 1

      She is a dumb nasty racist, we know this. I would 100% believe she was disgusted in or hated being biracial so she denied it until it benefited her. We know she is manipulative like this. This, however, does not change her genetics.

      1. Unusual_Truck4064 Share • 1

        her genetics match ronald though… like if i didn’t know them i’d think they were related dude.

        i swear i’m not trying to invalidate you and i feel so bad for arguing this point. but tophia has said herself that donald is not her father. she only started claiming him as biological once she was being called out.

        we aren’t saying this to hurt you but to show you that tophia may be lying.

        and if i’m wrong, i’ll shut the fuck up forever. but marie and tophia have used an ancestry site yet refuse to show the results. if they showed she was half black, wouldn’t you thin in they would show it? with how prideful they are to prove people wrong? but they haven’t. because it shows something else.

  5. Somewhat_Sanguine Share • 1

    I thought the same thing, and it still confuses me. Apparently Donald isn’t her real dad, and her real dad is a white hispanic man? Marie is Hispanic but I’m not sure if she considers herself black. You can be black and Hispanic or white and Hispanic or even Asian and Hispanic. Tophia has always looked biracial to me but I’m not sure if she considers herself a white or black person of Hispanic origin.

    1. prettylilcorpse Share • 0

      >Apparently Donald isn’t her real dad, and her real dad is a white hispanic man?

      Where is this information? Do we have a photo of a hispanic man holding her as a baby? What Tofupa considers her identity to be doesn't change her genetics. IDC what that nasty bitch thinks, my only argument here is she is biracial and everyone saying she isn't based on appearance is invalidating all biracial people including myself.

      1. Somewhat_Sanguine Share • 3

        I got that information from another comment because a while ago because I said the same thing you are. If her real dad is like a black Dominican or something, she’d definitely be biracial, but the person said her real dad was a white Mexican… I have no idea where they got that information from though.

        1. prettylilcorpse Share • 1

          Okay, another comment isn't proof.

          1. Somewhat_Sanguine Share • 6

            I’m not saying it’s proof. I think you’re a little too personally invested in this. I haven’t seen many people say she isn’t biracial just because of her features, more so her mother isn’t black and Donald isn’t her father so where is the black coming from?

            1. prettylilcorpse Share • 1

              I am personally invested because every other comment here invalidates my identity by saying she doesn't have x and y features, so she isn't biracial.
              > I haven’t seen many people say she isn’t biracial just because of her features,

              Then you haven't been paying attention, in this very comment section people are bringing up her appearance!

              >more so her mother isn’t black and Donald isn’t her father so where is the black coming from?

              Where is your proof Papachu isn't her dad? You just said you didn't know where the information came from, now you're stating it as a fact

              1. Unusual_Truck4064 Share • 1

                hey, im being genuine here. no one is invalidating YOUR identity. not a single person. you can be biracial mixed with black all the live long day and it will be true. becaue you know who your parentage is.

                tophia does not. tophia has called donald her step dad. she’s only claiming black to get out of shit she has said.

      2. Unusual_Truck4064 Share • 2

        no we don’t have proof of that but marie has said on station head that she met donald sr while she was pregnant with tophia and the proof someone showed last night PROVED that as true. donald sr. did not live in NM when tophia was conceived, which lines up with marie’s slip up years ago when she said she met donald at a club when she was pregnant with tophia. tophia called him her stepfather until she started getting called out for being racist because she said racist things.

        no one’s arguing that she isn’t biracial. she just isn’t biracial with black. she’s white x hispanic.

      3. Unusual_Truck4064 Share • 2

        i’m really not trying to invalidate you as a black biracial person i hope you know. i’m not trying to fight you. your identity is valid despite how you present and look.

        however.

        tophia called donald her step dad until she got called out for being racist, then tried to switch up because donald was her step dad so she could get away with saying she’s black when she’s not.

        marie said she met donald at a club when she was pregnant. there is proof, unfortunately now deleted because marie doesn’t want people talking about it, that donald didn’t live in NM when tophia was conceived but she was living with ronald at that time.

        these are the facts. the only reason i, and many others, want a dna test is because of the things tophia and marie have said in the past that they are suddenly denying and back tracking on.