Why hasn’t anymore came forward and said they know Tophia?
The only part of her story I know is from the eviction arc up until now. How come nobody has ever came forward and said I went to school with Tophia or her brother? Or even any family members? Has she lived her life like this all the time? Had she been homeless and just lonely her whole life? I don’t understand how she’s so comfortable with this life but I guess if that’s all she knows… I’m not taking up for her though she’s so delusional and her mom enables her. It seems like when papachu was on meds and stable he was the one who forced tophia to shower and get a job… I’m not sure though but someone let me know
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I know Tophia is an awful person but I can't help but feel bad for her. She's never had friends or a romantic relationship, she doesn't know who her father is, her stepfather is abusive, she's constantly been moving between homeless shelters and motels. It's just awful. And knowing she'll be living this way forever because she doesn't do anything to try and better her situation is so sad. I wouldn't wish that kind of life on my worst enemy.
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From the older pictures I’ve seen on tiktok, she did have friends, she was with a whole friend group before, idk what happened between them. Papachu didn’t really seem all that abusive to me, maybe he was since he has clear mental issues, however when he got mad at tophia, it was to discipline her, like when she spent almost $100 doordashing Wendys or turned the light off cause it was late.
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College students are mature, just because they tolerated her does mean that they were friends
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When I said papachu was abusive, I meant sexually. Tophia said that he'd r*ped her before when she was younger. I'm not sure if I believe her because Tophia is a HUGE liar but when it comes to something like r*pe I try to believe the victim
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this confuses me bc she said that he SA’d her when she was younger and i swear to god i heard her say this but now when anyone brings it up she’ll deny it it’s so confusing
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Me personally if I knew tophia I’d never admit it because I’ve seen people get harassed or stalked just for saying something nice to her💀I wouldn’t want any association with her knowing people with no life would stalk my entire existence just to learn more about tophias broke ass
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By now all of her old friends are either married, have kids, have a career or all of the above. They probably have better things to do tbh
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Probably. I think unless she makes like the news people might not come forward. I just wanna know how she was like because there’s NO way she has made it this far doing the things she’s doing currently.
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a guy commented on one of those chu family videos saying “I went to school with tophia,she was so gross”
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Because most 30 year olds aren’t in touch with acquaintances from their schooling years. Tophia was also in and out of shelters growing up, and unfortunately that means she most likely had to switch schools often, not forming solid friendships.
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I’ve wondered this too. Someone from hs has to have seen her vids. There’s old pictures of her with her friends too.
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She isn’t as popular as you think she is
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I don’t think they’d want the attention …😬
I agree! Why have no one ever said “oh I know that lolcow, she was a loser in HS..” or any of her aunts, uncles, cousins!? Albuquerque is big but not THAT big