joined tophias live
idk i really did try to empathize w her bc if my mom got shot too i’d crash tf out, but her constantly going on live and being like “i’m so tired of everyone getting help except me” like…im fairly new here but girl everyone has gone through it? she kept bringing up that she tired of being homeless… i was too and i was literally a child. the difference is i grew up.
she loves to be like “this world is so shitty i’m tired of it all” like yeah that’s the harsh reality, the world is not kind to the majority of people and as a poc i learned that very quickly and it’s a shame that she didn’t. I had to work my ass off to get what i wanted in life (and still do) and now i live in a beautiful city, sharing an apartment w my gorgeous partner and expecting a baby. Idk she’s what? 30? Grow up. Nobody is above any job. Go flip a burger, go do janitorial, go do literally any entry level job and it would give you a leg up in life.
Anything is better than taking up resources from people who need it. from what i’ve observed she’s completely able bodied? so really what is stopping her. being hispanic myself i can’t imagine a reality where my mom raised me and i didn’t do everything i could as an adult to repay her for that. especially after losing someone in my life.
idk ive run out of “aw i feel bad”. grow up, get a job, and SAVE. help yourself so that you can help those around you. otherwise the rest of your time here will be nothing but misery.
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i’m sure once i go down that rabbit hole these feelings will go away fast but im not sure that’s a door i wanna open 😭
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They'll go away in about eleven seconds. There's not a single problem in her life right now that she isn't either wholly or largely responsible for.
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She abuses animals. Fed a cute little cat dog food. Let that little baby starve to the point it was screaming at her for food and she sat there n stuffed her fat face. Not before throwing said cat to the floor. She hit her dog with a brush. Those are why I hate her most.
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She is so ungrateful for all the help she's received. Not even a thank you out of her mouth. She went through something traumatic, and there was an outpouring of help and support from people like me who can't stand her! She's always had help, and honestly, she's so fortunate because not everyone receives that kinda help. She's expecting the shelter to give her a free home and a credit card with an endless amount of funds. She's delusional. If only life were that easy, I'd be doom scrolling on tt and ig all my life too. Pathetic.
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I don't think she realizes that the shelters keep track of everything. And if you are not trying, they are writing that down. If you don't care, neither do they, because they can't do everything for you. I swear she really believes she's getting a free home, and she's not 😭 her one live "im waiting for Hod to say it's my turn for a house" well I didn't know God was handing out free homes we don't have to work for 🤣🤣
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You can not help a sped named tophia.
i've ran out of "aw i feel bads" and saying she should help herself. she's not gonna do alla that, so i just point and laugh now