i empathize with tophia on a human level, but i think shes more upset that now she has to take care of herself rather than the actual death of her brother
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Im positive he resented her. Imagine not wanting to be associated with her, wanting to have your own life and do your own thing but being forced to include them because of the situation? Tophia is the older child and was babied the most. He had to work, and she didn't. Donald couldn't even have his own friends.
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It was obvious he resented her; I think what he resented more was her being on social media and putting all there families business on there.
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For her brother to say he wasn’t related to her when asked he had to resent her. Plus Donald rarely lived in the apartment, not sure why she said they did everything together. He would stay with friends and one point I think he lived with Angie. When they live in the car they had no choice but to do shit together. She misses the little fun they had living in the car. Now she’s stuck living in a shelter. Life would be a little bit easier for her if she just got a job.
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Their family genes are undeniable so there’s no way to really hide them being related 😭
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they all look like neanderthals idk what happened to mamachu but she brought that into the gene pool 😭
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The video of him denying being her brother as if he also wasn’t the one of the most identifiable human beings ever is still hilarious
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I feel like if brotherchu and mamachu wouldve left Tophia to fend for herself they would've have been out in that predicament. Like they would've had a stable roof over their shoulder, food etc.
Some Parents kick their kids out at 18... hell even younger. Tophia was babies every second of her life and it seems like she had no discipline growing up. She has the mentality of a 13 year old. She's never going to change, ever. -
Yeah he was constantly telling her to stop putting their business out there, when people asked him if he was tophias brother he said no. All he was in life was a taxi and a cash machine, and in death he’s grub hub gift cards, free shit, donations and go fund me money.
Let’s be real, if she had that go fund me money right now she would not be crying, she would be back to how she was when he first died and she had unlimited access to fast food, giddy with happiness, with her finger licking ribs and loving life going on shopping sprees and finally feeling like she had her own place because she had a comfortable room to herself in the shelter.
These tears here are because she doesn’t have money/her drug of choice (stuffing her fat face with fast food) she isn’t mourning, she’s sulking because she thought that being the victim of a crime meant that she would be given a house and endless access to money and she’s just now realising that she wasted all the donations people sent her on stupid TikTok shop shit, and that people are not going to pay for her lifestyle.
And everyone knows she’s directly responsible for what happened to him, she’s the reason they were in that car and not safely behind locked doors at her family’s house. But she doesn’t even care or acknowledge that, she points the finger at everyone else but she is reason he’s dead and she won’t even admit it.
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I can just tell she’s short of money right now. She doesn’t cry when she has it.
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Exactly. She’s only depressed because of how “expensive” her groceries were! And she ran out of money off her mom’s ebt card. she doesn’t give a thing about her pedo brother
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Yup. I see right through her shit. That’s all she wants her mom for. Nothing else. She really thinks she can come on her and say she’s depressed, most of us are!!! She’s trying to set herself up to continue to say she’s unable to work. I can just see the grifting in her eyes.
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It’s hard to feel bad for her at all, considering she’s blatantly lying once again in this clip. She says she’s too busy to hurt others? Yet she constantly puts down others, insults people, and is rude to anyone on her lives. She loves her brothers and can’t live without him?
If that was true at all, she would be busting her ass or finding a way to have given him a proper burial or picked him up.
She’s trying hard? She actively avoided all programs that the shelter had to help her find employment and housing. These are big fat crocodile tears of someone who maybe has realized that their situation has become hopeless.
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exactly. she just feels bad for herself rn.
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Girl bfr you only used him for money.
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Like that one time he wanted a CD she had, and she said he could buy it from her. 🙄
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Like that one time she made him buy a CD off of her. 🙄
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You didn't do everything together, he did everything while you did nothing. Spare me with this crap
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Remember that one time she bought a car part though. 😂
She said he didn’t do anything and didn’t pay the bills.
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She's been uploading videos longer than 1 minute for a while now. She's really in need of money frfr.
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Reminder, to not comment,like, or watch. Just check the Reddit someone will post it😜 also as a bonus, hit not interested in the video!
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Exactly! Watch her here on Reddit or reaction channels on YT. DO NOT give her a view, reaction or anything or you will indirectly push the algorithm and give her money
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And she "called out" people for making videos over a minute because only those people do it for money.
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Is she gonna get kicked out again? She was speaking like this before getting kicked out of the other shelter. She said that people weren't helping her and she was being put in danger. She only ever brings up her brother and cries about him when things aren't working out the way she wanted them to.
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is she at a shelter again? i thought she was staying in a hotel still
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She's definitely at a shelter or in a housing program for the homeless. When she streams with the black screen, you can hear a door open and close constantly, and it sounds like doors from a school gym or dining hall. She also has said she's in a much better situation than before, but she's a liar, so idk 🤷♀️
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She used to brag about living in the car lol and calls herself semi-homeless or partially homeless 😂 so I wonder how much “better” it really is.
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She’s at a family shelter with her mom
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Yep. It's exhausting.
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When i hear " being put in danger " she's basically asking for sympathy donations but without asking.
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My god the spit mouth is absolutely vile. Idc who it is, I CANT STAND SEEING IT
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And the white crust or food dot that didnt go nowhere despite all that talking 😭
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Fake ass tears and what is that fake cry it sounds like an 8 yr old. She’s crying all lo gain sympathy and money
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Does she not realize all of these issues can be solved with getting a job and therapy. Holy shit it’s one excuse after another.
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She can probably get free therapy if she makes the effort. There's places that do it based on your income.
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The victim organization already offered them therapy right after the incident. Therapy is basically hunting HER and she is running away from it since months
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She's running away from the work that would go into it
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Yes free therapy is possible! As someone actually with major depressive disorder, luckily for me my therapy was through my school
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There's at least two ways to get here but we all know that would require effort which tophia could never be bothered to put into something. Not only that but therapy itself requires effort.
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I don't have a single shred of empathy for her. I'm not gonna waste good hearted feelings on someone who'd fuck you and your whole family over in the blink of an eye just to get what her big ass wants. Nah, I'll pass.
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This.
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Scalp pussy
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Fucking what
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You see it :)
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my reaction lol
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....I hope you stub your toe tonight lmao 🤣
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Spat my food laughing.
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like you said i do empathize with her because i find it truly sad that she, as an older sibling, had to see her younger sibling violently killed.
but other than that it makes me so frustrated that she’s willing to repeat the choices that led to her brother being killed! when she had it made in her first shelter, instead of using their resources and getting herself a nice job to save while not havin to worry about paying for a safe place to sleep, she chose to spend her money on shopping sprees and hello kitty swimsuits that she will never wear..
her selfishness has and will always be her biggest problem. i hope one day that she learns how to get over herself but shes already in her 30s so thats unlikely.
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exactly!! i would absolutely die inside if something happened to my brothers, but then again i wouldnt have kept making the same mistakes that led to them being hurt.
she needs to suck it up, put her big girl britches on and move forward. she cannot stay stuck doing this crying bullshit online for money instead of being an actual adult
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I hate when people force tears and rub their eyes unnecessarily to irritate them more.
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i will never empathize with this woman. she has done some disgusting shit and when bad things happen to her, she'll just go and blame the internet. she has such a massive victim mentality.
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She has access to free therapy all she has to do is sign up for Medicaid if she hasn’t already (she would qualify for it too) and find a therapist. Instead of crying on the internet.
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I think it finally hit her no gofundme money:) let’s cry for sympathy money 🎻
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You can't get medicaid just for not having the money to get health insurance I'm pretty sure, like you can with food stamps. Medicaid is only for children and people with disabilities. There are other programs, like Obamacare (if it still exists?) that are more based on your income level.
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I live in Albuquerque lol I know how it works. She can absolutely qualify for Medicaid she’s just too lazy.
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Ah, maybe it's different in different states? Because I know for a fact you can't get it unless you have children or are on disability in my state. I thought it was a federal program, not a state program.
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It specifically states on medicaid.gov as follows: “To participate in Medicaid, federal law requires states to cover certain groups of individuals. Low-income families, qualified pregnant women and children, and individuals receiving Supplemental Security Income (SSI) are examples of mandatory eligibility groups”
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Oh wow, you can't in my state!!
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Ah yes.. the states that basically said lets screw our people over. They didn’t adopt the ACA medicaid expansion. What the flip
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Yes I live in the Trash belt of America.
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She only talks about how brotherchu’s death affected her. Never talks about brotherchu as a person. Crazy work.
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Still hasnt called him by his name Donald
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THIS! He is only „her dead brother“, never „Donald“ the real person that had to carry her f… a… through it as if he shouldn’t have started his own life and family unburdened by his older sibling at his age.
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Only that he would try to have them “do things” 😂holy shit
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You shouldn’t empathize with her at all, all of this could’ve been avoided if she just stayed off TikTok, she is so entitled and feels like she’s making a decent earnings off that crap, and she’s said so much negative things and been so hypocritical on multiple occasions. She should be coping and handling what happened in a way different manner that doesn’t involve social media. I have zero empathy for tophia and I’ll be much more happy once I see she’s not online anymore
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I have ZERO sympathy for this clown 🤡 I'm done with her PENDJA ASS🙄🙄🙄 Always excuses 🙄
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J k
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Save those tears for the pillow
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7 fucking minutes???
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And half of it is dead air
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And all that time I thought it was my laptop gone wonky
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Goddamn 8 minutes 😭; it don’t even looks like she crying it looks like she got allergies or some💀. Like she really needs that money.
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she genuinely makes me pissed OFF, like she used to be a BULLY in her old streams and now she's all the sudden trying to get sympathy?? pathetic
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Half of the video is complete silence??? Why does she do this shit
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She going through it last night because of the receipt that was posted😂 that’s what she gets for lying.
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She didn’t cry when he was killed and i don’t believe these tears are for him now.
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Some people that died, I didn't cry over until years later. Maybe there's something wrong with me (there actually is).
Also though, she's just gonna continue being the same person and always has, so. I feel bad for her for like 30 seconds while watching the video and then I'm done lmao.
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No nothing is wrong with you. Sometimes you are in shock or can't process the grief until later. Or you just push it away. But it can always hit you later.
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She blamed the internet before she cried that he died.
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The PTSD was not a diagnosis to her. In her mind it's a ticket to sympathy bait for money. Assuming she even got diagnosed
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She didn't
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it's so hard to feel bad when she such a horrible person. she didn't give a shi when her brother was alive so why would she care NOW?
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Never forget the rotisserie chicken.
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hate her fucking fake crying face so bad
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The crying sounds were sooo fake too
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She keeps saying “I try to be a good person” but we all know that’s not true (unless being a good person to her means virtue signaling and expecting everyone else to take care of her needs).
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someone post this on 2x speed omfg
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Im dying at this comment
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i know i’m not a monolith but i have bipolar (major depressive disorder) and working helps me regulate my depressive and manic episodes. having a routine would more than likely help her more than it would hurt her. she’s gonna use it to not work but not having a purpose, not having something to look forward to each day isn’g helping at all.
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Having a routine is so important for mental health
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Have you seen her full body pic recently? She is obviously eating her emotions instead of dealing with it and mourning normally. Instead she comes on social media and crys so everyone knows she is sad. In no time she will be on my 600lb life talking about how famous she is. I have no sympathy for her.
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“we did everything together”
because he was forced to. you quite literally lived in his daily vehicle lmao
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Awww her "my brother died" ticket didn't play out the way she wanted.
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Those recession roots😥😥😥😥😥
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I don't believe a word that comes out of her mouth at this point. However, if she is dealing with depression, news flash: so are most of us. And yet we work and take care of ourselves without the need to perpetually e-beg and try to emotionally manipulate people out of their hard earned money.
You're not special, Tophia. Either actually address it with a medical professional (which we know you won't do despite having access to care) or suck it the fuck up. The sympathy well has run dry and you have no one to blame for that but yourself and your actions (or inactions).
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I only got 20 seconds into the video
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Womp Womp
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She looks like a shar pie.
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This is why being an adult and not a lazy jerk is so important. Depending on a sibling isn’t a lifelong plan. Constantly bashing that sibling that paid for your addiction by saying he didn’t work or pay bills when you paid for one car part, is also insane.
Do better, be a better person and life will be better.
Couldn’t care less about her fake tears for money. 🤷🏼♀️ grow up Tophia. You aren’t the only person to experience a tragedy.Maybe one day when I hear Marie and Tophia take accountability, I could care a little. It’s still everyone else’s fault, all the time.
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Should I feel bad or something?
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Nah
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she literally milked his passing for clout and money now she wants to act sad
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Toph really needs to be put in a home she obviously can’t take of her self we all know she doesn’t shower
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It's hard because her mom is probably somewhere where they'll help her , her dad is doing his own thing quite literally and her brothers gone. Now she doesn't have anyone to yell and argue with and place the blame on other than herself. The harsh reality of how life will be for her without all the dependence she needed and wanted so bad are all gone. She has the opportunity to change it, get a job , start saving being present for herself. All she wants is a fucking hand out and that's never gunna get her anywhere. That's why she's being "punished" you're not trying hard enough you weirdo freak. You have had so many opportunities to change the path that you've gone down.
This is no one's fault but yours. DEAL WITH IT & GROW TF UP. YOU CANT JUST CRY AND HOPE THAT THINGS WILL SUDDENLY CHANGE. THE WORLD DOESNT REVOLVE AROUND YOU. THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO HAVE IT WORSE THAN YOU. YOU TAKE YOUR LIFE FOR GRANTED. -
This is the same person who was smiling ear to ear when she thought she was getting that gofundme money.
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Why’s her Mom never on here crying. Everytime someone asks about her about her Mom she says she’s doing good. She never says her Mom has PTSD or depression she’s the one that was almost murdered along side her son.
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She’s just bummed out cause she doesn’t have someone to drive her ass to get patty melts
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She actually used the M word. Usually it’s unalived. We are slowly breaking away from the Orwellian ass speech that people are using to be “family friendly”. But yea, she full of shit
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They didn't like each other? 😂 She wouldn't even share a fucking rotisserie chicken with him.
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What’s crazy is they went to Walmart to shop for groceries but still haven’t gone to get his ashes?! They really are just going to let the funeral home dispose of them. Lousy ass people. I hope when she says Donald is in her dreams, that he is haunting tf out of her. They prob fought so much while living in that car.
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I wouldn’t doubt that he’s having the last laugh on her
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Stfu miss wouldn’t hurt anyone saying she gonna send the cArtEl up on their ass, victim, victim, VICTIM
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What happened to her is sad and vile, BUT she is using her brothers death as sympathy bait. She did not once help her brother out, she constantly blasted his business on the internet. She only cries about it when she wants the attention or money. it’s impossible to feel bad for her when the first thing she did after the car jacking was go on instagram and post about it.
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Despite Toph’s bullshit I know she’s mourning her brother so I feel a bit bad bringing this up….but holy shit the way that she keeps pulling and dragging at her skin to wipe her tears makes me cringe. Her face already kind of droops and that’s only going to make it worse. Same goes for rubbing the rough (and probably dirty) shirt on her face over and over.
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I think she’s trying to provide for her and her mom and she’s realizing that it’s hard with out him to help financially since he always had dropped them off places or brought food or would make sure they had something to do and somewhere to go instead of staying in the car all day tophias realizing she can’t afford to uber places and buy things when she goes out
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also the way she stares at herself in the camera while she cries gives me the creeps soooo bad
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she’s forcing her tears so bad brah what the fuck
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“Major depression” isn’t the correct medical terminology, that’s how we know she’s bullshiting
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I don’t doubt she is grieving her brother obviously, but part of me feels she’s crying for herself, she’s realizing she’s truly on her own now.
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She’s pissed now she has to do more for herself and her mom now that her brother is gone.
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I think had she truly gone to a therapist, the first thing they would have told her is to get off of social media. Diagnoses like PTSD and “major depression” are made by a psychiatrist. I could see her mom getting diagnosed with that, and stupid Tophia is claiming it for herself. She never went to therapy or any kind of counseling 🙄
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she used up her empathy with me a long time ago. idc get a job
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You do not do your best being a good person 👎🏻 you constantly wish death on others and make fun of peoples dead loved ones 🥴
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all her issues in life are caused directly by her actions and unwillingness to become a functioning adult. i do not feel sorry or have any empathy for her at all. she’s a horrible individual.
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Normally seeing people cry hits me to my very soul but... I feel numb for her. I just know she misses someone doing the hard work for her. He had a job she didn't. He was more responsible than she was.
Don't cry on camera. If she's super sad... idk. Don't post your life on social media. It really feels like she's just crying for money and sympathy.
She thinks the internet is at fault for everything in her life and that the internet should pay for everything in life.She thinks she should like those millionaire influencers and she should get lots of money for just showing her face. She does not and/or can not grasp that she is infamous and that people don't like her, period. No one likes her for her attitude, beauty, nothing that most people follow a person for.
She's... just a mean vile person. And it feels weird for me not to feel a pang of sympathy in my heart for her. Deep down I just wish something just clicks in her that we're telling her to get a job to help her not troll her. -
She wants him back more so he can work and provide for them, not cause she genuinely misses him
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And she still hasn’t made any changes to better herself since he passed away.
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her matting is coming through 😍😍💆🏻♀️
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Lol boo hoo. I don't sympathize with her. F her. She's never tried working. Rather suffer and milk the system then try at all.
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Looks like she’s ran out of money and is on the scrounge
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I mean I truly do believe she's upset here. It was almost even difficult for her to say the word murdered. It was so easy for her right after, maybe it's finally hitting her. And the reality of taking care of her mom might be contributing to that, but as heartless as she is... even she has feelings. I do think she likely has psychological effects from it.
She's still a human, even though she's a terrible person. I don't feel bad for her in general, but just at the moment she took this video, I do. That doesn't mean I would ever help her out, because she would simply scam me and she's gonna keep doing horrible stuff after this so I'm not going to continue to feel bad for her.
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She most likely does have both PTSD and depression from the situation, so I don’t doubt that at all. It’s the learned helplessness that’s more infuriating than anything. Tophia is extremely lucky to live in a state/city that gives her access to a shelter to get a roof over her head (especially for this long). Besides the resources the shelter offers to help you get back on your feet, I’m sure sure she also would have been eligible for free or low cost therapy services. Instead of using these things to her advantage, she continues to blame everyone else for her circumstances when the only person responsible for them is HER! Nobody is saying that she needs to get over her grief and trauma overnight, but there comes a point where you have to make the decision to improve your circumstances so you don’t end up back in the situation that contributed to this tragedy to begin with.
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There are so many things she could get it. She could even get food stamps, but then she'd have to prove she's applying for jobs
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Her tears,her sadness....they nourish me.
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Why such a long face
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She’s crying cuz her brother paid for everything now she can’t spend her money on little backpacks and makeup
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She’s crying over the loss of her lover
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Oh it is reality, sitting there promising momma “they” will get yall a house and be all took care of. She sees now that it was her own delusions. Time to wake up but she won’t. She expects to sit there and someone come by and give them a home, bills paid, food in the kitchen plus cash for stupid stuff. She needs to be institutionalized.
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I'm pretty sure someone put that idea in her head like maybe a cop, social worker, someone at the hospital, or shelter. Maybe even one of the white knights from TikTok could've told Tophia that bc she's a victim of a violent crime that she qualifies for a free house & a life of leisure as compensation from the government.
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We came home to my father’s murder that has traumatized my 30 years on this earth and have night terrors still. Guess what i work 50-70 hrs a week abd keep moving forward. Stop begging and get a job
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Crocodile tears. I don't feel bad for her one bit. She's only crying and using her brothers death to manipulate whoever tf is stupid enough believe her in order to gain sympathy in the hopes that someone will foolishly feel bad enough for her to send her money.
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They actually didn’t do everything together because he was busy working and trying to make money for them while she was doing nothing
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Take care of herself she wants all you morons who send her money to take care of. She needs a fucking job
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Same brother that was pretending to be 16 to talk to teenage girls, mind you
“We did everything together” like he had a choice