MY THEORY WAS RIGHT!!!
I recently made a post in here saying that I think the reason why Tophia is leaning so hard into these new “diagnoses” of hers is because she’s going to try to apply for disability benefits… and I was CORRECT! On her recent livestream, she said that she wants to try applying for disability benefits but doesn’t know if she will exceed the income limit 🤣
Look, major depressive disorder and PTSD are very real things and absolutely can prevent you from working if severe enough. I’m currently on LOA from work because of my treatment resistant bipolar depression. HOWEVER, I also worked my ass off for years before things got genuinely unbearable and I had to take time off to get treatment. And that’s the thing- I actually GET TREATMENT!!! And have been doing so for years. Tophia has done absolutely nothing with her life for years but thinks that getting diagnosed with these things will be the perfect excuse for why she can’t do anything with her life. As we’ve already established, she does everything in her power to look for new ways to victimize herself instead of taking ownership and responsibility over her life and circumstances. It disgusts me as someone who is chronically mentally disabled 🤢
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Metallica reference
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Ironically, I do remember right before the motel eviction? She was talking about working on indeed, but only for WFH jobs….. I remember at the time I got curious and looked them up and they were all like accounting, programming, or educational based gigs…… none of which she was qualified for. Hell, she can barely type.
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Do you remember the remote babysitting job she was talking about on Aunt Karen’s live 😭
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Literally today she was going on about how easy it is to get a remote job. But I was thinking back to when she was trying to actually get one and never did.
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Clawck it
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heinous
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I bet that disability office would love to see a sea of proof of her out and about doing things like comic con, the mall, vids of her jumping around with really high energy ect. 😈 so disabled that she can do absolutely anything and everything but work.
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They should see the barrage of thirst trap videos she was posting not that long ago too
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Those too! I forgot she was over there in extreme heat trying to pull anything out of the void.
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And wasn't she talking about being excited for comic con recently as well??
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i wonder if the disability office would actually go through the hours of tiktok videos of her doing dumb thing to prove she ain't disabled?
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it will never happen its not easy to get disability. its a very long and complicated process you have to go many appointments it can take years to get approved and tophia is far to lazy to keep up with it
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Yes it’s extremely difficult! But with her naive world view, she probably thinks you submit a piece of paper and then start getting money a couple weeks later 🤣
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She’s so uneducated but I mean she is mentally handicapped imo lol
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That’s too much of a task for her
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And it's best to get a lawyer who specializes in getting disability; that she can't afford. I tried for disability with many chronic autoimmune conditions, and I got denied. im glad I got denied, actually. I would have never found the job I have now that I love so much
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she would have to make various attempts of not being able to hold down any job for longer than 6 months or less to prove she can't work at all and show she has made attempts to work.
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I hate to break it to her but she isn’t going to be approved 😂 you have to be DISABLED. even if you are disabled you have to prove it with extensive medical history and prove you are physically unable to work because of it. ME SAD is not gonna work
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The entire system is notorious for making life hell for disabled people. She thinks she can just file the paperwork and the money will show up in her account. Girl, you’re gonna have to fight tooth and nail to get anything. It’s honestly a thousand times less work and stress to just get a job. There are no easy hacks to skip working.
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in addition they will probably force tophia to enter the ticket to work program and enroll in vocational rehab and get a job
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There are people with missing limbs and debilitating diseases that are terminal that can’t even get benefits. Good luck Tophailure
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Good luck to her ugly lazy fatass. Disability is already difficult to get with actual disabilities. A web ND diagnosis of Depression and ptsd aren’t going to get her an SSI check LMAO. You have to have this welly documented of psychiatric , doctor, therapy visits along with medications proving you’re not mentally well enough to work. If it was that easy, then everyone would try to play the system with mental health.
SSI isnt much money to live off. Many on it are barely getting by themselves. Welfare and ssi are not life hacks to get out of working like tophia thinks.
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And it takes YEARS
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I was thinking this too, she just wants an SSI check and other benefits
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I guess they’ve given up on getting Marie’s disability back pay lol
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They gonna deny her 😂🤣 there is plenty proof online that she is able bodied person. I legit have diagnosed seizure disorder which affects my everyday life and I can’t do a lot because of it. And included DIAGNOSED mental illnesses (PTSD is one of the few) and I can’t even get on disability. I’ve been denied and fired from jobs due to my seizures. I’ve had doctors refuse to let me go back to jobs because of my seizures. She is very capable, if she can trot her big back ass all over New Mexico to shop then she can work.
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great… YET ANOTHER person who refuses to work even though is perfectly capable & healthy who might be put on disability!
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if she wants to apply for disability she should get some genetic testing cuz she’s a neanderthal
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Ugly is not a disability 🙄
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Ohhh she’s gonna have a field day. I have bipolar and ptsd and applied for disability twice and they declined me both times. They basically told me “try harder”. Lmaooo oh she’s naive lmao
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It's insane how long people have to fight to get disability. My daughter has nocturnal epilepsy which has a risk of dying while sleeping. So because of that possibility she developed anxiety about going to sleep followed by depression. She's been denied twice and will probably be denied a third time next month when she goes in front of a judge. Because they don't see anything wrong with a person in their 20s not being able to live alone, sleep with a baby monitor, and have someone on hand to take care of restroom and hygiene needs after seizures. But like you we couldn't find a lawyer willing to take on her case. Don't give up if you know you need it. That's what they want you to do. The worst they can keep saying is no.
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I am so sorry to hear that. I can’t even imagine what’s that is like, my heart goes out to you and her.
I am in my 20s and it’s the same thing with me as. I’m just so tired of fighting and I do know I need it but the sad part is I cannot afford to keep fighting it and reapplying with no money, the state I have lived in at the time (I’m not sure it’s it like that everywhere else) but they basically told me it looks bad if I work while waiting for approval, even if that current job I had was 2-3 hours a day, MTF.
Yeesh the US sucks sooo bad. It’s like you gotta prove why you’re disabled but by jumping through hoops and hurdles. I wish you and yours luck. ♥️
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Im dealing with an anxious depressive dissorder, and is very dumb of her to think it immediattely qualifies her as disabled 🤣🤣🤣
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I’ve been diagnosed with major depression, OCD, and generalized anxiety since the age of 21 (going on 15 years). Yes, somedays are harder than others. I struggle to get out of bed and have difficulty finding the motivation to clean, cook for myself, or do my normal tasks, but having a job actually helps my mental health immensely! I was unemployed for 5 months in 2023, and I don’t know how anyone could CHOOSE that.
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Awe she wants another hand out, good luck with that.
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I have MDD and PSTD (among other things) and I’m on medication for them. Everyday is a fucking struggle but here I am working and taking my meds even if I don’t want to get out of bed. The thing is, even with or without medication, people with these diagnoses can get through life but Tophia isn’t trying to get better. She isn’t trying to use meds or coping skills to help her navigate a job. She would rather have the government pay her way while she does nothing. I tried to get on disability once for severe debilitating anxiety and after an in person interview, they deemed me fine. I guarantee she won’t get accepted. She would also have to go to appointments and shit to keep up with the decision and I know if she can’t pick up her brother how tf is she gonna go to these appointments? She pmtfo with this shit. Also Tophia, DISABILITY DOESN’T GIVE YOU A PLACE TO LIVE! You’ll still be homeless because you’d spend your checks (if you even got accepted) on bullshit instead of trying to get a place.
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Little does she know people who are legitimately so disabled they can’t feed themselves CANT get disability. What a horrendous lazy pig, I’m disgusted with her on so many levels
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I swear she said before this that she applied?
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And ppl will still sit there and say we shouldn’t judge her and have sympathy like no everything tophia does is calculated and she knows wtf she’s doing
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Idk what it’s like in ABQ but here in Ireland, getting a diagnosis is so stinking hard. You gotta go to psychologists, GPs, apply for diagnosis, etc. You have to have a list of symptoms and a witness from education like a teacher or something. When you apply for diagnosis they always deny it at first. Same as when you’re applying for disability allowance. You can’t get disability allowance if you earn a certain amount of money and the money you can get through work + allowance is barely enough to stay alive. My partner went through all of this for his autism diagnosis. Getting the allowance alone took him like 2 years of constant emails, snail mail, phone calls, and begging for someone to listen to him.
Overall it’s a very lengthy and expensive process full of stress with little outcome if you’re living alone with bills to pay.
I highly doubt Big T has the patience/ attention span for all of that. I don’t think she’ll even get diagnosed with a disability that can get her that money. Not saying ptsd and depression aren’t severe, just saying those can be treated and taken care of whereas something like autism can’t be treated with therapy. You just learn how to live with it, not how to minimize the struggles.
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Maybe, LETS PRAY though! That they actually help her. Then they put her on necessary meds and if This is all DUE to depression, she can turn her life around. Maybe sell a book, go on speaking events. Change her TikTok’s to mental health related stuff to help uplift people. She’d be a REAL SUCCESS story. Then she can make an LLC and give Marie part nd Marie can tap into the Mexican side and offer stuff for Tia, and Nana’s and moms. Oh now I’m going to far. I know this won’t happen 😂😫
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My father was first retire at 43 because of all his pain and the fact that his body cannot handle working yet his disability keeps being denied. But this lazy bitch can file for disability and watch you get approved. All because she’s too lazy to go to work.
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Huh, Tophia pulling an Andrew Ditch....
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She wouldn’t be able to get through the process
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She did self diagnose because of her live she said she hasn’t been able to find help. According to her one place she called didn’t answer and another place said they probably wouldn’t be able to help her. She then said she will look into online therapy instead.
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I don't op I made a post about that too lol 😅 awhile ago. I was correct too
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Most ppl with serious mental health issues don’t even get disability. She won’t even come close.
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I think it's a win win! 🤷♀️ bc,she is not mentally there. So,if she gets a diagnosis they could pinpoint what she has and take her into care.
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She told us about her plans already just days after her brother was shot. She told us,,that she and momachu WILL HAVE „THE ptsd“ for the rest of their lives and that they WILL be provided the necessary doctors by the victims organization (or the shelter?) to get „THE ptsd“ diagnosed and „everything else they might have wrong that she doesn’t even know herself“ to get their disability income. I was baffled when she was talking like that, at this time of her life and with that attitude . She was so happy for getting „THE PTSD“ on her list, totally sure, she WILL have it and without any hope or desire to ever make it better (by time and therapy) - no thought for her poor brother losing his life or her mom getting severely hurt by another bullet 🤬
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Obviously
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Getting disability for any kind of mental illness is actually really hard and you need to have been seeing a doctor who has documented the illness to have evidence of it to give to SSI
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I have MDD and PSTD (among other things) and I’m on medication for them. Everyday is a fucking struggle but here I am working and taking my meds even if I don’t want to get out of bed. The thing is, even with or without medication, people with these diagnoses can get through life but Tophia isn’t trying to get better. She isn’t trying to use meds or coping skills to help her navigate a job. She would rather have the government pay her way while she does nothing. I tried to get on disability once for severe debilitating anxiety and after an in person interview, they deemed me fine. I guarantee she won’t get accepted. She would also have to go to appointments and shit to keep up with the decision and I know if she can’t pick up her brother how tf is she gonna go to these appointments? She pmtfo with this shit. Also Tophia, DISABILITY DOESN’T GIVE YOU A PLACE TO LIVE! You’ll still be homeless because you’d spend your checks (if you even got accepted) on bullshit instead of trying to get a place.
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She will not exceed the income limit 💀she won’t qualify because she is not disabled and she will not be able to prove it either. She can waste her money on lawyers and try but it won’t be approved
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I just had my hearing today actually and it is extremely difficult I applied in 2021 and found a lawyer who immediately took my case the most important thing you can do is have medical records and a long paper trail. My lawyers also told me that where I had tried to go back to work over the years and ended up not being able to also helped. It’s not easy as going into the social security office and saying “I have trama.”
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I shall follow my dream of being a disability fraud investigator in homelesschu’s area and make sure tax dollars aren’t waisted on this below room tempature iq, porky porkin, asian fetish, pedo brother, don’t care for her mother, gambles house money, uber eats all day, piece of shit trash that we still for some reason call a “person” when I see no signs of life other than the bacteria living in her triple chin, still can’t believe her smelly ass grows more facial hair than me
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Same here. I have been dx with Bipolar 2 and MDD, PTSD and severe anxiety and I’m disabled but couldn’t get it based on mental heath. Mine is all approved from the medical end. I’m proud of you bec I know how hard it is. Tophia is in for a rude awakening.
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First and foremost, in order to begin to be considered to for SSDI, one must have “CONTRIBUTED” to Social Security. “CONTRIBUTING” via FICA which is either through working as an employee or paying taxes through self-employment. Which in Tophia’s case would be equivalent to ZERO.
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And most with PTSD do not get benefits; they mostly reserve benefits for veterans with PTSD. She just wants an excuse to be the big back queen Fungus she is
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I was recently approved for disability. I was approved the first time and it took 5 months.
I remember when talking to SS about it. It is people like her who make it hard for those who truly need it. She will never be approved. Not with her permanent mark on the internet. What a fraud -
only way she'll know if she exceed income limit is if she has a history of tax returns that can confirm her income...i assume she don't?
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I remember someone made a theory that the reason she says she’s “working to get a place” is cause always goes towards calling up government agencies to bail her out because that’s all she’s seen throughout her life with mamachu and papachu where they would basically live on welfare and VA funds, and with her parents being incompetent af, she thinks the only way to get herself a “decent” living situation is to call up to government agencies to get that welfare she had as a kid, and let me put my own two cents here, she’s doing this without realizing that the reason they got welfare in the first place was cause there were children in the household, but she’s too dense to understand that.
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Apologies if this is off topic but I wanted to put this out there.
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she’s always trying to apply for everything but a job