Clarification.
It is clear that some of you in here are not adults with fully developed mental and emotional capacity. Let me clear some things up for you:
1) We, as mods, don’t try to “silence” people. Or be complicit in any type of wrongdoing. However, we have to keep this sub somewhat organized and free of bullshit. We have said time and time again, WE ARE NOT THE D*SCORD. WE WANT NOTHING TO WITH IT. THAT HAS ALWAYS BEEN A RULE. I get it. They say some fucked up shit. But don’t post it here because we don’t want any affiliation with that. It’s just that simple. We don’t want it here.
2) SOMEONE DIED. Yeah yeah Tophia whatever, someone lost their life and an elderly woman was shot. Tophia just witnessed her brother get murdered in front of her own eyes. Have some fucking human decency. This isn’t about the d*scord, this isn’t about the reddit, this isn’t about the mods, this isn’t about YOU and how YOU feel.
We will continue to take down inappropriate posts/spam/whatever we deem is necessary to keep this sub organized and a place for information. Thanks.
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I can speak for all the mods when we say we try to be fair and keep this a place for credible information rather than spam and speculation. We aren’t 100% all the time but this is a very serious sensitive situation.
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your opening statement is fact, lots of people in this sub that still haven't unlocked rational thinking yet
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Right? Like it bothers me so bad but there's really nothing we can do but just wait for their brains tk fully develop.
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Gotta be a real dumpster fire for you guys rn, thanks for keeping things in line. Better to be hard line about it now than lose the sub or let the worst attitudes be the loudest in the room.
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as much as i despise tophia im so sick to my stomach, hearing her cry and scream on her insta story literally broke my heart
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Exactly. I couldn’t listen to it because it like when she cries about trolls. Immediately I knew this was bad, and very real. It was one of the first times I felt raw empathy for her and her mother.
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from her screams alone it reminded me of ME when j almost lost a family member. those screams were 100% real and i also couldn’t finish the video im so sick my heart literally breaks for her
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the fact this has to be said is crazy
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I hate this widespread normalization to have a lack of empathy online. They need to either speak with integrity or shut up and leave…they can create private communities where they can be dicks. Publicly it’s just not acceptable and it shouldn’t be.
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it's crazy because the people who are obsessed with this family to this extent are literally showing the same behaviors that they're criticizing.
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EXACTLY like the lack of self awareness is fucking insane
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Thank you for having a heart. A lot of these posts and comments are insane
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the people posting about a “cover up” are crazy. i think it’s clear to anyone with critical thinking skills what the mods were doing.
they’re just looking for something to get riled up about and i guess starting a lame conspiracy does it for them
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RIP Donald Jr. A young man loosing his life is nothing to celebrate.
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Thank you for actually being human in this scenario. Seems like people forgot how to have empathy.
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Yea I don’t like tophia but no one deserves that. We all want her to get her shit together, but not like this fuckin a….
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I’m at a lost for words. As much as I disdain Tophiachu, I wouldn’t wish this upon my worst enemy. Hearing her sob in her IG story was heart-wrenching and I could feel my stomach drop. This was just so… unexpected.
Refrain from any negative comments about this situation. This is a time for grief.
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this is so fucked up. i cannot believe the disgusting lack of empathy so many people in here have. thanks for handling this
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Idk man rip brotherchu🕊️😕
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Jesus, what is the discord even saying about this incident that makes you guys have to post about this. Despite how awful she is, Tophia went through one of the worst things imaginable. God, the discord must be full of sad, sad people to be celebrating this. Yall mods are doing such a good job. Thank you for working hard this morning cause this has to be stressful
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I mean it’s Reddit, there is no empathy here. TikTok is going hard on this thread/sub right now which is how I ended up here. It’s always push push push to these “lolcows” until someone dies and then it’s “well I never meant to”, or “I was just playing around!”, now all of a sudden there’s “eMpAtHy”. Be so foreal, blegth
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Thank you. The hypocrisy in here is shocking right now
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I understand this thought process but the thing is… you can dislike someone and still have empathy towards them when something tragic happens, it’s not hypocritical to express empathy towards her right now. It’s just being a rational human being. Y’all should directing this energy for the people who are actually celebrating this instead of people who rightfully criticize her for her actions and behavior prior to this happening.
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exactly. people are acting like those two things are mutually exclusive. you can criticize someone and also have empathy when something tragic happens to them.
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It's not surprising but Jesus Christ so many of these mfs are just sadists. I don't like most of the lolcows I watch but I would never want them to ever get hurt, they should be arrested or put in the ward . Not harmed. Shame on any of you degenerates celebrating this horrific crime
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Damn Ik we joke and play a lot but nobody deserves to see their brother get murdered. This whole situation is fucked
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This shouldn’t even have to be said that’s insane. Someone died. people need to grow up
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thank you all for what you're doing. this isn't easy stuff to process for anyone involved.
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Thank you mods
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Lmao this is soo true with all lolcows. People (as always) did everything to mess with them , including sharing doxxes Toph did. They are just as bad as these lolcows (except no mental disability) . Like, some of ya'll made it their life mission to go out of their way and mess with randos irl
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Alot of chu watchers lack empathy and it really sucks
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I don’t like Tophia as much as the next person but people have been so disrespectful. No one deserves this and while she needed a reality check, this SHOULD NOT have happened. I hope she heals and can get the help she needs because she lost everything all in one night.
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As a daughter and sister, I can't begin to imagine what Tophia is going through. I'm extremely close to both my mom and little brother, just the thought of losing my brother would kill me. Despite their reputation, no family should ever have to go through this and to think there r some people here who take it as a joke makes me sick.
RIP Donald Jr 🙏
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If you know this account, please report them. This is ridiculous.
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Holy shit... it's this real?
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No one deserves to lose loved ones like this, and being a survivor of an incident like this is not an easy road ahead. We’re all human beings and we can certainly afford a little respect for the trauma these people have incurred.
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Thank you bc there is a dumb bitch in here who keeps saying horrible shit 💀 like it ain’t the time for it
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Thank you 🙏
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Amen 👏
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Even though she is problematic no one deserves to experience that kind of trauma ever
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100% the way I feel abt has nothing to do w how tragic this is
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People unfortunately think bad people means that they deserve events like this.
I’m not a fan of the family although best outcome in my opinion has never been any of them being harmed, but rather them getting the help they need and becoming decent people.
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Tophia isn't the best person but she still has feelings just like everyone else
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thank you so much for this post🤍 I hope tophia is okay.
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May all those who ridiculed her while she and her family were struggling every single day never have to walk a mile in her shoes. May they feel guilt for bullying her and her family, and although she’s made many mistakes she did not deserve what happened to her, nor do her family deserve that either. I pray she’s given resources so she can process everything.
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Off to farming I go then
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It's actually so sick how everyone is trying to diminish her feelings. I've also seen "it's a lesson" "wake up call" ??? Like omg you people have no empathy.
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Death is not a joke and people should respect her privacy with this
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saw a comment on tt saying "I don't like tophia but I'd give her a hug rn" bro she literally lost her brother and her mom is in critical condition this isn't time for you to discuss how you dislike her and then comfort her that pretty much defeats the whole purpose of making someone feel better
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god save the mods, Jesus Christ what a horrifying situation
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Thank you for being reasonable and rational. I was worried this sub would be awful and disrespectful.
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Honestly, after this tragedy, I think this subreddit should just dissolve. Just my opinion.
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Wholesome post
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Thank you. People are so weird
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A day ago I called brotherchu a type of animal without thinking, and even tho I am blk myself I understood and appreciated that under no circumstance is it allowed to do so. You guys are doing a great job. 👍🏽
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How about we take down the post of them at the homeless shelter or the other pics that people go out their way to get of them in the streets🤡, with everything that has happened hopefully we can differentiate the difference between stalking and being a snark page. Yall may not condone it but whenever you allow it you become complicit in the activities that take place
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“Differentiate the difference.”
We have never condoned anyone doxxing their location. Nor asked anyone to. Every time a picture of her ends up here, someone else NOT AFFILIATED WITH THE REDDIT has seen her in a PUBLIC place, taken the picture, and uploaded it somewhere else which eventually gets reposted here.
You guys think we are some evil masterminds behind this page rubbing our hands together and sending people after her. All we do is sit and approve posts that follow sub rules.
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Approving a pic that someone went out of there way to get of her a homeless shelter seems a little like doxxing to me… just seems like you guys are trying to scramble and back peddle on what yall allowed to be posted
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She has never stayed at the homeless shelter. She went there for a meal. If she was actively living there it would be a completely different situation. We have deleted posts of people giving the exact coordinates of where her car is parked.
No one is back peddling. We are adults, the rules have always been the rules.
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So when it’s cool again to make jokes about her? Or the Reddit is now a full support page? Genuine question
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Are you for real? It has been a total of ~9 hours since her brother was killed in front of her in the middle of the night. You seriously need to log off and interact with other human people. Are you that bored/desperate that you feel compelled to joke about someone who was just involved in a horrific crime? Nothing else to do or joke about?
This isn’t a support page. But sometimes tragic things happen that warrant attention and respect which outweigh whatever dumb shit she’s said. Have you watched a family member be shot in front of you?
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Remove my post bc it hurts your feelings? for bullying? remove the ENTIRE SUB THEN!
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Get a life
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It’s not hurting anyone’s feelings. There’s a time and place for these things.
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no one’s feelings are hurt edgelord it’s just… weird lol. Like this is strange behavior
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get a job
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Weirdo alert!
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At a certain age you learn emotional intelligence (i.e. kids learning when it's appropriate to say or do things). Most people reach that before they are 10 years old, not sure why you're lagging behind so severely but I hope that your parents are helping you catch up in that department
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its appropriate to say anything anytime about a pdf
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BOO! 👻 did i scare you? im a job application!
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