Brotherchu's car meet friends helping lay him to rest

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  1. JohKohLoh Share • 570

    That's good. I am praying he gets a burial plot even if cremated so Tophia doesn't have to carry his ashes around 😞

    1. tulipsmona1 Share • 226

      this hurts thinking about that.. god 💔

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      2. Successful_Signal635 Share • -7

        One less pdf stop crying for him tf

    2. finpanz Share • 83

      I commented this on another post but we just had a funeral for my grandmother last month after she passed and the plot alone was insanely expensive. A coffin was even more expensive though I don’t think we got the cheapest option. It made me think about people who couldn’t afford it. If one of my parents passed away I couldn’t afford to bury them. Even a basic cremation with no service is usually a couple thousand dollars. And then I started thinking about how I hope they are enrolled in Medicaid or something because without it Marie’s hospital bills are going to make it even harder to get themselves on their feet. I don’t know if there is a medical debt relief program but I know what it’s like to sob over a doctors bill when insurance wouldn’t cover it and I can’t imagine that on top of everything else going on. I’m extremely worried about her mental state because this must feel like a hole she can’t climb out of with all the arrangements to be made and dealing with the loss.

      1. JohKohLoh Share • 44

        Even if they don't the hospital will sign her up with emergency medicaid. I know having my grandma cremated cost 6k 🥺

        1. Autumncon Share • 30

          6k?? 😭oh my goodness they overcharged and scammed you horribly
          My mother’s last month was $2k

          1. JohKohLoh Share • 14

            I think that includes burying them but yeah that's extremely high.

      2. Cumonme24 Share • 30

        It cost us $37k to bury my grandma back in 2008 and we didn’t even get a headstone, I was just looking back at pictures and saw the invoice from the funeral home. I can’t imagine what it costs today.

        1. Mission-World-6385 Share • 4

          This country is actually cursed because why does it cost $40k to die. Just awful.

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          2. Massloser Share • 1

            It’s because the middle class regularly votes for the problem thinking it’s the solution, which is exactly why we’re in the political mess we’re in right now.

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    3. hydra333 Share • 39

      I’m worried that if he has a burial plot that it would get vandalized… there’s some people’s who will keep trolling even after this tragedy.

      1. Bella_Mortem Share • 6

        Woah atp is not trolling, that's straight up disrespect. There's lines we must not cross 💔😭

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      2. missuzmimi Share • 3

        Yeah that’s not trolling, that’s desecration and a legally punishable act

    4. Sea-Strength7380 Share • 2

      That’s exactly what Tophia would be doing

  2. Ladiesmanz217 Share • 441

    Gawd what an awful fucken way to go. Poor dude .

    1. Successful_Signal635 Share • 1

      Deserved it

  3. Exact-Sorbet-2292 Share • 294

    This feels like a fever dream.. wow

    1. wafflemilkshakes Share • 124

      Literally .. im still trying to process it in my head that brotherchu is actually gone 😨

      1. Successful_Signal635 Share • 1

        Why? Huh? He was an awful person and he isnt in any relation to you so why?

  4. Pretty-Criticism5900 Share • 287

    Saddest part is that this wasn’t due to her being online. They were at the wrong place at the wrong time. RIP

    1. throwaway3763690 Share • 10

      They were in the wrong place because of her. They wouldn’t have been on a street if it wasn’t for her. It is her fault. How do we know the carjacker didn’t target them because they knew it was ppl living in a car?

      1. Chocopuffs04 Share • 3

        If only papachu was paying the bills for their apartment..

    2. Successful_Signal635 Share • 1

      If they got a room or didnt piss all over every place they stayed at it wouldnt have happened. Rot in piss predchu

  5. Exact-Sorbet-2292 Share • 270

    A reminder that these people do not just exist for our entertainment and they are real people with real feelings and real shit like this can happen at any moment.

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  6. catshavestars Share • 219

    very kind of them. rip donald

  7. bB-Toez Share • 142

    This is insane

  8. biohazard_girl1 Share • 139

    That is so kind of his friends prayers for his family

  9. Ok-Ebb2872 Share • 87

    I do apologize for saying this, but I thought the VA (veterans affairs) would be paying for donald's burial plot and funeral service because he is a military veteran? Why aren't tophia and mamachu calling the VA or american legion? I know veteran organizations would be more than happy to arrange the funeral services free of charge. All they got to do is make the call

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  10. fhdnej Share • 73

    He passed away!?!?!!’b

    1. InevitableObvious369 Share • 92

      he was killed

    2. Bish0p_TheBee Share • 81

      he did, check the pinned posts

  11. throwawayayay112 Share • 61

    this is kind of them.

  12. DelmarLemonparty Share • 51

    Dear god he was so young and had a life. What a tragic way to go. It just feels so unreal

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    2. Successful_Signal635 Share • -4

      And he was a horrible person

  13. ImmediateChicken5313 Share • 35

    Angie community(just her) in shambles.

    1. No-Macaroon-756 Share • 12

      Did she make any posts yet? What a horrible situation.

  14. Petah_Griffin69 Share • 31

    these men are real W's

  15. Pleasant_Awareness66 Share • 13

    Social services will pay to have a loved one cremated but no funeral

    1. Ok-Ebb2872 Share • 11

      isn't it the VA's job to take care of papachu's funeral since he is a veteran? It's literally in the contract

  16. biased-observer421 Share • 8

    This feels surreal

  17. 6ozkatze Share • 5

    Why exactly are you guys mourning a predator?

    1. RarestPoet Share • 89

      The change up is insane. We can still acknowledge this as a tragedy AND also not forget the fact that Brotherchu was a predator. I feel bad for Mamachu and Tophia, nobody deserves that. However you aren’t going to catch me mourning a predator and completely ignoring who he was as a person.

      1. catshavestars Share • 59

        we’re not mourning donald. we’re mouraning the fact that both tophia and marie had to bear witness such tragedies

        1. RarestPoet Share • 21

          Girl, look at this Reddit. I have seen handfuls of comments that ARE mourning him and if you didnt see that just go back and look through the posts and comments today.

          1. catshavestars Share • -8

            majority of us aren’t. a handful doesn’t mean that we all sympathize with him

            1. RarestPoet Share • 11

              So you speak for majority of this Reddit thread? Be so fr right now.

              1. catshavestars Share • 1

                a bad choice of words on my part. but most that i have seen are focusing on tophia and marie, not donald. it may not be the same for you.

      2. JR_M20 Share • 27

        It’s called human sympathy. Regardless of what he did, a mother and his sister had to bear witness to his murder in such a gruesome way. The brother was young and was essentially the sole provider for his dysfunctional family. We feel for their loss.

        1. RarestPoet Share • 14

          Did you miss the part where I said I felt bad for mamachu and tophia? I also have a lot of sympathy for children that are groomed and abused at the hands of adults too.

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          2. Mission-World-6385 Share • 1

            I'll be honest I only passingly engage in tophia's lore but did don groom some people?? He was a lil bit older than tophia right?

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          3. JR_M20 Share • -3

            As you should.

        2. Adorable-Reindeer-27 Share • 1

          It takes some emotional maturity to be able to hold two conflicting emotions at the same time. Especially about a single person.

          As humans, we are all as full of nuance as our lives. Don't let people who lack the same grace try and dim your shine.

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    2. Bumblebee-7932 Share • 42

      Exactly!! I don’t get it. It’s sad how he went, but I don’t feel bad for anyone except for mamachu losing a child.

      1. 6ozkatze Share • 38

        Agreed. I can understand his family/friends mourning him but online strangers sad over a predator..? I don’t get it…

        1. landofpleasantdreams Share • 5

          Exactly

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    4. paxam74 Share • -10

      How many more times are you guys gonna comment this

      1. RarestPoet Share • 13

        You are probably going to see it in EVERY post relating to his death moving forward because this is the reality: he’s a predator. Period. If yall wanna forget that you can go ahead and that’s your prerogative. But I don’t think it should be buried just because he died.

      2. ittybittyange1 Share • 6

        Idk why you're being downvoted. It's on every post lol. We fucking get it, Tophia and her family aren't the greatest people. No. One. Deserves. This. We aren't fucking monsters.

  18. ThriftedTeacup Share • 4

    Parasocial relationships are so weird, I know all of this information about the Slydells and listen to all of their lives, just for entertainment purposes but regardless of what I think or what anyone thinks - nobody deserves to suffer like that. Life is already hard enough regardless of whether they put themselves in that situation. This is really sad and terribly tragic. Rest in peace Donald

  19. BitchMcConnell063 Share • 3

    As a mother I couldn't imagine having to endure the lifelong memory of one of my children getting senselessly murdered in front of me. I feel terrible for Momachu.

    With that being said, I hope the social workers at the hospital are able to arrange for them to get into some kind of a safe housing or placement after discharging her from the hospital. It's possible this may be the "intervention" that will get them the resources they desperately need.

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  20. peachtits4me Share • 3

    I am so sorry but who in tf wants a Honda or mustang logo tattoo? I knew a girl once, and I shit you not, she had a Honda tramp stamp. Yeah she looked and acted exactly like what you could imagine. I get it's for a I guess decent cause but you gotta walk around with that forever. Why not just have any piece up to a certain size/detail/color for $60? Or do like a "car meet up car wash" and donate the proceeds. Idk kinda weird to me, I feel like there's a ton of other, better ways to collect money than a shitty Honda tattoo. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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  21. Plane-Stick-5874 Share • 3

    The Change up is insane condolences to his family😔🙏🏽

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  22. Technical_Series_789 Share • 2

    No matter who, a sudden loss of someone so young just devastates families. Very kind of people in the community helping out the family in this way.

    Although completely unrelated I wonder who on earth would be getting car brands tattooed on themselves. Slightly whack fundraising plan

  23. PineappleMacaron Share • 2

    There are still good people out there. I love when a community comes together to help in tragedies. Bless that person that is doing that benefit. I hope they have a good turn out. I bet people that don’t want that tattoo will still come by and leave a donation.

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    damn autobot making quick work of yall

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  32. MentalRayne Share • 1

    I was never in this sub before but watched her lives religiously. This shit is so sad. They did not deserve this and if you feel like they did or get satisfaction behind this please seek help.

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  33. pinklemonsharkkl Share • 1

    this is so disturbing.

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  34. mrbenez Share • 1

    I feel for the mother I don’t care what toph feel or care about the pred dying

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  35. puffindatza Share • 1

    I wish I could go. I wonder if there’s any way to donate

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  36. Trans_man1212 Share • 1

    This makes me so sad 😞

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  40. YouthfullyFeed Share • 1

    Nah, he’s a pdfile

  41. peachtits4me Share • 1

    Who on earth wants a Honda or mustang tattoo? Why not just give all proceeds to the funeral expenses instead of getting some ridiculous tattoo that you'll have forever? I get its for a good cause but honestly how many people do you think are gonna be lined up waiting for some Honda or mustang logo tattoo and do they really think they'll have so many people that it will be enough to cover the costs? Idk this just seems dumb. Just do a $60 flash deal or donate whatever to whoever but this is weird.

  42. peachtits4me Share • 1

    Whoops didn't mean to comment the same thing twice.

  43. pussypopper53 Share • 1

    ik this isn’t a big deal but tophia asked if we could only call them by their real names. It’s so hard to get used to but i’m getting the hang of it loll

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  46. SilverOk486 Share • -9

    Why brotherchu💔😢

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  47. Particular_Radio653 Share • -28

    that's wassup.