Omg
I don’t even have words to even describe what I want to say or even feel. I can’t even think of a title for this post, my heart goes out to Tophia and Marie.
For I do not support their past actions, no one, and I mean NO ONE deserves to go through this kind of thing!! I hope Donald is resting well now, I feel terrible for them all.
Despite this, I hope this puts some sense into tophia, I know I shouldn’t be saying that but I genuinely hope it does, that or the state homes and helps them until they can get back onto their feet. The most they need IS help right now. I worry for the two of them genuinely. I know not everyone will agree with me, but I just want them to get help already. I hope someone can and will help them.
I can’t help but think about the many times Tophia would say “pull up” and threaten to harm others, but I never thought SOMEONE would actually do it. I’m in so much denial about Donald’s passing, a little part of me hopes they’re lying and it’s someone else but it’s definitely confirmed and it BREAKS MY HEART for the two. It breaks for everyone. I would never ever wish this on anyone, at all ever. The way tophia cries genuinely hurts me. I can’t even fathom what’s going through Tophias or even Marie’s head right now.
Regarding her dad, I know he’s been arrested just as this all went down, but my heart goes out to him too. I won’t push his actions aside, I’m not going to excuse anyone’s actions, I just can’t even imagine the thought of losing a family member, more so a son. I’m so worried for Donald’s mental state when he does find out. I hope this sobers him up and actually be a dad.
These are just my thoughts, I’m just ranting now at this point but oh my god I can’t even make sense out of this. I want everyone to be okay, I want them to finally get themselves help.
If tophia is genuinely reading this: I hope you and your mom are okay and I am so so sorry for your loss. Please be okay and please be safe, please find a place where you know you will be safe. My heart and everything goes out to you and your mama.
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I'm shocked and saddened by all this. I actually started shaking. At the end of the day, a lot of us only get pissed because we just want them to work for what they need and only want the best for them. We never wanted this to happen
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I’ve been so sad about this, I can’t even believe this happened to her. I sobbed when I found out what happened. I genuinely hope her and her mom get the help they need. This genuinely hurts my heart, she did NOT deserve this after everything. I am praying for them both as we speak and religion isn’t my thing. :( I want them to be okay.
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i couldn’t even finish watching her break down on her story because it physically hurt to watch. nobody deserves to go through that.
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Listening to her cries was gut wrenching. It makes me SICK!! All I want to do is hug her!! Absolutely no one deserves to go through any of this at all!!! Those were the most real cries I’ve heard come from her. I can’t, it just… makes me so sick.
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Yeah and before this you wished her the worst
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not necessarily the worst, i just wanted her to be more responsible especially the situation she was in. i understand she’s done and said things that MANY people didn’t agree with but she just saw her brother die in front of her. have some compassion or simply shut the fuck up
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I never wished her the worst. It’s more like I want her to take responsibility. Even before this I could never even think about wishing her the worst at all, she might be an awful human being, but I can’t even wish anything bad upon her. She never deserved this.
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why are you lying, you literally cyberbullied her for how many years, thats why this sub exists
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I just joined the Reddit not even too long ago, like a couple months ago
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Never wished her the worse just wished she’d grow up and apply herself more
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Nobody wished her the worst. We wanted her to do better and stop making excuses and making poor decisions. At no point did any sensible human being say “yeah, I hope her brother gets gunned down today.” Dumbass.
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I may not like the Tophia, but I would never wish this on her. She watched her brother get shot and killed in front of her. I can't even imagine what she's going through right now.
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Agreed!! No one should ever go through this :(
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I don’t see how or where else this can take her. I mean fuck, she lost her brother and her only home. She doesn’t have any choice but to provide for herself, it’s bad that it’s because of this though.
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quit making this about yourself maybe
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I’m not?? Im saying it breaks my heart and she doesn’t deserve to go through this.
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the amount of times i counted "I"
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I understand what you’re saying and I am not making this about me. That was a mistake in MY end. It wasn’t intentional. It’s NOT about me. Please understand that. I made it about HER to show MY sympathy. This is NOT about me and never was. Like I said, that was my fault on my end.
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My god relax. Using "i" statements to express your feelings doesn't mean you're making something about yourself. Reread the post. She is clearly stressed and worried for this family and what they are going through.
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my heart truly does break for her. i’ve been in disbelief all day reading and watching the news about her brother and i can only imagine how she feels. i hope her and her mom receive the help they deserve after everything that’s happened to them.