How can we help her?

r/tophiachutiktok • by fairysodaa •

despite everything, i would still be willing to donate or help her in any way i can. (food, clothes, shelter, etc.)

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  1. PreparationMaster160 Share • 115

    Please do not send her money directly. I would wait until something is organized by a trusted source, or I would send her giftcards for food, Uber, etc. If she winds up posting services for a funeral you can call and directly give the money to the funeral home.

    1. Notadamnperson69 Share • 22

      I wouldn’t send her gift cards either, tbh. I feel bad for her and I’m hoping her mother will be ok, but nonetheless she doesn’t deserve peoples generosity. She doesn’t deserve to be sent gift cards, or money. Call me heartless, but she doesn’t deserve anything from people. Please do not donate to her.

      This is a tragic event, and it’s going to be hard for them for a while. But after the shit Tophia has said mocking others dead family members, she shouldn’t be sent shit. You can feel bad for her & have sympathy and still not support her.

      1. Midnout26 Share • 10

        i'm in agreement with you.

        tophia has showed us she cannot be trusted to handle any money and spend it for its intended purpose.

      2. PreparationMaster160 Share • 3

        Totally respect that, but other people may feel differently and want to donate. I’m just offering safer alternatives than just sending her straight cash.

    2. fairysodaa Share • 19

      noted, thank you!

      1. exclaim_bot Share • 3

        >noted, thank you!

        You're welcome!

    3. tiny_esthetics Share • 8

      i will donate to a fund organized by someone else, not tophia. i feel terrible for her & her family but i still don’t trust where she will put the money to.