Emotional Due To Tophiachu
Is it mean or is it very odd that I actually feel like really terrible about Brotherchu dying, even though it’s fully their fault Brotherchu did nothing but try to help his family with the little money he earned, and I also feel terrible for topiachu, all she had was a family and now she’s forced to live in the streets also, the most I’m sad about is mamachu I mean her family was messed up but didn’t deserve what happened to them, so it weird I’m a-bit sad?
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i’m so glad i’m not the only one.
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You’re definitely not the only one
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Yeah it’s easy to dismiss people’s suffering these days but jesus that instagram story made me reconsider a lot
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👏👏
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Nah, it’s called basic human empathy. This whole situation has me feeling emotional and anxious for them too. Nobody deserves that, especially Marie having to be stuck in the car with her dead son and his murderer, I can’t imagine how horrible that must’ve been for her.
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Its normal, this entire day I’ve just been thinking ab this, it’s genuinely ruined my day because of how horrible I feel for her. It’s like secondhand heartbreak because I honestly did want her to do better
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And honestly, I don’t know if I’ll even be active here after this. All I’m worried about is this, and it will never be the same. Most of us have no room to judge anybody anyway. We aren’t our maker, whether that’s god or the universe and anything can happen.
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not weird at all to have empathy. people have gotten so caught up in hating strangers online that once something as tragic as this happens, they have zero idea how to process it. shts sad. but hopefully its a wake up call for both parties as bad as that sounds.
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Just remember to take a break if you need to, like take care of yourself op
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Thank you!! 🥺🫶🫶
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Most of us are :( it’s so tragic.
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I think the more upsetting thing is how overtly evil and devoid of empathy some of the people in this subreddit and on social media are being- yes, it’s legitimately terrible that her brother was murdered in cold blood on a total whim, and yes, it’s also true that tophia has proven herself to be wholly devoid of empathy for others and vindictive- but this weird finger wagging about how “um acksually tophia is a bad person 11!1!1!1!!11” is nasty asf and undermines that her family was torn apart by a murder
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i respect him for saving his mom & his sister
he took a bullet for them. -
an absolute tragedy, prayers to Tophia 🫂
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Yeah I’ve been fucked up about it too. People are so fast to say take a break, take a break, but I can’t. I keep checking her socials, aunt Karen’s comments, and the Reddit. I am just heartbroken for her
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I honestly get stuck in a loophole, I just need information in she’s better or if mamachu is better.
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Yeah. Feeling that. I hope mamachu didn’t see too much for her own sake
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It’s not weird. Not at all. I understand, really, I’ve been thinking about her all day. I feel so hurt for her. This is empathy.
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I don’t think it’s strange. My brother passed in a similar fashion years ago and this news has given me like ptsd or something. Just transported my mind back to that day after hearing her panicked post. Except I didn’t watch my brother die, I genuinely can’t imagine how she can hold it together after this. I can only hope things get better from here for her.
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may your brother rest in peace 🙏 gun laws should definitely change, this isn’t a normal aspect of society that people should live with
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yes my mom died a while ago and omg her story hit something so deeply within me. the cries and screaming brought me right back to when my mom died. it’s such a surreal feeling
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may he rest easy, you’re strong, but take a break from this if it’s too upsetting, you don’t have to watch all this 🫂🙏
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It's been on my mind all day I'm honestly worried sick for mamachu, glad to hear she's okay at least. I don't see how tophia will be able to handle the loss of her brother going forward
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I feel like this, too. Nobody deserves to see a loved one die like that. I can't believe people can laugh about this.
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I don’t think it’s odd it’s just that we have compassion and empathy. I feel extremely bad and sad about the whole thing. They both went through something very traumatic. I don’t think I would be functioning or updating anyone like she’s doing. I’ve been thinking of her and mamachu all day and praying for them.
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Yeah. They are all each other had. Very said situation.
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I am sad, the same way I am when a kid from my home town would die even if I didn’t know them
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its such a heartbreaking situation that no one would have guessed, just thinking about what tophia went through seeing her own brother dead in front of her eyes is traumatizing, i felt so shocked when i first heard what happened. i hope tophia heals from this and tries to be a better person and stay off the internet for a while
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I am also emotional.... It feels surreal that this tragic event accured and my mind refuses to believe it is real... But I can not imagine what tophia felt like seeing her brother getting pew pewed infront of her and her mom getting drived away by the suspect not knowing her moms fate (idk what happend excacly with her mom but remember hearing her getting also shot after) .... So my emotions pales in comperasion to hers. I also cried a bit for marie having to hear the news of her sons death once she wakes up.
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honestly, I've never really had a strong reaction to something in the news like this. I see reports on senseless shootings all the time and feel nothing. But the fact that I'm so aware of the chu clan and the fact that this happened out of nowhere, and realizing the gravity of what occurred...this all really wound up messing with my head.
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I don’t think it’s odd, it’s just having empathy. You can think Tophia isn’t a good person, while feeling for her when something this traumatic happens. Losing close family in such a sudden, unexpected manner is incredibly tough, I can tell you from experience. At the end of the day, they’re human just like us.
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I'm sad as well. Nobody should get murdered like that. Brotherchu was not a great person but he was the only one supporting his family. And I actually like Marie, I feel so bad for her. Idk what she's gonna do now. And losing one of her children, that's terrible.
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As much as we laugh at their antics, they are still human beings. It’s natural for us humans to have empathy and concern for each other.
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Tbh it's all Donald seniors fault, he didn't pay the rent and didn't even bother to tell them until they were kicked out, he put them in this situation, and i hope that everyone will let him know that he is half the reason why his son is gone.
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Honestly, same. Im feeling anxious, and i feel like crying for tophia. She's not the best person, but this is genuinely so heartbreaking, and no one deserves this happening to them.
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how is it fully their fault? carjacking can happen to ANYONE.
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No I mean her situation, not what happened to her that can happen anywhere at anytime.
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Like how she’s homeless, doesn’t want a job etc.
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oh i see
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No it's not odd that you feel bad. We're all in shock and a huge majority of the community here clearly feels bad for her. It's awful what happened. Yes, they were annoying, but they never deserved anything like this. If anything, she's incredibly lucky that she made it out alive. We can only hope that they not only recover from this, but use this as a wake up call
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You’re not the only one. I saw the video on YouTube and my heart dropped. It just made me feel awful to hear her like that; and to know what took place.
I just feel terrible now really for her… and her mom. And for Donald. What someone said earlier resonated with me. It’s a wake up call for both parties; she’s still a human and her entire life has been entirely ripped away.
I really think she’s going to be changed as a person.What little she did have is gone. No matter what she has said; it never warranted the horrors that happened.
A lot of fucked up live streams doesn’t warrant your brother being shot in the head, and your mom being driven around with her dead child, while you’re alone in the dark.I don’t know, man. It’s really dark to think his life and opportunities are gone forever.
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You’re human. You have empathy. ❤️ all of us with hearts are feeling what you’re feeling, you’re not alone
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Yes, it is weird to feel that way or any way at all tbh. But for the internet age, parasocial bonding is normal and tough to avoid, so nobody can blame you. Although I would definitely do some inside soul searching if I ever felt myself getting emotional over anything to do with Tophia or other lolcows...
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all day i’ve been thinking about it as i spend time with my bf, it’s so jarring to stomach i still can’t believe it happened to them. i feel so awful and sick for motherchu
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i’ve always been a silent watcher and never really interacted but i never thought this kind of situation would ever happen to tophia, i know tophia and her family isn’t the best person but i can’t help and feel horrible for what happened. the video she posted on her story is so scary man
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I thought he was a pedo?
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I'm relieved that tophia doesn't need a 3 bedroom house anymore and can save a lot of money by purchasing a 2 bedroom on the like $5k a year she's made on social media. Silver linings
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That’s isn’t the point, the point is her brother is dead, someone who was the only one who supported the family, her dad is jail and there’s not guaranteed that mamachu will be able to fully recovered physically and mentally.
And knowing tophiachu she isn’t gonna work or use that money to use.
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All pedophiles deserve to die
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I agree with that, but honestly she has nobody in this situation he should’ve been prosecuted not murdered.
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Oh noo his bearing on her life doesnt matter
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You really are what’s wrong with people.
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You aren’t the only one, the whole day I’ve been thinking about her and what has happened. And quite frankly when I heard about what happened I teared up a bit. And hearing those IG posts are so chilling…no one should ever have to experience what tophia experienced…I feel for her… brotherchu may not be the best person but one thing I will say is that he didn’t leave his family to rot, he helped them and he worked to help his family…to think that he would go to sleep and never wake up is truly disturbing and disheartening. He’s no angel but I feel incredibly sorry for the way he died. He’s was 27 years old only…RIP brotherchu and my condolences to Tophia and Marie…