She lost her baby brother.
As an older sister with a younger brother this shit has been keeping me up. I can’t blame tophia for anything rn but Ik she’s living through hell rn, to lose someone you grew up with has to fucking kill you as an older sibling.
Even if you don’t like tophia I want you to just think about that. Losing your younger sibling to see them one day and then lose them the next.
The slydells weren’t perfect but they had each other, and now this horrible event has divided a family and has taken a son and a brother.
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this is literally the worst, i almost lost my little brother in front of me too and can feel her pain when she began to scream on her stories. it just doesn’t feel real at all :( my heart still hurts for her and the msg where she tells us to tell our family we love them and hug them etc, made me sob because she had to watch her brother die and couldn’t even say goodbye. i feel for her so so much i hope she’s safe right now :(
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I couldn’t imagine something like this happening to one of my siblings. What was the age difference does anyone know? It doesn’t really matter of course but I just realized she is older. I wonder if papachu is coherent enough to even realize what has happened was he informed?
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Donald Jr. Was 27 if I remember correctly, and Tophia is 30 right? So like a 2 year + a few months or like a 3 year difference?
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my brother is 2 years younger than me, my only sibling as well, and as soon as this happened that’s all i could think about. i can’t bear losing my only sibling
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No one deserved this. No one. I feel for Marie the most riding around with her son’s deceased body has to be horrific even if only a minute or two. I blame only tophia for this.
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What did tophia have to do w this. It was wrong place wrong time. Y’all literally be saying anything
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Wth, why would you blame her for this? Smh
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Bec I’m stating facts
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It’s not her fault, so no you’re not.
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It’s not her fault.. seriously? Disgusting.
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Comicon, concerts. It taking care of mom nope. I feel for Marie and Tophia is at the core of they’re horrible living situation.
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shouldnt you blame the killer?
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Of course it was the killer‘s fault that’s not what I’m saying. I’m just saying she put her family in danger all the time by saying their location and doxxing our self and then she would dare people to pull up. She put her mother’s life and her brother’s life in danger all the time the brother even fought with her when they were staying in the motel because she left the front door wide open and then she blamed him for it. meanwhile he was working.
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This incident is NOT related to anything she’s done on the Internet it was NOT a targeted attack
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Are you just stalking this page to comment on every single post about the situation? Who gives a fuck if this is what they did with their money? I’m glad she’ll have this as one last good memory with her and her family.
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No but I was around for all of it. All the “your mother has cancer hahaha”. My mother did have cancer when she said that. Yall being hypocrites and it’s horrible. I’m not a hypocrite.
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No way y’all just switched up omg, I understand now you feel guilty lol
No guilt for Pedos
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I didn’t “switch up.” All I’ve said is that I can feel empathy for Tophia because this is a traumatic situation, and losing a sibling is incredibly hard. Now imagine being there when your sibling is murder and having to hear it and see it. That’s traumatizing, and I genuinely feel sorry for both Tophia and Marie. And Marie was also shot. That’s terrifying, and I hope Tophia realizes that no one ever wanted something like this to happen to any of them.
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Lil reminder that everything comes back to you: https://www.reddit.com/r/tophiachutiktok/s/vUZssadOum
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stop blaming that girl. it wasn’t her fault
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it wasn’t her fault? it had nothing to do with her being online, it was simply just a tragedy. you’re sick
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Now is not the time to put blame on a horrific incident. How dare you
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I’m stating facts not blame.
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Actually, this looks like you’re blaming tophia to me
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Blaming her for the carjacking itself isn’t fair—she’s not responsible for her brother’s death. But the situation they were living in? That’s a different story. Both she and her brother had messed-up priorities. He was the only one with steady income, yet instead of securing housing, he was buying project cars off Facebook. Meanwhile, she refused to hold down a full-time job when they had an apartment, which is why they ended up on the streets of Albuquerque—one of the most dangerous places to be homeless.
Living on the streets means being watched by people looking for easy targets. Their cars had already been broken into before, so it was only a matter of time before something worse happened. Their parents also failed them by enabling her laziness and entitlement, turning her into the person she is now. And let’s be real—this tragedy isn’t going to change her. She’s going to milk the sympathy for as long as she can, just like she was scamming people on Cash App a few days ago for a fucking cheeseburger
She’s already taken advantage of people’s generosity before—collecting donations that were supposed to help with housing, only to blow the money on conventions and junk. And now, because of her choices, her elderly mother is stuck in the same dangerous situation. That’s the real issue here. If she can’t take care of her mom, then adult protective services needs to step in. No elderly woman should be living in a car under any circumstances. Marie the priority imo since tophia will actively refuse public services or any kind because she cant do her TikTok lives in peace.
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Explain how it’s her fault. Did she cause this to happen? No it was a case of wrong place wrong time. Learn to be respectful when it comes to stuff like this🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
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Losing a sibling is a heartache I wouldn’t wish on anyone. I lost my little sister 17 years ago and it ruined me. I still mourn her like it was yesterday, I think about her all the time. Sometimes it hits me randomly, like driving to work, “oh fuck my sister is dead.” It’s agony. I feel terrible for her, and for Marie who lost her only son.