Why was I even surprised

r/tophiachutiktok • by Ambitious-Ad2479 •

She posted on her instagram story with concerns about a go fund me and cashapps. Not a singular thank you. Not a we are doing fine. Not a my mother is recovering well. Her situation is tragic none the less but come on. You couldn’t wait a full 48 hours to start talking about money

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  1. Iwantszatotopme Share • 15

    Yall act so entitled..She doesn’t HAVE to tell you about Marie’s condition and she’s most likely still processing the extremely traumatic event she went through.

  2. No-Ice-6098 Share • 13

    dude she just went through an extremely traumatic event, i don’t think shes feeling any sort of happiness or gratefulness right now and it’s understandable. this is a weird thing to be expecting from her right now.

    1. Ambitious-Ad2479 Share • -4

      I know what she’s dealing with to an extent. I’ve never been homeless but I’ve seen someone I love die in a horrible way. My first concerns weren’t about people be scammed. She has already been under fire for missing using money and the first thing she talks about when she comes back online is cashapp and go fund me. I feel like she should live had someone else deal with this issue like her uncles or something

      1. No-Ice-6098 Share • 1

        of course she was worried about scamming and you weren’t, considering she has a lot of attention surrounding her name and situation right now. it’s not that hard to understand jesus christ. how can she misuse money in the situation honestly? worst she does is get a place to stay. i doubt any fun things like comic con are even on her mind right now after all of this 💔.

      2. Unusual-Arachnid2116 Share • 1

        so…you don’t know what she’s experiencing. what do you want her to do? she has nobody, no family- literally nobody. she is homeless, jobless, no license, her brother was murdered in front of her, her mother was shot, and her father is in jail. “she has always been under fire for misusing money” her past actions do not erase the fact that she is a victim, nor does her being a victim erase her past. you can feel empathy for a person you don’t necessarily like.

  3. snailsandstufff Share • 11

    ITs crazy because NOW people wanna get her and mama off the streets after the tragedy. Where was all this compassion for being homeless before the accident? Or for mamachus poor health. Toph isn't gonna change. Wait till the dust settles.

    1. Ok_Beginning_963 Share • 2

      THIS

    2. ThatGirlSel917 Share • 2

      This. The amnesia is astounding.

  4. CashFun1227 Share • 6

    She doesn't owe anybody anything right now lmao what? She just lost her brother and her mom is in the hospital, give her a minute. Damn.

  5. New-Cap-1110 Share • 5

    They aren’t doing fine though?? I’m sure she’s being overwhelmed with messages of where they can donate to, so it’s easier to just make one post. Put your thinking caps on it JUST happened reality has NOT set in yet

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  7. arosaki Share • 1

    I feel like it’s possible Tophia didn’t know Donald Jr’s friends at all, which is why she’s saying not to send money to anything that doesn’t come from her & people are largely misinterpreting it as Tophia trying to profit off of this.

    Of course, we know the gofundmes are created by people that knew him who genuinely want to help. Tophia however, does not know or understand that.

    1. Remote_Background558 Share • 1

      Hopefully his friends reach out to her because I believe they held a memorial for him. They claim they are also raising money for Tophia and her mother so sooner or later they have to meet. I’m hoping one of them will be able to assist her with figuring out her situation or getting them a place to stay. If not hopefully the hospital or police will work with the Slydells to get them off the street. I don’t think they would just abandon them considering what happened was a crime.

  8. Semantina Share • 1

    this trump and zelensky press conference reddit post 😭 "yeah tophia, you just watched your brother get fatally shot and your mother get critically wounded, but did you ever say THANK YOU?" ??? like i'm sorry but literally who are you. what does SHE owe YOU rn