I'm gonna be honest with yall, tophia did have time to help herself and everything. It's true. But the fact that some people were just waiting for her to say something wrong to continue attacking her is crazy to me, she's clearly grieving and when you're grieving you say nonsense when I was grieving my uncle I blamed everyone around me I say a bunch of stupid things and for her this was just recently of course she's gonna be saying dumb shut and blaming people. If you think that this is gonna make her hold herself accountable for her actions then you're delusional she's gonna get even worse and it'll be because she's gonna go crazy because of grief.