If she doesn't clean up her act soon people are probably going to resume making content on her in the coming months, people gave her a chance to change and all she's doing is requesting money and blaming us for what happened
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"you should've donated to me Sooner! Now it's too late"
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omg actually? is there a link to that? i listened to her whole story and i heard her say something similar. she said “i wish we could have gotten help sooner” or something like that. I completely didn’t think of it like that til now 😭!! is that it???
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Or maybe you are looking for this one. idk she has said it multiple times https://www.reddit.com/r/tophiachutiktok/s/eIGly8L4RR
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oh yess this is the one i was thinking of thank you! the other one shows more blaming aspects than this one in my opinion. At first i was defending her in my mind about this clip, but now seeing the other clip, im realizing it’s really what she meant. 😞 tophia please..
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She needs to just log off. It's truly sad how addicted to social media she is
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Here is the link https://www.reddit.com/r/tophiachutiktok/s/KSABnkdavk
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OMG i didn’t hear this!! i can somewhat understand where she’s coming from. i agree that most of us began to show more compassion when donald tragically passed, but she isn’t taking into consideration of her actions the past years. While she’s been homeless for these few months now, she’s mainly just used money for expensive take out food and junk that is not needed. It’s also how she got her and her family homeless in the first place without having a job and being stubborn. I feel deeply sorry and it’s gut wrenching what happened. I’ve honestly cried a little bit about it just imagining it happening to me but she needs to take responsibility for the reason as to WHY we weren’t sending money. I only hope and pray for her to get better. It’s only been 3 days so i’ll give her some slack but i pray that this wakes her UP
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I think you used the wrong video, the was asking about the one where she said “ I wish we could’ve gotten help sooner”
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She never said that tho I think they were just summarizing what she said this is the story where she said they didn't get help sooner
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Yeah I figured she didn’t say that, I feel like when they implied she said “yall SHOULDVE donated sooner” was out of reach
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Didn’t she say “I wish we could’ve gotten help sooner” nothing about “yall should’ve donated sooner”. I feel it’s important we use integrity and be completely honest
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My bad, that's what I remembered she said
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Also "why would internet people do this?"
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Yeah well a few days before the event she did get a threat in her dms that she posted so I think initially she believed this was an internet troll.
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i wonder why she said that. I’m pretty sure the car hijacking wasn’t targeted because of social media. It just so happened to be them :/
Unless she’s talking about money then that’s so fked up
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What Tophia doesn’t get is not everything is money and not everyone has the money to give you while you sit on your ass and make fun of the jobs we work… I mean this in the most respectful way possible as well. There is other ways we can without donating or sending her money. But with Tophia logic even if we give her resources she’ll find an excuse as to why it can’t /won’t work without even trying. We can try to help her as much as we want but the only help she will accept is money.
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"you should've donated to me Sooner! Now it's too late"
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Where did she say that??
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“ I wish we could’ve gotten help sooner” was the direct quote
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Give it a month or 2 & she’ll be back talking shit about people with jobs and a 9-5 schedule and say they aren’t shit😒
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That 10k is gonna make her feel like a rich Caucasian woman
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That 10k is gonna make her feel like a rich Caucasian woman
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Soon? It’s been 3 days. I feel it’s safe to say we aren’t gonna see change overnight especially after this, she might even become more miserable or insufferable. I don’t even give it a few months considering people were making content and think pieces on her not even 24 hours after the situation
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People are itching to start attacking her again, which is why they're twisting her words like how you pointed out in a different post. Girls brother died, mom is in the hospital, and dad is in prison. People are already starting to egg her on again (which is why she tried to "doxx" someone but she's still in the wrong somehow). Of course, she's not going to be thinking straight. I can even see her spiraling. She has nothing and not even a place to go back to. Expecting her to make a change instantly is unrealistic and unfair.
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That’s what I’m saying like, it’s gonna take weeks maybe even years for us to actually see progress. Even if she starts filling out job applications right now she might not hear back for a while bc the job market is bad. She really needs to be in therapy too. Plus the ptsd she experienced, people in the military are still traumatized decades after witnessing traumatizing events and most of them aren’t witnessing it happening to a family member. I know I have a family member that still has manic episodes to this day after experiencing too many deaths and that was over 5 years ago. All logic goes out the window when it comes to tophia and I don’t think that’s fair, Shes still a human being who experiences the same stages of grief that everyone else experiences. People are so excited to pick apart everything she says and does right now bc they wanna get right back to bullying bc being empathetic isn’t “fun” and also bc they wanna be able to tell everyone being empathic “I told you so”
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I've seen someone imply that she's faking tears. It's really awful. I get not liking her, but people are being truly unhinged. She was next to her dead brothers body and didn't know whether her mom was dead or alive. But somehow, she has to bounce back and be a perfect victim now 😒
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While i agree with the fact that change takes time, I will say continuing to hate on her at the time shes in is a bit unfair, but Ill also still dislike her as a person until change has happened.
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The police literally told her not to speak about the case, etc. why can't she just stay off social media. Being chronically online is what made her head so damn big. She swears she's "famous" she is NOTORIOUS. The fact that she has the energy to even say anything about "we should've gotten help sooner" is crazy to me.she had months to literally find a job, housing..something to help your family but you refused. I really hope that the money whoever raised for Donald is used appropriately and isn't given directly to Tophia. Because despite what people say about her changing, I doubt it will happen. The gall to post stories trying to redirect go fund me donations and trying to blame everyone else for not " helping " is ridiculous to me. She's back to her old ways, attitude and all.
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She has a chance (dwindling at this point) to actually change people's opinion of her and to focus more on bettering herself and her family. She shouldnt be on social media this soon, she knows the kind of audience she has, and she is feeding her own anger by interacting with people. The only real money she has isnt even from her, its from her brother (and more specifically kind people from the GFM), who was ALWAYS the one keeping Tophia and Marie comfortable in their lifestyle.
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Absolutely
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Unless tophia gets off the internet for good ppl will never stop making content about her.
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It’s like when bob died and people started trolling Chris a week later because he still kept doing fuck shit
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It’s been three days she is not gonna magically change overnight. Would it kill you to give her some grace
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Bold of you to assume she’d ever change .
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I don’t even know if she will, I just don’t think three days after your brother being shit in front of you is enough time to process grief and become a better person like you guys were hoping
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She could change, but it seems increasingly unlikely the more she speaks imo
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I don’t even know if she will but three days is definitely not enough time to process grief and become a better person like I thought most of us in this sub wanted
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Considering her past..I can only give her the benefit pf the doubt for now due to the unfortunate situation that has happened
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She said she was told not to hop on social media but still got on to point blame and demand more money.
She deserves no grace
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I think you guys were waiting for her to do something to piss you guys off again so you can feel justified in hating her after a dark traumatic event
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I can’t speak for anybody else but I never switched on Fupa. I didn’t feel a shred of sympathy or empathy when she came on IG crying about her family getting hurt
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there's only so much grace to be given when the same terrible patterns keep repeating themselves. if this wasn't some kind of wakeup call for, nothing will be.
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This makes sense to say after like… a week at the very least. It’s been three days
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3 days and she's managed to burn through most of the goodwill we didn't know we still had 🤷♀️
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I mean this in a respectful way but what did she say blaming us? i think most of what we’ve done lately is help her