I understand grief looks different for everyone but damn…

r/tophiachutiktok • by Accomplished-Text225 •

Some of us retreat inward and aren’t concerned in the slightest about what is happening on our phones after losing a loved one. I remember not even checking my phone for days after my DOG’S passing. I understand she’s trying to escape reality somehow but grief shouldn’t be an excuse to still be so chronically online (IMO.) Responding to “hate” comments and endless scrolling isn’t going to make her situation any better, she’s not processing what happened at all. She could use this situation to ask for resources and get her shit together, for both her and her sickly mother. I feel for her, I really do, but there’s only so much we can do to help. Money only lasts so long and then what? We all know how this cycle always ends.

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  1. tacbutadhh Share • 63

    Honestly 6 months tops with donations money,before her or her mom dies next…mom old af to take charge and Tophia is just pathetic to take charge

  2. General_Badger2346 Share • 54

    She started to piss me off when she started posting about Girl Scout cookies

    1. freshoutthebuffet Share • 18

      Lmfao. Always hungry, that one

    2. Abandoned_Asylum Share • 3

      Can’t blame her tho. Those things are good af.

      Tbr tho, grief is strange. Sometimes when you see something that used to make you happy in such a difficult and dark state of mind- you latch onto it or notice it more?

      Kinda like if I’m so depressed, I see something stupid and laugh ridiculously hard at it. Because I’ve been so sad, that small moment of joy was a reprieve from my depression.

      Hope that makes sense.
      Just trying to be hopeful.

  3. hydra333 Share • 40

    Yeah honestly my sympathies have run out with her. She’s just going back to what she always does using a bad situation to amply her being a victim. Even tho she was a victim in all of this… she’s back to being horrible

  4. ittybittyange1 Share • 30

    Honestly I scrolled and made comments here and there after my miscarriage, but I didn't post and go back online like nothing happened. I'm scared for Marie. Donald was the only one taking care of her and now that he's gone who fucking knows what's gonna happen. I really hope social services takes over and helps her out.

    1. General_Badger2346 Share • 11

      happy cake day !!

      1. ittybittyange1 Share • 16

        Ahhh, it is my cake day!!! Thank you my love!! ❤️❤️ With all the negativity going on, I hope you're having a good day!!

    2. GrapefruitExpress136 Share • 2

      wow. I'm so sorry for your loss(。•́︿•̀。)

  5. ChaseOnBass Share • 15

    I saw her story where she said we need to leave her alone. But in reality, it's a two way street.

    She needs to leave the internet alone. But we all know she won't do that. If she quits social media; she would run out of people to blame for her own actions and shortcomings.

    Surely, it wasn't the non payment and total disregard for cleanliness that got her evicted. It was definitely the trolls fault she couldn't pay her balance and clean the motel/apartment. /s

    She needs to give up social media and get a job. She doesn't get housing because she needs to work. She doesn't get disability because she needs to give up her tiktok money, or they don't consider her disabled.

    Everything about her life is her fault. This tragedy is awful but it's not magically going to make her a better person. Marie and Tophia never took accounbility for their evictions. And they aren't starting now.