tophiachu is a sociopath
i dont know if sociopath is the right word and i feel like there's a better definition for it but i just sense that she doesn't really care abt what happened with her brother or if anything happens to her mom. she only cares abt the fact that shes gonna have to be alone and do things on her own. I knew she would end up hopping back on the internet and i know shes gonna be milking Donald's death and using it as an excuse to gain sympathy points (during future arguments i wouldnt doubt if she started w "well u dont know what it feels like to go thru something traumatic.."). I feel like she saw this opportunity to make more money out of the situation. I know everyone processes trauma differently but when i went thru something horrific i didn't instantly tell everyone "well i went through something traumatic" as shes currently doing on her stories. I havent lost anyone to gun violence, but I imagine its a long and hard thing to process. I wouldnt say mine was as traumatic yet im barely processing wtf i went thru. Tophia just hopped on the app and started her usual yaps to garner sympathy. Not to mention her crying genuinely sounds fake?? im not talking about the first time it happened bc it did sound legit, but after ?? it sounds like when she used to fake cry back on old lives and i dont understand why people fall for it. this is how you get easily manipulated lol. i can smell her bs thru the screen. ALSO, she never gaf abt her moms wellbeing nor would she pay attention to her brother, why would she care now? its like everyone just erased all her wrongdoings just from 1 situation that she could've prevented by not being greedy or selfish.
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i can understand the dissociation but i really doubt shes gonna mourn her brother nd just bring him up as an excuse when people start being mean to her again in future lives
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yeah she’s just moving onto the next cash grab and is seeing this whole situation as a fat dollar sign, strange behaviour, i’d be in a state of shock for years if i witnessed my own brother die
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no yeah she doesn’t seem to be like attacking from just being shell shocked, it all seems to be a ‘ how can i get things from this ‘
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before somebody (or tophia🙄) starts w "who r u to say how she feels" ur right. who am i to say?? but i think its pretty obvious and i can understand from her pov bc i used to view ppl like that as a kid. i didnt feel any connection w ppl and only saw ppl as a supplier (idk how to better word it lol). Only thing I grew and learned how to emotionally connect w people. I dont think Tophia ever grew out that phase.
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as someone who has lost to someone to gun violence she’s literally being insane. people grieve differently and wtv but for her to BLAME other people is CRAZYYY. She’s seriously just stirring the pot.
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i don’t think it’s really set in for her yet. she seems to be trying to disassociate from the situation.
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I’m not surprised she’s obsessed and loves the negative and positive interactions she gets
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My father was terminally ill. I watched him either and die for 4 years as a young teen.
He died a shell of the man he had been. Stroked out in front of me and my brother. He made it to the hospital... He was already brain dead but my mom couldn't let him go.
She refused to unplug him. His blood pressure sky rocketed the 2nd day and he passed.
It has been over 20 years and I can process it now... But I still suffer from it.
The internet wasn't big then... But I didn't try to grift sympathy even after my mom abandoned me and my siblings at my uncle's house to stay in a tent with her new bf because she was grieving and losing her mind and we had no idea what it was like for her. It was a terrible time...my relationship with my mother still isn't good.... But I never once used my sorrow to gain anything. It hurt too much to bring up even years after it happened.
I have a job. A place. Animals and people who depend on me. I'm not great mentally but I have a better understanding of my issues with age and how to deal.
I've dealt with addiction and suffer bad anxiety and insomnia. I also could be on the spectrum but mom and dad never took me to the hospital for anything as a kid and it is expensive to get diagnosed now.
The point of this is we all have trauma and issues and we all handle it differently.
I didn't use anything from my past as a get of of jail free card. I didn't blame anyone for what has happened to me or my siblings.Life is hard and we can either do what we can for ourselves or we can forever be a victim of ourselves.
Sink or swim Tophia. Learn from this or keep repeating the same tired routine. -
I WAS JUST THINKING THIS
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I think she is sad about her brother passing and very stressed after the trauma, I also think her crying is real because if she can fake cry like that she should be in the theater or something, but her repeating “I have ptsd” is not really selling… however I have a sociopath in my family and its different, tophia is just that stupid and self-absorbed, but not a sociopath, things get to her really easily and she cares A LOT about what others think
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The word is narcissist
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I’ve been saying that many times. She is very sociopathic. She only cares about herself, leeches onto people for whatever she can get and is very manipulative. She is stupid though which is uncommon for sociopaths but I really want her to get evaluated. If not she is definitely a narcissist.
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I didnt lose my dad to gun violence but i found him and it took me like 10 years of therapy lmao
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Some mentioned she might be too autistic to understand the gravity of what happened.
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This is why she’s the way she is. All her life she’s had people make excuses for her actions. First it was her family, now it’s randoms on the internet diagnosing her.
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Nah i have autism and i have a severely autistic child and i do not think she has autism lol autism isnt just stupid people
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certainly thinking this after her most recent tiktok, how has she came back to the internet so quickly after such a traumatic event, she just didn’t seem to be displaying true sadness, maybe she’s dissociating or something but idk