Memorial being held for Donald Jr
i'm glad that donald had a good support system, im surprised at the huge turnout for today. glad tophia is out and about doing things in honor of her brother as well, she can be seen in a blue hoodie at 1:47 and at the end walking up the stairs. i'm glad she's at least trying to heal from such an awful series of events.
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🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️🥹🥹🥲🥲that’s so sweet. What a great group of special friends. May they all be specially blessed. Not very many have their mommas at 63 have nicknames like mamma D.🥰🥰☺️☺️😊😊😍😍. May I also take a sec to honor momma D by saying this is how I am now referring to Marie “momma D”. RIP Donald Jr fly high 🕊️ 👼 🙏🏼🙏🏼didn’t always agree with certain things but you tried to take. Are of your momma the best your knew how.
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A bit morbid, but when Tophia passes do you think any one would do a memorial for her or something? At least Donald had friends
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It’s weird that his “friends” show up for him now in death but let him sleep in his car and be homeless.
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apparently he didnt like telling people his situation, probably out of embarrassment or just not wanting people to feel bad for him. i hope they at least tried to help by giving them food, resources etc :/
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I’m pretty sure they knew. I know a lot of men lack emotional intelligence but they had to see him and his family looking constantly unkempt at meets and figure out something was wrong. They probably just didn’t want to get in his business or he refused help.
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can't help someone who doesn't want the help. i can understand that he doesnt want to accept "hand outs" but his elderly mother is coughing her lungs out freezing every night and he cant even offer help just for her? i hope all these people that turned out for donald help marie out
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He had a big ego, why do think he was so proud to try around those junkboxes.
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What do you mean You know alot of men? Speak for yourself
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…Did you reply to the wrong comment? Nobody said anything like that.
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Right like no one provided any assistance?? Not even financial but in terms of finding better jobs, motels, pushing him to look into programs such as welfare for his family?
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he was 27 and tophia is 30…. two grown adults. people have their own lives and their own stuff to worry about
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You can still help friends in need? No ones saying they are supposed to dedicate every aspect of their life to helping them. A little goes a long way. Even having a deep conversation about their situation would be efficient. Brotherchu had the most sense of them all anyways.
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It's not easy to get on welfare or housing there is a waiting list that takes years even if you have children or they aren't taking any applications and this is coming from someone who knows the system in NM the shelters are no better ive heard stories of people getting unalived or SA or R***** in those places they were safer on the streets New Mexico is a failed state and they don't give a shit about their people
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APS was out to her car a few times and she denied and needs. So it’s Marie but she is bullied by Tophia. Seems like Tophia screams loud and ppl do what she wants to shot her up. That’s still no excuse though.
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Aps?
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Adult protective services.
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Oh my dumb ass was thinking like abq public school lmao I was like tf they going to do for them im slow 😂🤦🏽♀️
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I get that, but even an attempt would make a huge difference or even encouraging them to get assistance such as foodstamps, health insurance, etc. I don’t expect them to get housing since the wait-list is universal, but given that brotherchu had the most sense and was fairly reasonable, it would’ve been highly in their favor if they had outside support/someone that card for their wellbeing since they have zero contact with any other relatives
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You are absolutely right but at the same time people probably did and they didn't want the help we don't really know the full story and the same with foodstamps they probably had it we just don't know what they had and what they didn't im not saying that I side with tophia and them but someone who is from NM it's not all that easy no matter if you ask for help or don't unless you are legit dying the government doesn't care and with tophia knowing that should have pushed her to do better but she didn't
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She said he lied about situation and although he knew he didn’t want ppl making a big deal (that part I disagree on bec it involved a disabled women she’s not elderly stage yet but disabled and he should have spoken Ken up and let them place her before. Yeah I can’t understand doing that.. if that were me and my mom in that situation I would have let them take my mom and could have visited until I had a place for us. Luckily I hav life insurance and so does she and a burial plan.
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True. Where was the friends at when they were homeless?
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i hope some of donalds friends can offer them some emotional support god i hate that things turned out this way.
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True friends. They used a decent pictures of him too.
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I think this is nice because I’ll bet money that Tophia will not give her brother a proper service. She would never ever be able to coordinate that. She will see people doing this and call it a day. That money is going to food and crap.
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She would literally just have him cremated and then have his urn somewhere in the hoard, while blowing the rest on a concert and a shopping spree
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Not even a cremation. She would let his body go unclaimed.
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in storage lol
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Tophia had to show up to get her cut in pay. Seriously I hope it was truly for Donald. Can’t believe I am defending Donald but after getting more facts we know who held that family tothetger and for those who said he bought cars yeah maybe he did but at least he was paying some bills. May his body RIP away for TOPHIAS nagging screams
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i really hope she showed up for donald as well and not to just make herself look good in front of his friends hoping they'd trust her with the gfm money.
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Why’d the camera man pan the camera down when Fupa popped up 😂
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Me trying not to laugh when I saw her giant hair 💀💀💀
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did tophia go
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yes, you can see her at 1:47 and near the end going up the stairs. she also went to the vigil last night for her brother
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Glad to see he had actual friends. And they’re very decent people and by the looks of their cars hard working people with good jobs. Side night I believe Tophia will get a car and she’ll say it’s a car her brother always wanted or she bought blah blah blah because her brother wanted it. But what he really wanted was for them to have a place to live so he could stop dragging them everywhere with him. I’m assuming that Cali trip he had planned was with someone else because the car had to stay for Tophia and Marie.
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She can’t drive. Marie can’t drive right now. Papachu just got out of jail. Can you even buy a car with no license? When I bought my car I had to make sure I was insured first.
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Couldn’t they have done at elsewhere besides at a gas station….
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That was a meetup spot, which makes sense. It looks like that was the starting point for a caravan up a mountain. You can tell they were in a different location, especially considering the fact that there's snow on the ground at the second location.
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Just found it odd they’re all gathered at a gas station. That wouldn’t have been allowed to have all of those cars or ppl there on the property if that was around me. Just assumed they had other places for these kind of things or in a more deserted area
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you dont want people to get gas? such a silly thing to get mad about lol
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Just think it’s trashy to loiter at a gas station for someone’s death. Has nothing to do about getting gas. NM is weird.
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seek help
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no
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I'm from that town. It's the only parking lot at the entrance of the mountain drive. If they tried to coordinate further down the mountain like at the store, they wouldn't be able to drive up together. Car and motorcycle clubs meet there often because it's straight across the highway and up you go. It's a bar and gas station parking lot.
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I'm glad he was able to get a service like this😓
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Wow that's crazy he had that many friends after being an adult and dating kids
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This is actually so sweet 😢
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Aren't these the same people who made a post making fun of him for wandering around awkwardly with his mom at the car meets? They said he didn't talk to anybody, and they talked about how gross he looked
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don't know if its the same people, but i do think some people who watched tophia would go to car meets just to take photos of her. i think donald did have a lot of genuine friends from the car community just by seeing how many showed up for him
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Did we ever meet any of those friends? Idk
https://www.reddit.com/r/tophiachutiktok/s/FrivbChdXv
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pretty sure that person isnt part of the car community, they're actually the ones who made that pig sticker of tophia. either way he still had a lot of people show up for him
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Well...I'm glad that people showed up. RIP brochu🙏
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They are not
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No that was “curseddecals” which makes stickers that aren’t very nice to talk about not. They make a living calling Tophia a 🐷 so I would take it with a grain of salt. ITS NOT HIS FRIEND.
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posted by the same person, username hidden to protect their privacy. donald's friends even gave marie a nickname, i hope they protect their marie because god knows if tophia will step up to the plate for her own mother.