Family?
I know over the years they have talked about how they don’t see or speak to other family. I just find it insane that they could be ignoring this. They most likely know what has happened and I’m assuming no one has offered her a place to stay?? No one has visited Marie?
There must be so much more to the story because that’s wild if it’s true that they haven’t reached out, offered them a room, visited…
You have to be a vile and awful human for your own family to not even contact you in any capacity (this is obviously just an assumption) in a situation like this…
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I do as well, which is unreal because that’s telling about the kind of people they may be in person..
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Their paternal grandmother didn’t mention tophia or brotherchu but mentioned papachu in her internet eulogy. who knows what happened for her family to go no contact basically, and seemingly not want to be associated with them.
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She claims that a lot of papachus family didn’t believe that he was the father of tophia when Marie was pregnant. Allegedly when tophia was born, they saw how much they looked a like and stopped saying that. Papachus mother took care of his daughter, Sophia (the one that tophia claims is NOT his biological daughter. Apparently he started dating a woman who was pregnant and decided to act as if he was sophias father… sounds super familiar but I don’t think it’s the case). The other day tophia slipped up and said that when her “grandmother” was sick, papachus told her “Im going to send you to take care of my mother”. Kind of weird he would say that and not say “your grandmother”. I really believe that papachus family stopped speaking to him because he left a biological child, did not take care of her, and had his mother raise her instead. Shes told multiple stories about Donalds mother refusing to speak to brotherchu and he would cry. Again I think this is something that happened to tophia and not brotherchu. I mean tophia has admitted family members did not believe she was Donald’s child from the jump. Allegedly, the only time tophia spoke to papachus mother, she would ask them for money. I highly doubt this. It’s more likely that the chus were constantly asking other family members for money. No doubt this got really annoying and they cut them off.
Tophia claims they were on good terms with Marie’s mother, but she has a lot of stories from when she was in elementary school and they had to live in shelters. You would think Marie’s mother would allow her daughter and grandchildren to stay with her instead of living in a shelter. Tophia loves to say that this grandmother would tell her and brotherchu that they were her favorite grandchildren bc they would visit her (again really weird thing to say, and more than likely didn’t happen.) Oddly enough, tophia has never spoken about aunts, uncles, or cousins on Marie’s side. At least I’ve never heard her say anything about them.
Sorry for all that blabbing, but the chus have always been the same: they refuse to work, have no money, make everyone feel bad for them, and try to leech off off everyone else around them. This behavior and entitlement is infuriating. I believe this is why their family does not want anything to do with them.
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the first sentence felt a little crazy to read considering all the discourse going on about her being related to papachu
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It must have been bad, because it seems like every single relative is disconnected. That tells me that Tophia is probably horrific in person..
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and then she complains abt ppl “making fun of her dead grandmother”… you never knew that woman girl.
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I think maybe they scammed their family 🤷🏻♀️
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I think so too. I think they probably never stop asking for money all while never working or paying anyone back. Such a mess honestly
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They don’t want her in there space and no one can blame them
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Papachu probably. That's what I've always assumed based on the way he acts now. Though tbf, he was more than likely kept on his meds more regularly back then, but still.
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Both Papachu and Tophia. Tophia has a bad rep and is nasty. Would you want her living with you? Nah man.
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I do think it's sad nobody has offered her a place to stay. I know both my aunts would house me if I was facing homelessness.
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Maria's brother did but they declined because Tophia would have to get a job and shower regularly. She didn't want to get a job nor did Maria want to stop enabling her adult child.
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Did Tophia say this? I believe it, it’s just the first I’ve heard!
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It was either her or Maria. It was a long ass time ago.
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Choosing to be homeless because you don’t want to shower or get a job is wild
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It’s not sad if Tophia is a bad person irl and has pushed every family member away. It just speaks volumes that even in this situation she has burned bridges so badly. 😬
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Even with family, I hate with a passion I still reach out and offer help and love because that is what you do. The exception is one, and they are just like Tophia in every way. I think that is why I can't stand to listen to her for more than a few minutes
I get the impression that they wore out their welcome with family.