Sigh
Okay, I gave a lot of sympathy towards Tophia when everything had happened, and I still do give her my sympathy and my empathy because NO ONE deserves to go through what she’s going through right now, but her blaming US for certain things the last couple of days genuinely irks me.
I know she can be a good person, but at this point I don’t even know. She needs a lot of therapy and she needs to finally get herself up so she can take care of herself and her mom. This blame game isn’t going to get her anywhere.
A thank you for the GFM and the donation would’ve been greatly appreciated by her and everyone who helped with the donations, but oh my god. I feel bad for being a little rude for her during these rough times but come on, Tophia. We have TRIED to get you help but you simply refused time and time again. I genuinely hope she does get the help that she needs but she needs to realize we did try and help her.
I do feel bad for saying all of this but I can’t stand this blaming going on. I have a lot of empathy for her but omg girl.
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I’m glad I‘m not sending her money ever!
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Ngl, at first too I wanted to help but... Now I just sometimes wish I did not know her, or anything about her cuz she's just so... Ugh 😡😮💨
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It’s always easier to blame the world around you than to admit you are the problem and actually do something about it. Unless she wakes up from this mindset no amount of donations will ever help.
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Wish she also taken 😒
Don’t feel bad. I’ve been getting downvoted to hell, you didn’t say anything wrong, everything you said is true and accurate, there’s a person on this sub that even listed available jobs for her numerous times, so many available resources, but she’s too good for them, she’s too good to live in a shelter and eat shelter food