I think this whole incident has completely destroyed her brain
This was the straw that broke the camels back. Tophia has completely shut off from reality. She honestly believes that we are the cause of all of her suffering. The fact that she takes no accountability for a single thing just shows she will never change she will never learn. She is convinced herself that she is the victim and she has no wrongdoings.
I don’t wanna get banned, but we’re all thinking the same thing when it comes to this situation so I’ll just end it there.
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She keeps saying “How am I supposed to get back to working now that I have trauma” girl you haven’t worked in almost 7 years! You never had the intention be fr
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She can always get therapy to help her get a job
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What was there to begin with?
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Not much lol
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She was already way too entitled and narcissistic from the start. This situation may have fueled her more but she was already like this :/
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She blames us for not helping her out of her situation. Yet when we tell her if she had just gotten a job so she wouldn’t have to be homeless she says that it wouldn’t have made a difference to what happened. Then what is it Tophia??
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Yup. She is not living in reality and unless she gets serious help she never will at this point. We are going to see this woman die if something doesn't change.
The only thing we can do is to not add fuel to the fire
Do not interact with her
Do not send her money
Do not watch her content directly
Do not antagonize her -
She hasn’t been living in reality since she was born tbh
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I really thought and hoped this would give her a wake up call and step up! “Like wow I really need to get my shit together, get a job, work, try and save money, take care of my mother etc” but it was the exact opposite 🤦🏽♀️
and not downplaying the trauma she experienced but you cannot let it consume you! My mother passed when I was a young kid and I had to get my ass up to school, keep going and live. The world does not stop for you even though you wish it would!
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Literally, one of the highest crimes in Albuquerque New Mexico is auto theft, and their violent crime rate is notably higher than US average. ( she herself has even admitted that Albuquerque was dangerous) So yea, being homeless, sleeping in a car with your elderly mother and your brother, that was eventually going to lead to disaster.
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Their other car was literally stolen and the rainbow one was broken into before this incident happened. Tophia insisted that she would never be in another hotel or rent again. I hope she realizes now that car life is too dangerous in her city. She should consider moving to another part of NM with her mother (when Marie recovers).
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people on TikTok saying we need to give her time when people already said that when she got evicted, she’s been high risk for something tragic for years now and she refused to listen at each step of the way. Y’all need to talk to old ladies from the Soviet Union cause they will let you KNOW, it can always get worse.
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I dont really care what the people on tiktok say. They're all just coddlers. Like you said, she's been at high-risk eviction and knew well before they were kicked out that they needed to figure out how to bring more money in. If I were tophia, I'd be in a motel with my mother for the time being, trying to get an actual job to bring in a stable income, and trying to find a cheap apartment.
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I’m gonna be real generous and say she’s grieving and this is the blame phase. But then that would mean she’s been grieving her entire life because she’s always blamed external sources for every single thing wrong in her life. Nothing is ever her fault.
It’s sort of amazing how she’s pissed away so much goodwill in less than two weeks. Bad times bring out your true character. Next time people start feeling sorry for her - because I’m sure some more bad shit is in the pipeline - remember this before you donate to her. She’s not gonna say thank you. She’s not grateful for your support.
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Oh of course more bad shit is just down the line for her.Karma is not just a one time thing.Karma comes back tenfold
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Seriously. for most people this would be rock bottom but for victimchu, trauma is the perfect excuse to avoid accountability. All could have been avoided if she did something to avoid sleeping on the streets of Albuquerque
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at this point I have no hope for her.
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And she'll go right back to treating her mother the same way
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She is not behaving any differently than before
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honestly it’s kind of giving me the same feeling as Daniel Larson before he got sent to jail. You kinda already knew there was gonna be a bad ending, but you can’t do anything but brace for impact.
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And she says we can't take accountability for nothing (her words) talking about getting her kicked out. Does she believe that or does she know it's a lie?
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She'll never take accountability for herself. What a rude awakening when her 15 minutes ends. Back to where she started, but maybe in a car to flex in. I told y'all. The Victims Advocate covers funerals and temporary assistance for victims of crimes. Once that ends? Eh...
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it's insanity to double down & go against getting money & being stable from a job. she truly thinks she can be a public figure 🙄 with no talent at all ..just yapping n spewing wild uneducated shit 24/7.. what kind of influencer is that ?
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Even if she dedicated her page to one type of content, she yaps way too much and is always worried about everybody else’s business but her own 😭 she’d get cancelled before she even saw a career
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my point exactly 😆 totally agree 👍 she comesnhere to read comments & goes back to respond. she worries way too much about the wrong things. she doesn't know how to let go whatsoever
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If anything, the violent incident she experienced just gave her more incentive to never get a job, despite many hoping it would lead to the opposite. “You expect me to get a job with *my trauma*” is a new mantra that I fear we will hear for several months—possibly YEARS—to come now that she’s read that sentiment thousands of times from her sympathizes. Like, no, Tophia, no one is expecting you to get a job and solve your generational poverty and homelessness overnight, especially while grieving. But the reality is: A. Your family’s primary breadwinner is dead B. The internet’s kindness and donations will only last for so long and C. You said yourself that being on the streets and in local shelters is not safe and no longer feasible after what you went through.
If you truly prioritize you and your mother’s safety and want her to be well taken care of, time to step up, baby girl