Ok I know I’m gonna ruffle some feathers saying this but I’m sorry I can only feel SO much pity for someone who has made fun of other ppl’s dead relatives and telling people to “pull up” while living amongst your family not knowing what the average person is capable of (especially in New Mexico!!!). This isn’t a post of me trying to make her “at fault” for her brothers death as much as her defenders try to say, but if she would have gotten off her ass and got a job 10 YEARS AGO the probability of this situation would’ve be dropped.

And for people who are defending her, but know barely anything of her lore, it’s ok to feel bad for her at the end of the day because she did lose her own blood in the end, BUT do not twist the lore just because you feel so bad for her! It’s not only something I’ve seen on this Reddit but on TikTok and YouTube of just a bunch of people defending her but only knowing her from the tip of an iceberg, so when you end up bringing up her faults in this case, you start getting attacked for holding a 30 year old woman accountable for her past actions leading up to now. You would think any situation like this would knock the reality of her situation into anyone’s head, but all Tophia has been doing is fighting online and blaming the internet for her brothers death as a way to not take responsibility.

The last thing that I’m gonna say is it’s ok to feel bad for brotherchu, but don’t let that distract you from who he WAS as an individual. That’s all<3