“Grieving”
I don’t wanna hear anything from tophia defenders saying “people grieve differently” she’s not grieving at all. No normal person would be posting this much on social media after witnessing their brother get shot and killed while their mom is in the hospital with a broken jaw from the same attack. YOU NEED TO GET OFF THE INTERNET
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It’s a two bed room she said. We know Marie does whatever Big Back says but the roommate doesn’t deserve it.
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it’s so crazy to me that it didn’t even take a month for her to go back to her old ways. i get everyone grieves differently, but i feel like if any of us were in this situation the last thing on our minds would be “time to log on and argue with strangers again”.
she didn’t even wait for the GFM to reach its goal and now it’s been stuck at 75% completion for days. ever since she started being Tophia again, monetary support has ceased. i wouldn’t be surprised if her brothers friends spazz out on her, at this point
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It hasn’t even been two weeks, right? I thought it’s been like a week and a couple days. If it is, that’s even more insane. My grandpa died 7 years ago, nearly 8, and I still cry at least once a week over that & I think/talk about him daily. When he first passed away, I didn’t touch my phone for weeks, I was ignoring everyone and everything - all I did was lay in bed crying or sleeping when I wasn’t at school. I truly cannot comprehend how this is her “grieving” process, like you said I get we all grieve differently but this cannot be normal?? I don’t believe she’s capable of grieving tbh, she proved it with her dog and she’s proving it again with her literal brother smh.
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Relate! This May will be 7yrs since my dad took his life and I’m still fucked up. I had a mental breakdown two days ago and once last week and had the police called on me for a welfare check. I spent the first year mostly in bed sleeping as much as possible. The first months are blur but I know I barely spoke to anyone. My fiancé would come home from work and just sit in my room even though I mostly slept. I told him you don’t have to stay here when I’m sleeping but he said he just wanted to be there if I needed him. I cried so many times a day for years. I could still cry every day but I don’t always allow myself to. But every time it comes up on the date that he did it, I lose my shit all over again. I don’t think I’ll ever like Christmas or Thanksgiving again. I have ptsd so bad from it. I thought I knew what pain and heartbreak felt like before he did that, but I was SO wrong and I had NO idea just how bad it can get.
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Why the fuckkkk is she so stuck on the news saying Marie got shot in the head/neck area? She mentions it yet again in her stories. I know she’s slow but how is she not understanding a nose and ear are ON YOUR HEAD AREA
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I genuinely think Tophia is so stupid that she believes your head refers to the crown (of your head). You
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wtf I just listened further and she thinks they said she was shot in the neck to make it more interesting? How is that more interesting?
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5 days ago tophia could do no wrong on this reddit and now she does the same thing she always does and everyone is…..surprised…?
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I think it’s less surprising and more so just disappointing
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I don’t think anyone is surprised. It was only a matter of time before she started doing the same shit she usually does. It’s just crazy how fast she went back. It’s only been 1 week, there hasn’t even been a day where she hasn’t posted since the accident
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Idk why anyone is surprised or thought she’d change tbh
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Huhhhhhh, I figured out her plan, maybe. She thinks if she keeps blaming the internet for them not paying rent, etc. Someone will buy them a home because she told her mom they were, and the GoFundMe seems to be stuck at 7k
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So which one of the tiktok eMpaThY girlies is gonna buy her a house jw
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LMAO those people are bugging me so much, they’re just dropping buzzwords left and right pretending that they care so much about Tophia and her family. It’s so odd, it’s like they think they’re better than us when in reality, we were just able to see through the bullshit.
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You know that she is praying for a chance to dump her mom at a shelter
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lol it feels as she shove her phone up her azz to record this.
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What’s crazy to me is her switching between “crying” to her normal dumb, Neanderthal voice lol. I know some people are capable of gathering themselves emotionally that quickly but she’s not capable of anything as we know so I’m fully convinced she’s not even sad, she just knows she should be so she wipes out the crocodile tears when she sees fit. Maybe an unpopular opinion though 😅
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Her phony crying is too much
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It’s really not your place to tell her how to grieve lol.
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Like my childhood best friend was murdered and I took the news in, and went about my day because I don’t know how to process death. This is a stupid post
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If she’s gonna post how she’s “grieving” we’re allowed to judge her on it. If she doesn’t want the backlash, given her history, she should log off and grieve in private.
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Were you posting on social media after being advised by detectives not to? Were you posting about doing a hoodie review? Were you blaming the internet for the death of your friend? Were you dry begging for money? She’s already said from her own mouth if her family died she wouldn’t grieve them because they’re gone
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If she went to the strip club hours after his death that isn’t our business. People handle shit differently. She’s doing all she knows how , which is post
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I’m assuming she’s in the hospital room making all these videos while her mom is bed ridden and in so much mental, physical, and emotional pain and that is really pmo dude stfu and let that woman rest. What a degenerate sociopath.