“victim of gun violence”

r/tophiachutiktok • by Lopsided_Pick9368 •

TOPHIA YOU ARE NOT A VICTIM OF GUN VIOLENCE. YOUR MOM AND BROTHER ARE. YOU WERE NOT SHOT. YOUR LIFE HAS BEEN AFFECTED BECAUSE OF GUN VIOLENCE BUT YOU ARE NOT A VICTIM DONT TAKE THAT AWAY FROM YOUR MOM AND BROTHER WHO WERE ACTUALLY SHOT. YOURE A VICTIM OF YOUR OWN DUMB ASS CHOICES. THATS IT. JUST LIKE YOU DIDNT EXPERIENCE LOSS BEFORE THIS WHEN TALKING ABOUT MARIES STILLBORN. YOU DIDNT LOSE ANYTHING, YOUR MOM LOST A CHILD. STOP TAKING SHITTY THINGS THAT HAPPENED TO OTHER PEOPLE AWAY FROM THEM AND USING IT TO MAKE YOU LOOK LIKE A VICTIM. YOURE NOT.

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  1. MoniqueMojo Share • 272

    No I agree with the comments here, she is a victim of gun violence. The fact that she’s gonna be using that as an identifier for herself for the rest of her life is what’s annoying. Bitch gon change her name to Tophia Victim Of Gun Violence Janese Slydell

  2. ThinUnderstanding180 Share • 220

    Downvote me all you want. I am definitely not a Tophia Defender or supporter of her at ALL, but to say she is not a victim of gun violence is harsh and not true. Gun violence took her brothers life right in-front of her own eyes. Yes Marie is a Victim without a doubt. Marie not only watched her son be taken from her, she also got shot and lost her son and I couldn’t imagine the fear Marie had while being shot sitting in that back seat and watching this dude sit on her sons lifeless body. I feel for her wholeheartedly, so tragic I wouldn’t want to feels Marie pain right now. I am sure if any of you could take a stroll through Marie’s mind right now you’d all walk out bawling.

    1. PhysicalProperty6534 Share • -27

      I heard Tophia ran out before that happened and the car drove off. Do you have confirmation that she saw her brother and mom get shot?

      1. mortuarymaiden Share • 26

        She woke up to gunshots and saw her brother’s blown-open head right next to her, inches away.

      2. knifewife6 Share • 23

        you can read about it through the subreddit's FAQ, there is plenty of resources

    2. Lopsided_Pick9368 Share • -75

      tophia is only emphasizing what she’s going through. she is not a victim to the extent she thinks she is.

      1. shrimp01266 Share • 73

        well, that’s not what you said. of course she’s emphasizing what she went through to boost her importance in the situation, it’s tophia, but that doesn’t mean she’s entirely wrong.

        1. Lopsided_Pick9368 Share • -56

          agree to disagree

          1. TOOLfourtysixand2 Share • -32

            Nah im on your side, fuck her

      2. laxalaus Share • 62

        Man, she watched her brother and mom get shot. She is absolutely a victim to the fullest extent.

        You don't have to like her to have the most basic human empathy for her.

      3. ThinUnderstanding180 Share • 23

        I disagree with you. They both lost someone they love and cherish. They both were in the car. They both saw what that fucking lunatic did to her brother/son. Marie got hurt in the midst of that psycho and Tophia walked from the car untouched. But gun violence yes she is a victim of, but not as insufferable as Marie’s take.

  3. gumdope Share • 197

    Victim: a person harmed, injured or killed. Though she is in great spirits for a victim.

    1. Still_Mission_1918 Share • 27

      And only she can experience this. No one else like this happened. Many people watch loved ones pass an infant to them every day! My job is to console people through death, but I guess only Tophia can go through this. She is a victim of her own circumstance, playing the victim and self-victimization to garner her favorite thing in the whole world: sympathy

  4. sunnicurls Share • 102

    so i just looked more into this and All three individuals are affected by gun violence, but in different ways. The brother and mother are direct victims because they were shot. tophia, who ran away, is also a victim of gun violence because they were threatened with a gun and experienced the trauma of the attack. Gun violence isn’t just about being physically harmed—it also includes situations where people are threatened, witness shootings, or suffer psychological and emotional consequences from such incidents.

  5. Megatyrant0 Share • 97

    Tophia is a victim of gun violence, she saw her brother shot and killed. This isn’t like David Hogg, who was nowhere nearby when his school was shot up and didn’t lose anyone close to him.

    1. perfect_fifths Share • 13

      Yup

  6. ThinUnderstanding180 Share • 47

    Guys, I am sure 98% of us are on this Reddit to discuss Tophia and all the disgusting things she does and says, but guys let be real here. Tophia is a Victim of Gun Violence, and IF Marie decides to come back Online and talk on her Stationhead. Please guys remember KARMA is real and try to put yourself in her shoes, because I bet if you could actually get inside Marie’s mind you’d would def exit with tears in your eyes.

    1. sunnicurls Share • 9

      yeah, tophia was in a gun violent SITUATION, she happened to be the only one to tun off and take cover but she was still involved in the situation, just because she didn’t die doesn’t make her trauma any less valid.

    2. Still_Mission_1918 Share • 4

      Do you really believe Tophia will allow Marie to talk about anything or show her face ever again? Tophia shut her phone off and sold her laptop because she spoke too much the last time she was on it

      1. ThinUnderstanding180 Share • 11

        I think it depends. I think if Marie really wants to go online and has WIFI in a motel or Apartment Tophia wouldn’t be able to stop her. I hope for Marie’s sake she never goes onto that Stationhead Ever again for her own Sanity and protection. Those people are ruthless in there and some are downright EVIL human beings in there

    3. Lopsided_Pick9368 Share • -24

      my little sister was killed and i found my moms dead overdosed body 5 days apart from eachother i don’t consider myself a victim of anything my sister was the victim not me i don’t need to put myself in anyones shoes ive lived it

      1. ThinUnderstanding180 Share • 28

        I bet you’d have a different take if you watched your sister and mother get shot and killed right infront of your eyes.

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          1. tophiachutiktok-ModTeam Share • 3

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        2. Lopsided_Pick9368 Share • -10

          shit happens life is awful you don’t get to play the victim the rest of your life i said what i said

  7. SemoreeRBLX Share • 33

    While I don't like tophiachu, she legit saw her brother die so I'd say that qualifies being a gun violence victim. She may have not gotten shot but even Id be traumatized seeing something like that fr.

  8. IguaR3x Share • 28

    I loathe her lazy ass and I get why many dont have sympathy for her and as much as I think Tophia is going to milk this for sympathy to be a lazy ass still, she is a victim of gun violence.
    She's an armed carjacking victim and murder witness. She woke up to her brother getting shot in the head and witnessed her family getting shot & carjacked. That makes you a victim of gun violence. Even if you hate the victim, you can't just take that away from someone who's been through an event like that.

  9. t_town101 Share • 26

    I dislike her, but she is a victim

  10. PlatypusBackground63 Share • 6

    Technically, she is a victim of armed robbery. The gun was just the tool. There's a difference. His motive wasn't to end lives, it was to steal the car. BIG DIFFERENCE.

  11. something_about_ Share • 2

    The door dash ogre left her family to die as soon as it sensed danger, god she is foul

  12. Lopsided_Pick9368 Share • -6

    talking about your trauma and how much of a victim you are but haven’t said anything about your poor mom with a broken jaw shame on you i feel bad for her not you at all you deserve NO sympathy.

    1. ThinUnderstanding180 Share • 32

      Trust me I dislike Tophia as much as the next person. She is a disgusting narcissistic, self loathing, hypocritical self entitled lazy bitch. But she is a victim too.