the internet made her homeless??
So, I was on TikTok watching videos when I came across this one.
We all know that what happened to her was a tragedy. We can agree that losing a family member is something you would never wish on anyone.
She obviously couldn't have set that up—I don't know what the person who wrote that was thinking.
But why are people in the comments saying that the internet "ruined her" and "caused her" to be homeless?
As far as I know, she never paid rent and always acted irresponsibly when asked to pay rent, choosing to spend money on fortnite coins and deliveries instead.
She is PART of the problem—so why is all the blame on the internet? Are these people really acting like her actions and decisions don’t have consequences just because "she's a victim of bullying"?
The internet wasn't in control of her money, life decisions, it was ALWAYS her.
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A lot of people forget that Shay abused her oldest son into a coma, gets blacked out right in front of them while going live due to alcoholism, got her own children taken away + arrested for neglect, the kids went to school looking disheveled, had maggots and roaches inside her house with those two boys. And don’t get me started on when she had her niece over and the little girl kept complaining about how Shay’s boys were being inappropriate with her
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And the fact that she’s put a lil mud on her ugly ass face and got an apartment has people on TikTok forgetting that. Mind you, she’s NEVER fully accepted responsibility for it and when she has she gets annoyed saying “I already admitted to that-“ hoe EXCUSE ME? ShayBomination The Sea Orca will always receive lashings from me and if she ever got those kids back in her custody, PLEASE know that I am dead!!!!!
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That blob of shit can’t even fight to save her life. There was a viral video of her getting her own ass beat by two trolls
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Omg how did she end up putting her son in a coma?
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Occurrence 1: her son “found” a pill bottle and took all of them. A toddler………she admitted this and then talked about PPD so putting two and two together..she untwisted the top and left it in his reach.
Occurrence 2: her best friend beat him into a coma.
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Maybe she severely beat him. Idk as much about her other than that she was allowing her niece to be touched in front of her by one of the boys in the house even though her niece was literally right there screaming & crying and she could have easily stopped it
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Shay is disgusting and anyone who defends mothers like her are scumbags .
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I really hate when lolcows are brought up on TikTok because there’ll always be people on a high horse complaining about how lolcows (the idea) are horrible and Daniel Larson (for example) is innocent and didn’t deserve what he got, and act like trolls are 100% responsible for his actions (even though he liked kids way before social media… but they leave that part out for some reason)
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Cause they believe lolcows are just people with neurodivergent and everyone is punching down on them that they're weird. Even though most of them have done heinous things, spewed hate rants, scam, people, gets exposed for doing things that are illegal. But they just see a weirdo and feel bad. I hate tiktok for so many reasons.
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i’m telling you. i feel like so much of tiktok is just people trying to be so much morally superior to everyone else.
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This and then all the alt white girl saviors wanna act moral above everyone and make TikTok’s on why lolcows need sympathy and how the internet are terrible ppl
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The internet caused her to be homeless because they weren't paying her bills for her like she was demanding, duh
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Yes because the internet made them be months behind on rent and totally not because they just didn’t pay it, Tophia spending the money on useless bullshit, etc..
People are so dumb when they say shit like “the internet-“-
The internets the reason why she even got the money to spend it on useless shit and they have the audacity to say we put her in her situation and that we did nothing to help or donate our money towards her, it’s quite ridiculous.
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Tophia literally refused (and is still refusing) to get a job or do anything productive. She just let her brother pay the bills/rent/whatever for the apartment and motel because she feels like she doesn’t need to do anything besides watching tiktok. If she had gotten a job i’m sure they would be living in that apartment still. No person except herself made her homeless at all!
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I can't stand an uniformed savior 😒
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You'd think they would be concerned that the internet might do them next whatever doing involves lol.
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The internet didn't ever have an obligation to house tophia. We are not responsible for financially supporting strangers who just don't feel like they should have to work or budget. Where the fuck has all this entitlement come from. This world is hard and if you aren't prepared to work or take care of yourself homeless is where you end up. Life isn't fair for any of us. We had to figure it out. So does she.
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Exactly We are not responsible and we’re never responsible for housing her,financially supporting her and doing as she wants
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How is the internet causing her to be homeless when she could just get off tiktok and stop being a weirdo?

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Like most people didn’t donate constantly to her whenever they thought she needed food or was about to get evicted. It’s not our fault She treats that money like a 13-year-old girl treats her allowance and immediately goes on a shopping spree. Not to mention people have offered advice links to resources or even bare minimum how to improve her content so that she can make a career out of social media. She doesn’t want it.
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Tophia never did anything like getting a job,saving money,putting priorities and necessities first she refused to change the situation her,her mother and brother were in it’s not our fault or the internets fault for making her homeless the truth is she did that herself she needs to take responsibility for it and change her lifestyle and her decisions she made and continues to make now.
People say the same thing about Shay the Apple Store Girl and I just stare at them because you can’t be serious lol…….ngl, they only feel sorry for them because they’re ugly and fat.
They portray a [mammy type of image](https://jimcrowmuseum.ferris.edu/mammies/homepage.htm) (more so Shay since Tophia is biracial) so it’s easier to feel bad for them because..look at them lol.