Anyone else find it miraculous/surprising that Marie managed to raise her two children from birth to adulthood without either of them prematurely dying? Did anyone from Marie or papachu's family help Marie raise tophia and donald jr?

I'm currently in the fall semester studying child development at my local community college and I can't help by think about it's a miracle that Tophia and Donald Jr didn't accidentally die while under Marie's care as children, especially in my health, safety, and nutrition class. One of the most morbid and disturbing things I have learned in the child development course was all of the countless and hidden ways that kids tragically die from that can come out of nowhere. I'm talking about SIDS (sudden infant death syndrome), Reye's Syndrome, accidental drowning, getting hit by a car, accidental drug overdose, shaken baby syndrome, and water intoxication syndrome to name a few of many countless hidden dangers parents have to watch out for. In Marie's case, she wouldn't know basic things like learning to not give babies honey until at least age 1 or not letting babies play with plastic bags due to risk of suffocation. I am assuming Marie and Papachu didn't attending any new parent education classes? I should note that research from Pennslyvania's dept of human services have noted a strong correlations between drug-addicted parents and increased in premature death of children in households where drug use is being practice. Especially in cases like SIDS and accidental ingestion of drugs by kids. Given how Marie was a party girl who had a drinking problem and papachu was a drug addict with schizophrenia, Tophia and brotherchu were at a significant risk of accidental death, which is a miracle they survived well into adulthood. Link here: [https://triblive.com/local/regional/frightening-rate-of-children-dying-due-to-parents-drug-abuse/#:\~:text=TribLive's%20examination%20showed:&text=Drugs%20were%20a%20factor%20in,when%20the%20statistics%20are%20recorded.&text=Most%20drug%2Drelated%20deaths%20reported,days%20to%202%20years%20old.&text=Drug%2Drelated%20deaths%20among%20children,violence%20by%202%20to%201.&text=In%20more%20than%20half%20of,a%20child%20was%20in%20danger.&text=In%20Avery's%20case%2C%20a%20regional,to%20keep%20up%20with%20complaints](https://triblive.com/local/regional/frightening-rate-of-children-dying-due-to-parents-drug-abuse/#:~:text=TribLive's%20examination%20showed:&text=Drugs%20were%20a%20factor%20in,when%20the%20statistics%20are%20recorded.&text=Most%20drug%2Drelated%20deaths%20reported,days%20to%202%20years%20old.&text=Drug%2Drelated%20deaths%20among%20children,violence%20by%202%20to%201.&text=In%20more%20than%20half%20of,a%20child%20was%20in%20danger.&text=In%20Avery's%20case%2C%20a%20regional,to%20keep%20up%20with%20complaints) Reading statistics like this make me surprised Tophia or brotherchu didn't accidentally take papachu's medication or wander out of the house or get bit by rats given their untidy home environment. Given Marie appears to be very slow with a "lights are on, nobody's home" appearance and lazy mentality, Marie could have easily accidentally harmed Tophia or Donald Jr through using vintage home remedies that were commonly used by Marie's parents that are now considered dangerously outdated. These outdated common remedies and practices include putting tequila on baby pacifiers or a parent's thumbs to calm down a teething baby, throwing a baby up in the air, shaking a baby to get them to stop crying, putting babies to sleep on their bellies, and treating diaper rash with baby powder. I'm not saying Marie did this as a parent to Tophia and Brotherchu, BUT what I am saying is that Marie most likely did these remedies and practices as a parent given how these were common practices that existed during Marie's parent's generation as this was common practice when Marie was a child and how Marie didn't understand basic female hygiene practices like wiping herself after peeing everything as she didn't teach Tophia basic female hygiene. Question is, did Marie get help from anyone to raise tophia and brotherchu? Not sure if papachu contributed given his schizophrenia and being busy running scams on innocent people. Thoughts? Concerns?