Does anybody feel like this?

Tophia can’t feel this because she will never admit anything is her fault, even deep down if she knows she forced them to live in a car, it’s still not her fault. She’s not sad he died and she lived, she’s sad she can’t use his money anymore and have him drive her around. It’s not any deeper than that. If she had any feelings, her brother would have been picked up and she would have made changes to her life.

You’re coping. Cope harder

She had too much pride and selfishness to abide by the Uncle’s rules (if any). It’s hard to feel a bit of sympathy for her anymore because of the stuff she says and posts. I felt horrible when she told us Donald had passed that night but then she immediately went and made it about herself and then blamed everyone, still does. Plus, she refuses to take an ounce of accountability for her actions. She’s living in this fantasy world where she truly believes that’s she’s better than everybody and can get away with whatever shit actions she puts online. I just hope at some point in her life she wakes up and tries to better herself somehow.

No. I genuinely think she does not give af.
All the crying and sudden depression didn't start until after the GFM was refunded, she was kicked out of her last shelter because of her own stupidity, and she realized her new shelter isn’t permanent and will most likely have to move again soon. I think the only thing she’s sad and depressed about is not having her brother there to pay for everything so she can sit on her fat ass and do noting but doom scroll and go live.
Before she was kicked out of the shelter, all she did was make thirst traps, go to the mall, buy useless shit, and go live, still wishing death upon people and telling them they were stupid for working a 9-to-5 job. She was truly living her best life

I don’t think Tophia feels any guilt because she never thinks she does anything wrong. People told her living in that car was dangerous, especially in a city like Albuquerque, but she didn’t listen because Tophia knows best. If something bad happens because of a choice she made, she always blames someone else because she’s allergic to any form of accountability.

Within hours of the car jacking and her brother’s death, she was asking for money. Within days, she was low key bragging because she got a free motel room all to herself and getting free DoorDash to her heart’s content. She even said people were jealous of her because she’s a victim of gun violence. That’s some sick shit to say but Tophia said it with her full chest because she believes it.

And if she truly felt bad, she would have claimed her brother’s body and made sure he got a decent burial/disposition. People keep thinking Tophia has some deeply buried morals or conscience but she just doesn’t. Tophia only cares about Tophia. 

honestly, i just think the way tophia has gone about alot of things after donalds death, wasn't right.

i don't remember exactly but i remember tophia mentioned something that donald would have liked and she said, "my dead brother."

maybe it's just me personally, but i would never call someone in my family that. like: "my dead mother. my dead sister. my dead father." It just doesn't sound right???

there's a level of respect that you give to people that you love, and doing that definitely isn't one of them. you should address them as who they are. i think she was only saying it to drill his death into people's brains so they would feel more "guilty" or sad for her, so she could get more money on the gofundme.

i do think tophia has guilt about her donalds death, i don't doubt that and i don't think she's a crazy horrible human being. but, the fact that she contradicts herself constantly is astonishing.

she just posted a video like 5 hours ago saying that she would never hurt someone. but theres literally tiktok live videos about tophia talking about how "she'd shoot someone and wish their parents were dead" and blah blah blah.

tophia is just an epitome of empty threats and lies.

she jumped out of the car and left her mother in it, and then also posts a video of her finger gunning the camera with the text saying "when somebody messes with my friends and family"?????