Its not as weird as you’d believe that her family wouldn’t take her in. Shes way too old to be acting the way she does and has had plenty of years to fix her shit
u/tetsuothestoryteller • 3 weeks ago • score 14
Totally understand. I guess cause my nieces and nephews are in their early teens lol so my outlook is different. But yeah if Toputa was my cousin 31 yrs old fat, social media content, smelly and we know she won't get a job, id probably won't house her too but that's basically the point right?
Like if it was the opposite, 31 yrs old cousin, not stinky, hard working, getting out of an abusive and she needed me to drop her off at a homeless shelter, id be like if you need a place, just stay with me till you gather enough for a down payment for a place to stay.
u/dreamyg_i • 3 weeks ago • score 1
kind of oversharing here so i’m sorry in advance but >!my aunt is like in her 50s but she’s been mentally unwell for all her life, she was living independently until she got a boyfriend and stopped taking her meds, he treated her like trash and she lost her housing. anyway for a while she was rlly struggling, in and out of court n jail. she had like 6 other siblings and she stayed with some of them maybe 1 whole week and by the end of the first couple months only two were willing to keep letting her stay and one of them was my mom who was the only one helping her even when i was a kid before her situation got that bad. anyway all of this to say if 5 of my aunts and uncles refused to take in their own sister when she had nowhere else to go (which i can also understand to a point bc she was becoming increasingly violent)!< i don’t struggle to believe that toph’s family didn’t want to take her in seeing as she’s fully capable of bettering her situation and simply refuses
u/CleanProfessional678 • 3 weeks ago • score 8
If he took her on, she’d be there until she was evicted. She’d probably never clean up after herself, she’d keep posting on social media, and trolls would constantly do things. Look at how much Cyraxx and his trolls put his family through.
u/tetsuothestoryteller • 3 weeks ago • score 3
Oh 100 percent. That's why they only ask her to stop her social media bullshit and work. But she sees that has a threat, they're jealous of her, and taking away her freedom. She wants everything handed to her on a golden plate for FREE.