There's something deeply ableist about seeing someone utterly revolting in every way, like morally and ethically disgusting a person, and minimising all of that down to "well I just think they're disabled".
u/shon_the_cat • 1 month ago • score 90
💯💯💯💯, it perpetuates the narrative that disabled people have no agency.
u/Consistent-Bet-4103 • 1 month ago • score 47
Please tell them this 😭 cause it’s not clicking
u/PipedInFromIthaca • 1 month ago • score 40
Unfortuntately, "not touching the poo" extends to not touching poo-sniffers like Rusty up there.
u/Consistent-Bet-4103 • 1 month ago • score 16
Ah I see well Idgaf haha they can kick rocks but ya to each their own
u/PipedInFromIthaca • 1 month ago • score 21
I just know that trying to debate with those saviour-type idiots would only make me angrier and dumber.
u/Far_Back_7637 • 1 month ago • score 4
I'd say ol' Rusty has been snacking on mamachu's sidewalk surprise at this point.
u/namkookOT7 • 1 month ago • score 11
THANK YOU
u/guayabajam • 1 month ago • score 54
It’s crazy being disabled does not exempt you from being an asshole. You can have empathy for what tophia experienced while still holding her accountable. I wish it wasn’t so black and white with this. I don’t agree with tearing down the girl’s looks but she is extremely vile online and no one should encourage her behavior.
u/Penelopesrevenge1 • 1 month ago • score 4
🙄
u/Penelopesrevenge1 • 1 month ago • score 17
Even my mom just said , after knowing everything about her, “she’s mentally not there, she doesn’t know what she’s doing”.. I don’t get it. My mom would call me a bum if I acted like her.
u/anonymousx97 • 1 month ago • score 15
it’s super frustrating which is why ignore any comments on tiktok regarding a lolcow.
u/Trazadone2023 • 1 month ago • score 13
If it makes you feel better, usually people who post these types of messages do it as virtue signaling to the public. I guarantee you, they’re most likely not willing to support her if she does do another gofundme. Basically trying to boost their own rep, or like send her a $5 at most.
u/Consistent-Bet-4103 • 1 month ago • score 1
At least we don’t have to fund the circus right?
u/INeedAMedKit • 1 month ago • score 18
Disability is NOT an EXCUSE for horrible selfish ILLEGAL behavior. Period. Idgaf who you are or what disability you've got.
u/Donalda_kk • 1 month ago • score 1
omfg what🙄-
u/Independent-Swan1508 • 1 month ago • score 10
even if she was mentally disabled, pple who are like that are still capable of being a decent person. tophia doesn't care about anyone or anything. i given up on her "supporters" a long time ago. tophia would make fun of her supporters in a heartbeat for no reason so idk why pple support her.
u/Aggravating_Pay_1313 • 1 month ago • score 10
No matter the person I will never understand wanting to defend someone you, “don’t even like”. If you don’t like them and see them getting dogged on just say nothing to either party and go to a different part of the internet. It’s like internet virtue signaling. No one is special for sitting on the fence. Before I got more into the lolcow community I saw Tophia. Didn’t like her. Let TikTok know to show me less of her content, and I moved on. It is that simple.
u/Grand-Yellow1259 • 1 month ago • score 6
So many people get off on the feeling of a fence post jammed deep up inside their ass. Usually about as deep as their head is.
u/New-Chocolate5480 • 1 month ago • score 25
A lot of ppl who aren’t that educated in any lolcow lore always say this like yes most lol cows are mentally not there but they r still bad ppl nonetheless.
u/New-Chocolate5480 • 1 month ago • score 16
And that’s what frustrates me they’ll excuse any bad thing a lol cow does as us being obsessed but if they did one minute of their research they’ll find out that most of these ppl r disgusting individuals
u/HighLittlePony • 1 month ago • score 2
Calling a clearly stupid person disabled is offensive to actual disabled people.
u/Bunnyp4wz • 1 month ago • score 3
This persons a scammer, pedophile, racist, animal abuser, ELDER abuser, doxer, blackfisher and so much more. How do people defend this woman.
I’m also mentally disabled yet had I EVER used that as an excuse for doing bad things? No. She’s just a genuinely bad person.
u/NoVeterinarian8622 • 1 month ago • score 6
rusty over here doesn’t know half of what she has done🙄 or what her family has done either
u/wellhouseeee • 1 month ago • score 8
I love the narrative that just because you’re disabled, you’re automatically excused from your terrible behavior. News flash, people with mental/physical/psychological disorders are not free from criticism and can learn right from wrong even if it takes them extra time to understand. Tophia knows very well the distain her words held towards POC/Black people, various cultures and ethnicities + so much more.
Then again its tiktok so let me shut my trap! :)
u/mortuarymaiden • 1 month ago • score 5
Tik tok people are ***notoriously*** bad about excusing every atrocious thing someone does if they have some kind of disability or mental illness. It’s honestly ableist as fuck to say people with those problems can do no wrong.
u/Grand-Decision6449 • 1 month ago • score 7
Tophia defenders are so annoying because ik damn well they would NOT be acting the same way if they knew her irl and had to put up with her 😭
u/Lost_Roku_Remote • 1 month ago • score 2
I follow a lot of different cows and Tophia actually seems like one of the few that isn’t mentally disabled. Tophia seems like a very uneducated person, but not disabled. Furthermore there’s plenty of other low IQ/ uneducated people who are still productive members of society, not the worthless leach that Tophia is.
Edit: Spelling
u/dallas4317 • 1 month ago • score 3
I think if everyone would just stick with all the bad shit she has done and not talk about her looks or her body they can’t say we’re just bullying her. But I know she has a very young crowd so some of them are really immature. BUT for this person to say she has done bad thing because they thinks she’s mentally challenged is just fucked up on so many levels. She knows right from wrong and she’s not stupid. She knows exactly what’s she’s doing.
u/Upstairs-Physics2470 • 1 month ago • score 5
She didn’t burn down an orphanage but her actions caused her brother to be burned to ashes cuz she didn’t wanna get him a proper funeral
u/Younicron • 1 month ago • score 2
Call me cynical but I generally assume that people who excuse or minimise shitty people’s shitty behaviour are shitty themselves rather than empathetic as they seem to think of themselves.
u/pencerisms • 1 month ago • score 2
istg its always those tiktok fuckers. tiktok is a plague and it makes people dumber, and this is one.
u/Grand-Yellow1259 • 1 month ago • score 1
So, I'm not on TikTok, the way it's formatted gives me anxiety problems
Is everyone on there this fucking stupid?
u/Sven268 • 1 month ago • score 1
Oh god I just read their comments earlier.
u/FeralPotathoe • 1 month ago • score 2
She takes no accountability. She says rude things and then gets a victim mentality when she gets it back. She isn't as mentally deficient as she seems.
u/Alternative_Page_444 • 1 month ago • score 1
How many times has she wished death on people's family rusty?
u/Sammy_Saw_Shank • 1 month ago • score 2
And what personally gets me is how these people don’t realize how ablest that sounds. We have no real confirmation of any sort of disability with her, and even if she did that doesn’t excuse any of the shit she’s done or said or how she continues to be. You can be disabled and still be a crappy person. And yes, she does know right from wrong and she does know how to do adult things. That’s why she lies all the time because she knows she’s in the wrong, that’s why she preaches and practices performative activism. And she’s not completely incompetent-she literally took herself to Vegas and back years ago
u/Emu803 • 1 month ago • score 1
I don’t get the argument of saying that others have done worse so it justifies the bad things someone else has done