joined tophias live

idk i really did try to empathize w her bc if my mom got shot too i’d crash tf out, but her constantly going on live and being like “i’m so tired of everyone getting help except me” like…im fairly new here but girl everyone has gone through it? she kept bringing up that she tired of being homeless… i was too and i was literally a child. the difference is i grew up. she loves to be like “this world is so shitty i’m tired of it all” like yeah that’s the harsh reality, the world is not kind to the majority of people and as a poc i learned that very quickly and it’s a shame that she didn’t. I had to work my ass off to get what i wanted in life (and still do) and now i live in a beautiful city, sharing an apartment w my gorgeous partner and expecting a baby. Idk she’s what? 30? Grow up. Nobody is above any job. Go flip a burger, go do janitorial, go do literally any entry level job and it would give you a leg up in life. Anything is better than taking up resources from people who need it. from what i’ve observed she’s completely able bodied? so really what is stopping her. being hispanic myself i can’t imagine a reality where my mom raised me and i didn’t do everything i could as an adult to repay her for that. especially after losing someone in my life. idk ive run out of “aw i feel bad”. grow up, get a job, and SAVE. help yourself so that you can help those around you. otherwise the rest of your time here will be nothing but misery.