Addressing some stuff

r/tophiachutiktok • by Tanjir_HOE •

Regardless of what’s going on and what has been said, I still extend my deepest condolences to Tophia regarding the tragic shooting of her brother. Despite the circumstances surrounding this event, my empathy for her remains unwavering.

It is crucial to clarify that I do not believe the shooting itself was her fault. In that moment, there was nothing she could have done to prevent it.

However, the circumstances that led to their living in a car were largely a consequence of her own decisions. She refused to secure employment, prioritized social media as her career while earning less than the minimum wage, and squandered money on frivolous expenses instead of contributing to rent. These choices had direct repercussions.

What I find unacceptable is her insinuation that I was somehow responsible for the shooting. First and foremost, this claim is entirely false and defamatory. I have made many omissions, but this accusation crosses a line. I reside over 1,000 miles away, making it physically impossible for me to have been involved. Furthermore, the actual shooter was apprehended and subsequently killed on-site. How could I have committed this heinous crime if I am still alive? Her accusations are not only baseless but also dangerous.

It is particularly concerning that someone who claims to be “pro-Black” would falsely accuse a Black man of a crime he did not commit. Such behavior is precisely what leads to innocent Black men being harmed or incarcerated. The fact that she is engaging in this behavior only serves to expose the performative nature of her purported activism.

While I have no intention of pursuing legal action, I reserve the right to take appropriate measures if she continues to spread these false claims. Ultimately, I will not allow these baseless accusations to go unchallenged.

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  1. anthonyyjv Share • 305

    So now we are the ones who set her brother up?? Yea all my sympathy for her is gone

  2. adnoroc Share • 276

    She’s getting bold because she thinks she has an army behind her due to the sympathies she’s receiving on the internet.

  3. Bean_Boozled Share • 133

    Not taking any sides here, but I love how tiktok influencers talk to each other. "Don't try me. I'm not the one." Yeah, don't try a tiktoker, they'll make a few 1-minute long videos and argumentative comments about you lmaoo

  4. 111gct Share • 112

    The same girl that kept referring to two black women as men despite ppl telling her theyre both girls (papamikes) and blaming them for robbing her despite one of them literally being from new york?\€|>]€|!| disgusting

  5. SugarAddict78 Share • 98

    Also, she mentioned how the trauma she went through would prevent someone from going back to work and that’s why she hasn’t been on much. Is she really still going with social media being her job? 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

    1. PhotographProper5133 Share • 40

      Like do she know that people that works lost loved ones and friends all the time and if the job dont offer bereavement they still have to go to work 😭

      1. Maxypad81 Share • 32

        I got held up at gunpoint robbed ans locked in the cooler as a manger at Sonic’s..I got the rest of the day off to recover but I had to be back at work Monday morning..just cause bad stuff happens doesn’t me you get a pass on life..bills need to be paid still kids need to eat..the world still spins no matter what

        1. PhotographProper5133 Share • 15

          Im so sorry that happened to you and thats kinda messed up that you have to go back to work like nothing happened. But agree as an adult we cant just put our life on pause just because something bad happens thats when we need to push forward the most. Heck I wish i can put my life on pause when shit hit the fan 😂

    2. fangzncl4ws Share • 3

      She’s too lazy & detached from reality lmao. She can’t even claim to be a content creator because she doesn’t make any actual content. Shitposting on tiktok like it’s still musically is not how you have a platform on that app. She will learn the hard way about her willing unemployment now that her mother needs the support more than ever. Especially since they apparently cannot be without eachother. I feel so bad for Marie

  6. blixxst Share • 61

    people are surprised to hear that tophia is blaming the internet for what happened to her brother but in the instagram story she made the night it happened, she said “why does the internet-“ or something along those lines, in the midst of her tears. she has always thought this was because of some troll in her comments.

    1. tophiachuqueen Share • 28

      Yes she did say that for a moment “why does the internet-“ and then went onto something. She’s too engrossed into the internet that she herself thought a troll did this or put her in that situation when it has never been the internets fault.

    2. Special-Ad6900 Share • 19

      Caught that too, I was holding off and hoping it was just a weird reaction to this crazy event but nope shes right back to blaming the ”trolls” for literally every single thing in her life lol

    3. CheesecakeWild7941 Share • 12

      idk if youre saying the quiet part out loud but i noticed that

  7. AzellPrincessMae Share • 52

    Her ego is so strong because of too much sympathy..

  8. AlarmedDoughnut5407 Share • 35

    What’s the context of this screenshot

    1. ContentRaspberry3069 Share • 70

      The OP made a TikTok addressing how Tophia blamed internet trolls for her homelessness and subsequently Donald’s death. This was Tophia’s comment on that video.

      1. AlarmedDoughnut5407 Share • 9

        Thank you!

    2. Emu803 Share • 20

      It’s Tophia’s comment on Tanjirhoe’s post calling Tophia out for blaming the internet on the incident along with Tajirhoe’s reply.

  9. babymothball Share • 26

    Get a restraining order against her wack job ass. She's pathetic. She's bold because of money and people who are clueless white knighting her because of Brotherchu's passing. She's going to milk his death for years to come and get bolder and bolder.

    1. Tanjir_HOE Share • 15

      I don’t think a judge would grant me a restraining order because we already live far from each other. Now a cease and desist? Hmmmm 🤔🤔🤔

      1. babymothball Share • 11

        Yes! Cease and desist that's what I meant, my bad. Definitely screenshot all her defamatory comments/messages and I'd suggest asking an attorney who practices in your home state and hers on how to go about this.

        1. Micheymiyo Share • 9

          this is 100% the way to go. she won’t even cough up money for a lawyer regardless of the thousands that have been donated to her. she’s nasty and selfish.

      2. Remote_Background558 Share • 6

        It’s time that someone serves her with papers so she can shut up. Do it!

  10. spooookygurl666 Share • 25

    I swear. Nobody “set her up.” They were in the wrong place, at the wrong time. I wish she’d stop this.

    1. Wow_So_Fake Share • 5

      Someone really should shut her up and take away internet access before she crosses a line that ends in her being smacked with a defamation lawsuit.

    2. Catzinboxess Share • 3

      funny but not really funny thing is she also said while crying that it’s a “wrong place, wrong time” situation…so what is this evolution?

  11. Due-Peach5246 Share • 24

    I knew things were gonna go south when she ran to social media to post about watching her brother die. Yes I know she had already called the police and yes I know people grieve differently, but do you know how addicted you have to be to the Internet for that to be part of your first steps?

  12. txehyungieee Share • 19

    tophia loves spewing complete bullshit. everything she says NEVER MAKES SENSE. EVER.

  13. Particular_Radio653 Share • 18

    😂😂😂. Didn't you make the post saying show her some empathy?

    1. Bean_Boozled Share • 68

      Yeah...empathy for the tragedy. Not empathy for Tophia immediately turning around and using her brother's death to try and boost her social media career instead of getting a job to support herself and her mother now that their primary income earner is gone.

    2. LifeNew5618 Share • 28

      Did you not read what he posted? He said that his sympathy is unwavering and that she still feels empathetic towards her situation.

    3. Nadia_LaMariposa Share • 14

      ☝🏽

    4. Catzinboxess Share • 6

      y’all think making people remember they had empathy is a gotcha?

      1. Tanjir_HOE Share • 9

        I’m glad I’m not the only one who notices it and finds it weird. They all like “didn’t you have sympathy for her a few days ago” yes tf. If I wanted to hide the fact that I felt bad for her I would’ve deleted the shit. They think they sipping tea whole time they drinking piss

        1. ketchupROCKS Share • 4

          Like why wouldnt anyone have empathy for a tragic death? It doesnt mean you have to like the person

  14. hydra333 Share • 17

    I honestly thought Tophia would shut up or learn from this but no, she’s doubling down and I’ve lost most of my sympathy/empathy. Like yeah they didn’t deserve that at all… but now she’s going back to just being an even shittier person

  15. MoniqueMojo Share • 10

    Did she delete her comment? I don’t see it

    1. tophiachuqueen Share • 10

      Doesn’t she have you blocked maybe that’s why you can’t see it.

    2. Tanjir_HOE Share • 8

      It’s still up

  16. Odd_Teacher29 Share • 9

    Oh wow…good for you for handling this with such class and poise. HUGE misfire on her end

  17. BlueyBingo300 Share • 8

    ...She's insane.

    Imagine being so f'd up in the head... that everything and anything that goes wrong in your life... you blame everyone around you.

  18. Remote_Background558 Share • 7

    ![gif](giphy|qquimZUY1jMxIyyOaZ|downsized)

  19. Middle-Cycle-6915 Share • 5

    And it was said that the shooter was already in trouble with the police that night. He ditched his car in the park and went to take their car.

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  21. markysharky2006 Share • 1

    She's getting brave