Another excuse not to work
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yeah kids still have to go to school is she dumb?
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yup unfortunately a lot of kids who were apart of school shootings STILL go to school (tophia chose to make that comparison, which is super insensitive imo)
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Children who survive school shootings still have to go to school, not immediately, but eventually
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she thinks she's the only person in the world with trauma? and also that's not how it works u can't get a free pass. if u have trauma you STILL have to get up and work lol u still have to pay ur bills and continue living. and her mom is not gunna be around forever tophia one day has to live independently she can't depend on someone for the rest of her life.
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🙋♂️ I was in the middle of my junior year of college, working full time when I was diagnosed with PTSD and went into counseling. And my PTSD wasn’t ordinary; I was waking up nearly every night from night terrors.
Unfortunately my 2 birds are like Tophia and don’t work, so I had no other option to continue FT work (and FT classes).
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She’s just lazy smh
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I wonder how long she’ll say this for. Sure you need time to cope but she needs to wake tf up already. Ppl online are not going to continue donating to her the large amount they have a month or two from now and if that’s what she’s expecting then she’s not being realistic. She is nobodies responsibility, ESPECIALLY not the responsibility of bunch of strangers online.
Plenty of us have lost family…wanna know what happens? We mourn and then we have to go back to work/school because bills and other adult responsibilities don’t stop existing for us. That empathy a lot of ppl have for her is gonna run dry very soon 🤷🏻♀️ she’s going to continue with this narrative that it’s somehow the internet’s job to keep her safe from the streets. Anything bad that happens is the internet’s fault. I don’t feel bad about not donating to her after seeing how she’s been acting.
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With the way she keeps talking it's running dry now. Her telling Marie the internet will fund their home is out of pocket. I say to her defenders to be sure to put their payment on monthly, add her to their outgoing "beels" and come next tax season, be the first to add Toph as a dependent to their papers because Tophia doesn't think there is no one else in this world who has had something like this before. Sadly 😔 it has some groups offer help for this exact thing, which is heartbreaking. She could look at this situation, flip it, and be an advocate, but she doesn't want to help others. She wants others to help her.
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Next time she talks about jobs Send this immediately
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she’s gonna get mad because Donald worked at subway and she’s going to make some comparison to somehow validate her not wanting to get a job
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toefungus anywhere near food someone else is going to eat 🤢
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How does she manage to make everything about minors!? She’s so weird and then she wonders why ppl call her a creep. You’re not a child Tophia you’re a grown woman.
Also I hope she realizes what the definition of doxxing is because a public place such as comic con or a park doesn’t count. However, she hasn’t owned up to the fact she doxxed Squid when she revealed her place of work…hypocrite.
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They will pull-proof of her doxing herself and ask her how a public forum doxed her in any manner. She doesn't understand how the court system can pull everything and use it against her. I do know attorneys will also take a retainer just for her to talk and then do nothing to help her 🤦♀️ just to speak to my attorney; it costs $300 she's going to shit and then tell that attorney, "I'm going to sue you for taking my money's and not helping because I have money's now!" Squandering it away.
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It’s sad but unfortunately thats just life and you have to move on regardless of trauma
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I genuinely thought the tragedy would be a wakeup call to change her awful habits. Guess not 🙄
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yes…kids who experience school shootings go back to school tophia? like..? how does that compare
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wait till she finds out kids still go back to school after a shooting.
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I truly don’t fuckin like this person
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She'll use this excuse till the end of time now you watch she's got the perfect excuse to never work again
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not her saying she has PTSD too like girl it’s been 3 days and you haven’t even seen a professional why you lying 😭 always lying about having some issues without actually seeing a professional. And even if she did this doesn’t stop her from getting a job etc…. so many people live a normal life even after going thru something bad, she’s just lazy and tries to find any excuses just to not work
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She will be homeless soon
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Absolutely
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Ohhhhh brother
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I seen this coming. It’s also gonna be excuse for her to never leave her house. If she gets one.
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Maybe a hotel or motel, sure, but she’ll never own a house
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Own no but Marie will probably be offered housing based off her age and disability and the situation that happened and of course tophia will be right there with her cause now that Donald is gone she literally has no way of paying for anything. She’s gonna. Milk this esp with her mom cause her moms gonna need someone to look after her who better than her daughter. SMH
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True. And that makes me so sad. Tophia really needs to learn how to be self-sufficient and independent because unfortunately there will be a day that Mamachu won’t be there. Same with my Mamachu. We don’t live forever
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she could get help thru the state cause she clearly has a disability never discredited that fact but she won’t like a caseworker up in her business I fully believe if she could just get the benefits with no one watching NONE of this would’ve happened. They wouldn’t have been kicked out or at the motel or on the streets. But she’s not gonna like someone managing her money and making a budget for her. And government assistance doesn’t pay much so she could sit on live like Kim peters but they count tiktok money as income so her rent would go up cutting down her benefits. Until she seeks actual help and actually accepts it she’ll forever be in a spiral. I was so hoping this would change her. But it’s just made her more greedy and it’s sad cause I think I’d die if my brother was killed idk if the internet would even know cause I don’t think I’d be able to pick my phone up.
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I have to laugh when I hear that she is going to sue everyone. Would take her $4-5k (just to start) for this many people and no lawyer would take the case lol the one that would, they would tell her a payment, then would tell her that they need $_____ much every month or so. Year 4-5, she doesn’t hear from lawyer anymore and she never saw the inside of a courtroom. IF it went on that long, she would probably stop paying 2-3 months. It’ll be that or the streets …..nevermind. She picked the streets before. 🤦♀️
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She's never gonna get anywhere in life with this mindset
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I have PTSD and depression and I work. I have accommodations that I rarely have to take advantage of, but they exist. What you went through is horrible, Tophia, but you’re going to have to figure out how to cope and survive and better your situation.
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But a job didn’t bring her trauma? Being homeless and living in a car did. If she had a job, she more than likely wouldn’t have been in that situation. If anything she should want to work even more
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What's crazy is she wants to sue college students who have student loan debt and are trying to have careers unlike her lazy ass
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Wtf is she on? We've seen plenty of school shooting victims still live, go back to school, work after, etc....(I remember many years ago(2007) my old school district & the school that had the shooting were back open & in session after an extended weekend.)
And on truama & PTSD. Yes, PTSD is a mf!! It's not easy, but you have to keep trying. You have to keep living! A lot of people have been through tragedy & truama still live, work, go to school, and continue life. Trauma can put the breaks on life, absolutely, but it's not impossible to move on and continue life if especially if you get proper help & find a good cope to help deal with stressers/stress & triggers.(It can be hard but its not impossible)
Tophia doesn't want to try or do anything that takes work still. She wants to be lazy & be handed everything while trying to be a rich influencer(and she's lazy at that, too).
Unfortunately, this tragedy is going to be a new excuse for her to milk for reasons to not do anything for herself & mother (As fucked up as it is to say). I know its only been a week but its still the same shit. Like usual; she gets mad when people give her good advice about getting help/working or what to do to help her & her mother and calls it all harassing if it's not a money handout. -
She’s her own worst enemy. There were a lot of people that felt really sorry for her and were willing to help, but she just had to come right back with that entitled attitude and excuse making and dry up any sympathy people had for her.
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Of course she’s gonna use this as an excuse to not work. LIKE USUAL. At this point she should just leave ABQ and find another place to stay.
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911 was one of the biggest day of trauma people that witnessed that,literally continued their lives hours after but just fazed by it,she’s so damm weak to the point to beat her up just for some strengthening and and humble her brain
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The fact that there are still sympathizers after she compared school shootings to her brother being killed is insane. "B-b-but she has a disability because we (the self diagnosing outcasts) say so!!1!"
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tw but girl stfu my dad shot himself four months ago and i got a new job a month later AND im 10 years younger than you, MOST PEOPLE HAVE TRAUMA AND HAVE JOBS!!
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As a person with middle school trauma this excuse has to be the worst in my opinion
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Strength comes from tragedy. She's weak
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Yeah….i mean when my close family member died I only got two days off which is completely normal. Idk why she’s acting like “in the real world” people get months off they don’t 24-48 hours IF you’re lucky plus the funeral
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why still feel bad for her atp
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I don’t
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I feel bad for little Tophia. The child Tophia that grew up with a mentally ill parent and a useless mom. Adult Tophia, not so much.
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Umm I’ve lost family and still had to go to work 🤭 she’s literally slow ASF
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She made an incredibly insensitive and incorrect statement about kids in schools… wtf. Can she get worse? Lets find out.
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Tophia that is normal life take some time to grieve and then go to therapy and get a job you can't live off the internet drama that will make mental health worse
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I’m going to say that growing up with useless parents, with one parent mentally ill and unmedicated is traumatic. Being poor is traumatic.
But, Tophia has gotten advice and never takes it, and that’s on her.
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People got through trama everyday what makes her special and too good for work
How she gonna sue a whole subreddit FR? 😭😭😭😭