Anyone else stressed at the prospect of Tophia being Marie’s caregiver?

r/tophiachutiktok • by AbaloneNeither5098 •

First off medically, gun shot wounds for already immune repressed Individuals are NO FUCKING JOKE..Even young and healthy people in a sterile hospital environment struggle to keep it clean and healing properly, pair that with Marie’s advance age, whatever shelter or street they’re on, they are cooked. Not only that Marie will need assistance in the washroom and with feeding and basic hygiene. Tophia is literally incapable of doing this for herself so how the fuck is she supposed to do this for Marie? You know what happens to older people whose immune systems are shot when they aren’t wiped properly? Skin Irritation and Infection:
Fecal matter can cause skin irritation, leading to redness, itching, and even sores or ulcers.
Prolonged exposure to fecal matter increases the risk of skin infections, including yeast infections.
Incomplete wiping can also lead to urinary tract infections (UTIs) I can tell you one thing chat, I’m not about to watch tophia literally kill her elderly mother…

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  1. anonymousx97 Share • 95

    If tophia was smart she’d let Marie go to a home until she’s in a healthier state and they have housing but we know that the won’t happen. Marie is also very scared and traumatized and tophia cannot be helped to even stay by her poor mother’s side in a time where Marie really needs her… tophia is still too busy blaming the internet and doomscrolling while her poor mother is hurt and going through it.

    1. Still_Mission_1918 Share • 38

      Nope, she told Marie that we, the internet people, are getting them home, in Tophias words, "because she's a scared mother of three."

      1. anonymousx97 Share • 21

        Where are those defenders and sympathizers at so they can buy them a house 😍. Mother of 3????

        1. Still_Mission_1918 Share • 6

          I keep repeating the mother of three because she said it. I was like, wtf! I think, and this is just what I believe Tophia is going to use the stillborn baby and Jr. (RIP) to make people feel bad for Marie so she can get her sympathy money for the said home. And her saying she told Marie that people are buying them a house will make people feel even worse to boost the number.

          1. snailzoid Share • 16

            she kept repeating mother of 3 because that is the username of the person on tiktok who said marie should go to a nursing home.

            1. Resident-Question-55 Share • 6

              She’s talking about me! My TikTok video she stitches! I’m thatmomof3boyz on tiktok

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            2. Still_Mission_1918 Share • 1

              No, she was referring to Marie in this. She was talking about her telling her mom the internet is helping her with a home. Let me go find the clip if it's still up

              1. External-Mulberry-83 Share • 3

                did you find it?

  2. parkchanbacon Share • 43

    I’m over her stupid rants. If people are smart they will not give her a cent.

    1. Responsible_Emu_5228 Share • 11

      no offense to *them* but tophia sympathizers are not smart 😭 no matter what, they'll continue to suck up to her

    2. Still_Mission_1918 Share • 9

      Ty!!!!!!!!! She has me mad.

  3. moondrop-madhatter Share • 33

    tophia couldn’t even offer her sputtering, wheezing, hacking elderly mother a glass of water when they had a home & her brothers income- what the fuck makes anyone think she’s capable of looking after a victim of random violence whilst homeless and penniless??

    marie is as vile as the rest of them but fucks sake, i hope the state steps in.

    1. CheesecakeWild7941 Share • 6

      didn't she say chips and soda helps her cough or stm

      1. CheesecakeWild7941 Share • 2

        *smt omfg

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  4. Kuuromii- Share • 27

    Tophia shouldn’t have Marie at all. She couldn’t even take care of her before all of this happened. She had her mother running around pissing herself while her diapers were in storage. She didn’t want to go to comic con, but Tophia forced her too and she ended up being stuck in the bathroom.

    There was a time where Marie wanted to buy toilet paper, only to be yelled at by Tophia who said they needed to save money. (She ended up buying pizza instead) Marie was shot in the head/neck area, she needs to be somewhere safe. Far away from her daughter.

  5. talkedandchewed Share • 20

    Im deeply concerned over the wound treatment for Marie after she gets out of the hospital. Right now, Tophia is staying in a motel and if Marie gun shot wound still needs treatment (most likely), there is no way that Tophia could possibly keep up with the treatment of wound care. A home health nurse wouldn't be able to visit Marie since they would be in a motel when Marie gets discharged. Also like what you said, Marie is immunocompromised. Her wound is going to take longer to heal on top of her age. If it becomes infected, it could be so dangerous. I really hope Tophia considered a rehab facility for Marie. This would help Marie gain strength and give Tophia time to get a stable environment to properly care for Marie.

  6. tinydreams95 Share • 19

    Marie will die of sepsis and it will be everyone but Tophia's fault.

    1. CheesecakeWild7941 Share • 8

      because we didn't tell her how to take care of her mom or didn't pay for a home health aid or something

  7. ThatGirlSel917 Share • 16

    My only hope is social services at the hospital is involved and will realize Tophia is not capable of caring for her mother and will engage adult protective services. Marie is no angel, but she doesn’t deserve to suffer and rot at the hands of her ignorant, selfish daughter just after losing her son.

  8. Nadia_LaMariposa Share • 12

    I'm beyond pissed and am praying desperately that adult social services or the hospital intervenes! Tofunky herself confirmed Marie's physical state! Tophia, you have proven time and time again that you're extremely neglectful of any living being in your care, and you are entirely self-serving at any expense! You should NOT be in charge of Marie's life!

    A part of me wishes I was related! I'd be there so fast and demanding I'd have power of attorney! If it was my mother, I 👏🏽 WOULD 👏🏽 BE 👏🏽 MOVING 👏🏽 MY 👏🏽 ASS to make sure EVERYTHING is taken care of!!!! I would not play about my own mother AND STAY OFF OF THE FUCKING INTERNET!!!

  9. Regular_Ad_9405 Share • 11

    For Tophia to say that Marie doesn’t need to go into a nursing home rehabilitation facility is insanely selfish and reckless of her, she is not capable of being without her mom because she’s not capable of ever being alone.

  10. Conscious-Shame-355 Share • 9

    Marie will get a massive infection under her daughters watch. Shes filthy and lazy.

  11. Individual_Post_3857 Share • 7

    Tophia and Marie live in constant filth, both of them before TikTok had no job. Marie needs actual medical attention consistently due to infections and medical complications from her medical conditions before being shot.

  12. housewife420 Share • 5

    I’m not stressed about it. Marie is a grown adult and will make her decision. If she doesn’t want to care about rehab and recovery, then why should I? I of course hope she does separate from T and prioritize her health to get better but if it doesn’t happen that’s on her.

  13. Nearby_Traffic6687 Share • 3

    Very very worrying and concerning

  14. Perfect_Selector Share • 3

    It’s not gonna happen.
    The best scenario is Marie living in a nursing home while Tophia is homeless roaming the streets alberque

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  17. Ecstatic-Piano178 Share • -3

    Why would you be stressed over strangers on the internet when you don’t know them irl????

    1. Perfect_Selector Share • 7

      Why are you here?