Dear tophia defenders, I know that you guys are lurking around here.
I just have one question to ask: How, and WHY do you guys defend tophia? No, seriously, how do you guys do it? I mean, most of you guys are “yt people“ and last time I checked, tophia isnt really fond of you. And don't give me the “But she's a homeless and disabled woman! You're a heartless, ableist, sociopathic moron who doesn't give a shit about people!“ because number one, tophia made HER and her family homeless by not looking for a job, spending her money on expensive junk that she needs, and just being an annoying ass delusional slob who fails to realize that her little “job“ on tiktok CLEARLY isnt helping her at all! And don't even bother with the whole “disabled!“ and “ableist“ nonsense, because there's disabled people that actually have jobs and try to provide for themselves and their families despite having said disabilities. I saw a lady with NO LIMBS do more in one video than what tophia will ever do in her piss poor lifetime. So she really has no excuse, if she has a learning disability and apparently knew this information about her self, why didn't she put in the effort to get into a university or something? Thats what most people with learning disabilities do. I think that it's pretty ableist to somewhat imply that people with disabilities are helpless little beings who cannot fend for themselves and can do zero harm whatsoever. “But she's grieving and has trauma! Cut her some slack, her brother just died for god’s sake!“ Idk about you, but if she was ACTUALLY grieving, would have taken a break from the internet and instead of wasting time on trivial things, use said time to actually look for ways to better herself and figure out ways to actually help herself and her mom, and if we're being honest, Marie is NOT going back into tophia’s “care“. Tophia can't even take care of herself, and we have already seen the way that she treats her own mother, cmon now. Also, you would think that she would actually focus on taking care of her little brother’s body, but from the looks of it, she seems more concerned about her ribs, taco bell, McDonalds, the list goes on and on. Moving on to the motel era, that era should've never lasted that long. I really don't get how tophia didn't come to what remains of her near, if not, NONEXISTENT senses and realized that relying on tiktok isn't helping her one bit. She had so many chances to actually cut this era short by getting an actual job and by putting in the actual work. But as we all no, this is something that you moronic defenders can only dream of happening, because that era is over, those chances are all gone, and quite frankly, aren't needed anymore, because you idiots decided that it would be morally right to coddle and enable a person that you have done no research on. If someone seems to be super hated, nine times out of ten, it's not because they're homeless or isn't conventionally attractive or anything, it's because they're a garbage human being.
Speaking of morals, do you defenders even realize that you're not only defending a lady who WILLINGLY and GLEEFULLY ran a dude off of the internet, and watched asian teen porn without a single care in the world, but you're also defending a RAPE APOLOGIST. If this isnt enough to make you despise this lady, I don't know what will. The asian teen porn incident should've been enough to make you fools actually realize why people start to hate tophia, which should've led into you guys doing some research. Then the whole rape apologist incident should've been enough for you lot to stop defending her. Angie is by no means a good human being, but the fact that tophia decided to fix her lips to say what she said about the whole rape incident is absolutely bonkers (if I am not mistaken, you can check the FAQ for more information, if not then the search bar is your best friend.) If you didn't know, well now you know about some of the terrible things that tophia has done, hopefully this teaches you to stop randomly defending people that you haven't done any research about. My question from earlier still needs to be answered by you lurkers, btw.
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“shit and all too“ couldn't have said it any better😭
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Unexpected Andrew reference
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**YOU SAY I FAKE 🥺**
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Whoa whoa whoa…. Virtue signaling? On TikTok??
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i know, shocker 🙄 lol but i was quite passionate when i wrote this, because my boyfriend and i have been discussing this topic for days now (virtue signaling on social media) and how frustrating and harmful it is
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Covert ableism masked with sympathy, and virtue signaling at it's finest.
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It’s crazy to see this post knowing a small few of us got grilled for calling her out as soon as the incident happened
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Yeah I got downvoted into oblivion for asking why everyone was suddenly switching up and acting all “holier than thou” after the shooting just for everyone to almost immediately go back to acting the way they were towards her previously. I get empathy and all but the hypocrisy was running a little too deep around here for a minute there
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I wanted to say even more but I held my tongue😬
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😭 I’ll be honest I said some wild stuff when it first happened got a couple post removed and had to self reflect tbh 😭 and now seeing what she post and says I’m back
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My opinion would have gotten me executed during that time😔
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Thank god I joined later. Cause I would be the "Lets not forget who she is." person.
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i see folks still flopping back and forth between "lets be empathetic" and also calling her names and p much saying the same thing some of us did. very odd
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no fr i got flamed for not feeling bad. and there was so many pple saying "where is pples empathy at??" like wasn't this the same girl who kept bringing up pples dead relatives everytime she's losing the fight?! and the same girl who complains every 5 secs like why would i feel bad for her??
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People are getting empathy and sympathy mixed up. I'm sympathetic towards the case. But I can't put myself in Tophia's shoes and see things in her perspective. I refuse.
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It wasn’t us getting it mixed up.
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If I thought the internet had ANYTHING to do with my brother not being here. You would never hear or see of me again PERIOD.
One day Tophia is going wake up Alone. She will have nobody.
Look at what tophia did to her families life the last 4 years? How can she continue this?
She made her brothers life miserable when he was alive. People following him, harassing him and taking pictures of him like he is some dang circus act.
Tophia you have blood on your hands. You didn’t have to be living in a car ALL you had to do was get a damn job and do your family disastrous tik tok that only put everyone in harms way for measly couple hundred dollars a month
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I just don’t get why she’s so obsessed with being online let alone being an influencer. Maybe it’s because I’m old and can easily remember a time before the internet/social media existed and know there’s life without it, but it’s clearly something that brings her more misery than happiness.
And I get having a dream but realistically, she’s not influencer material. Even when they lived in the apartment, she was still fairly destitute and lived in squalor and chaos. That’s not aspirational. Her entire life is a cautionary tale.
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You really should have also mentioned the animal abuse and the constant scamming
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I figured that the whole asian teen porn and rape apologist thing would really put some huge things in perspective for her defenders (because people like her defenders would be anti-rape apologist and teen porn thanks to their moral-high-ground and whatever id left of their “common sense“). But this was a huge missed opportunity to include the animal abuse for sure😔
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I’ve seen most people not take the teen porn seriously because “it’s on a porn site so it’s legal/actors are 18-19”
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Which is crazy cause a very prominent adult entertainment company was sued for having actual CP on their website and removed hundreds of thousands of videos from their platform. It’s been proven that these sites were/aren’t verifying the age of these people.
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The fact that tophia had that bookmarked too makes it seem like she looks for that specific genre a LOT
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Don’t let this shit ruin your peace. I’ve wanted to make posts like this too when I’m fuming over her bullshit but it’s like beating a dead horse. They aren’t gonna answer you and you aren’t gonna change their mind. I feel it’s just better to remind yourself of that and take a deep breath and let people fuck themselves over. Much love.
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I hope that her defenders just remember the type of person that they're coddling and defending like she's some sort of helpless little brat.
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I don’t know anyone can defend her at ALL. Tophia belongs in a shelter. I hate that resources are being used on her. She put her family in shambles. She is responsible as her father on why the family lost everything! She is the common denominator in the last 3 years of their life. I wish they’d help Marie and throw tophia in the shelter.
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Tophia needs tough love. She needs to stop being enabled and she needs someone to have a serious talk with her and have her understand the situation she’s in because I don’t think she gets it. That money she’s using on door dash she could be saving for hotel stays with her mom when she gets out of the hospital. Marie NEEDS a safe warm place to recuperate from her GUNSHOT wound. Tophia needs to remember the feeling of being alone when the tragedy happened and realize that could be her SOON if she doesn’t shape up and get off the streets. She knows she can get a job but she just won’t and it’s putting her, and her mother’s life at risk. Tik tok is gone in 5 days what is her plan for money now? Majority of not all of it is probably gone from the door dashing and it’s sad. It’s sad to see someone refuse to help themselves especially when so many people tired to help them with GOOD advice. She’s her own worst enemy and she needs to wake up and shape up before it’s too late and she’s all alone.
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It's always the, "you're picking on a disabled woman". Reducing someone to just their disability to deflect any and all criticism is ableist as fuck.
Tophia is still a garbage human being, regardless of the disability she hasn't been diagnosed with and previously denied having, until it became a shield she could hide behind.
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She did attend the University of New Mexico on a scholarship to study business but she dropped out
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Oh, so she purposely jeopardized herself?🤨
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She apparently dropped out because her parents didn’t have much money and they needed Tophia’s credit card to buy food, however, some things aren’t adding up. Tophia said she doesn’t have a credit score or credit card debt despite her saying that and how her father took credit cards out in her name to start businesses that failed.
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That's just..nevermind.
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Here you go https://www.reddit.com/r/tophiachutiktok/s/R7dd65YDa9
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Oh god it's even worse. Theres so many what ifs when it comes to this damn woman its not even funny.
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Also right before eviction from the last hotel. She had to get another service, because T-Mobile shut down their service on their phones. She owes T mobile over 1,000.00 so she def is in collections for that.
So her other argument when she was buying all the Temu junk, video games and DoorDash. She said all her bills were paid and she could afford to buy that stuff is another bold face LIE from Tophia she want paying her cell phone
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If you're not a tophia defender then there's no need to be reading “all of this“😊
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Oh dw I didn’t and I won’t
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you thought you ate with that LOL
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No, I was just saying that it's ok if you DONT want to read this essay of a rant. I wouldn't either😭
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the tophia defenders aren’t reading all this either lol
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I find it highly deplorable how Tophia is handling this situation. Especially after everything Donald Jr did for that family. They lost the only able body and mind person in her corner. But she wants to flex on people about a rack of ribs or hashbrowns. She's a disgusting human being through and through. She has no redeemable qualities what so ever. Why do people put blinders on when bad things happen. I'm more sad that Donald lost his life in a situation that could have easily got out of if she pulled her weight. Yet she will never acknowledge that. She will continue to blame outside sources for her own demise. How bad is her situation going to get before she realized "I need to take control of my life some way." I honestly don't think that will ever happen. She will succumb to being on the streets and turn to drugs or alcohol. A sad but true statistic for people like her.
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I highly doubt that she took care of Donald’s body yet, too😒
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Which baffles me. I hope her time off the internet it time spent getting things in order. Since she's tight lipped about their plans we can only hope.
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She’s gonna let the county bury him so she doesn’t have to spend a dime, then go online and bawl that “the morgue stole [her] dead brother’s dead body, why’d they doooo thaaat?.
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And then MORE defenders will come pouring in😭
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Is there a link to her being a rape apologist? I need to see that one.
to answer your first question, it's virtue signaling. i think a certain group of people fully believe that people with an intellectual disability could either do no wrong or not understand the gravity of their situation which tophia clearly both does wrong and understands how bad her situation is, she just thinks its not her job to correct it. shrugs
i believe it is more ableist to sit and say that tophia is incapable of helping herself and is exempt from criticism because she is disabled rather than making her accountable for her actions. there are disabled people who actually are unable to tell right from wrong or truly able to help themselves. even then, they face the consequences of their actions and are not exempt from it either. these people also may have a caregiver 24/7 and are unable to take care of themselves.
like i said, tophia understands whats wrong with her life and what she must do, she's not delusional in that aspect, she's just lazy. a wise man (andrew ditch) once said, if i'm capable to make decisions for myself and i don't need help, then i'm not gonna wear my diaper and smear my shit everywhere. tophias doing the same thing, probably shit and all too