donald jr's friend is grieving more than tophia is..

r/tophiachutiktok • by Possible-Weather-439 •

his friend hangs out by his memorial place and leaves drinks, candles, flowers, he visits mamachu at the hospital and is having an extremely hard time grieving. its crazy tophia has shown really none of this but instead just complains and blames the reddit/people other than the person who actually committed the crime.

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  1. Possible-Weather-439 Share • 839

    i just saw this. donald NEVER told any of his friends or even acquaintances that he was homeless. he never asked for money, help, etc. he was just a hardworking individual who was actually willing to work and earn money for his family. tophia, genuinely, fuck you. i cannot imagine having to rely on my LITTLE BROTHER to make ends meet for me while i sit on my ass on tiktok. YOU SHOULD HAVE BEEN HELPING HIM TOO.

    1. Least_Ferret1903 Share • 365

      I don’t think I’ll ever be able to get over how Tophia just genuinely fucking sat there posting insta stories and going live on TikTok all damn day instead of even trying to be a sorta functional member of society like Donald was, atleast he was trying, and showing up still smiling and being happy despite everything that was going on in his personal life, being homeless, etc. Jesus Christ. I don’t know if I sound insensitive to Tophia, I’m not good at my own tone sometimes, but i don’t know how anyone could defend her.

    2. hydra333 Share • 184

      I get it’s sad he died.. but putting him on a pedestal? This entire subreddit clowned him for the horrible crap he was doing. He was literally talking to underage girls. Yes RIP, but cmon

      1. PreparationMaster160 Share • 143

        I mean, I get it, but I think the sentiment is more so that it’s pathetic on Tophia’s behalf that she was relying on her little brother while he was going out and putting on a brave face and actually trying to contribute something to society. He wasn’t a morally good person, actions are inexcusable, but people are entitled to feel sad over that thought.

        1. hydra333 Share • 27

          Yes that’s the part where I see it and using it to show how pathetic Tophia is, and yeah people are entitled to feel how they want to feel about a child groomer passing away even though he was supporting his family. He did what he did. Actions inexcusable. I felt sad over it for a day and then remembered oh yeah he likes little girls. And it makes Tophia look even more pathetic because her brother who likes 14 year olds even could provide more than she ever could

          1. heartshapedbookmark Share • 32

            I agree. I was SA’d by a family member when I was 6 or 7 (I’ve blocked a lot of it out so can’t remember just how old I was but definitely no older than 8), I don’t understand anyone feeling bad or at least ignoring what he did… he was a literal predator/groomer. How he passed was unfortunate and I’d never wish death on anyone but the way people are reacting to his death just doesn’t make sense to me.

      2. Possible-Weather-439 Share • 73

        i don't agree at all with his actions, i agree he was an awful person and what he did was fucking disgusting, but i think it's fine for people to not ignore the fact he was trying his best to provide for his elderly mother and unfortunately, his sick excuse of a sister.

      3. caveswater Share • 37

        Thankfully, at a certain age, we are capable of moral nuances such as in cases like these…

      4. tmackattak Share • 6

        And what amazing incredible stories are they referring to? Very odd.

      5. Special-Ad6900 Share • 5

        Thats what im saying too, people love going from one extreme to the other and they dont understand nuance

    3. atomiclovebomb Share • 72

      bro not me crying over brotherchu. i know his allegations and shit and i’m not excusing that but holy fuck. i can’t even imagine how bad this person must feel finding out one of the people they treasured most was living out of his car and was murdered in it. this shit is so sad.

      1. planethoneyy Share • 17

        No it’s not really sad. He was a pdf.

        1. HopeNatural Share • 22

          The way people downvoted you for this is astonishing 😂 they don't wanna live in reality. Imagine those were your fucking daughters. Disgusting

    4. Top_Cartographer_524 Share • 60

      How did his friends not notice he was homeless?

      1. planethoneyy Share • 150

        New Mexico folk have rocks for brains. They were literally dragging their disheveled selves to car meets with their elderly disbelieved mom and somehow found it normal.

        1. xwaggod Share • 76

          Someone had to at least have questioned themselves if him/his family were okay. Yeah some people look rough / choose not to keep up with themselves like they should, but when it’s an entire family.. Shit not peaches and cream at all 😭 But who knows after seeing Angie… maybe some residents naturally just look funky as hell.

          1. planethoneyy Share • 22

            Very true, the bar has been low lol

        2. Still_Mission_1918 Share • 19

          With everything in that car, because we know anything Tophia touches turns to mold

        3. qhoruh Share • 7

          this is taking me out

      2. Reign_Cloud_ Share • 12

        Exactly what I’m wondering too. Like, I think his friends obviously cared very much about him & their tributes and stuff are very sweet, but how in the world did they not know he was homeless? I don’t think they could have done anything more for him or anything (not that they had to either), but I just find it odd & unbelievable they didn’t know, especially with Tophia living online, blasting their business to the whole world. Didn’t he also always bring Marie & Tophia with him to the car shows?

    5. Goat_gutz Share • 28

      Same…

    6. SmolCooki3 Share • 26

      Dude im embarrassed for tophia cause imagine the last memories you have with your little brother is depending on him for financial stability instead of making it your goal to get him out of the terrible situation your in??? Shit is soooo stupid and she can't even try to get a job in memory of him working so much for them???? Sorry excuse for an older sister goodness

    7. Still_Mission_1918 Share • 13

      "I'm not giving up on my dreams. I'm going to be an influencer." Tophia is a 30-year-old who has always said she would never work and now will have more significant excuses not to. I hope someone people require their money back 🤦‍♀️

    8. SailorNopalito Share • 7

      They never asked themselves why he would always bring his elderly mom and sister to car meets? Also, didn't tophia say on a live that some of friends might follow her on tt?

      1. LadyMayhem02 Share • 5

        No. It's not a big deal to see a guy with his family there. These days Im the mom at the meets. I grew up during the muscle cars, never out grow them.

    9. jankbotekko Share • 3

      That’s actually so heartbreaking :(

    10. CassieGirl018 Share • 2

      Oh this makes me sad. I’m sure they would have helped him and the family if he was comfortable reaching out. The fact they’re visiting Marie in the hospital shows they really cared for Donald. I wish Tophia would be more grateful that people actually do care and it’s not all “trolls and hate”

    11. Massloser Share • 2

      That’s what actually made me really sad about Donald. He didn’t have much but he seemed to appreciate that which he had. He would go to car meets where guys are showing off their extremely expensive modified rides, and Donald would show up in his Honda Accord happy to just be a part of it. Yeah, he wasn’t perfect and did some sketchy shit, but there was something far more innocent about Donald’s personality. He didn’t have Tophia’s conniving personality.

  2. hydra333 Share • 453

    And Tophia today was literally complaining about not being mentioned on the news article!!!!!!! Oh my god.

    1. fuckapersuasiveessay Share • 189

      Ew wtf… all she cares about is money & “fame”.. 😶

    2. Least_Ferret1903 Share • 116

      SHE was complaining about not being mentioned in the fucking news article? Are you deadass? Please tell me ur joking

      Bye why am I being downvoted over being in genuine surprise that she’s focused on THAT

      1. detray1 Share • 22

        Not at all

        1. Least_Ferret1903 Share • 43

          Dude she was mentioned multiple times just not by name. Why is her focus being mentioned in the article ?? I feel like there’s more important shit to worry about than that.

          1. Still_Mission_1918 Share • 14

            Because the others were not the Albuquerque news journal everyone reads 🤣🤣 she wants everything to be about her and nothing about anyone else. I'm pretty sure she thought this would be her big break for more attention and money

            1. Reign_Cloud_ Share • 5

              That’s exactly what she thought/thinks. She feels entitled & like the world owes her something, and this is going to be the way to get it (in her delusional mind). That’s why I refused from the very beginning to send her even one dime. She’ll blow through whatever donations she’s received in no time, and will still be online whining about how hard she has it.

              1. Still_Mission_1918 Share • 4

                1000% right!!!! I am the same way. I will not give her any money

          2. Upset_Storm5729 Share • 3

            I think because She wanted her NAME mentioned

          3. detray1 Share • 3

            Ikr, it’s insane

    3. anonymousx97 Share • 114

      Her defenders don’t even know half of the crap she’s doing and that’s the problem

    4. xannnder Share • 12

      you’re joking. please you have to be.

    5. Lopsided_Pick9368 Share • 7

      omg where is the screen recording 😭

      1. Ornery-Condition-797 Share • 6

        It’s on her story on tik tok

  3. tinydreams95 Share • 244

    His friends are actually grieving.

  4. Possible-Weather-439 Share • 235

    i wont be posting this person's videos but this person has been hosting many gatherings for donald jr, invites many people at donald's memorial place at the park to have drinks and they all have poured out drinks for donald. it's actually really touching. this person talks to donald like he's still here, cracks jokes and makes donald's friends laugh. he is clearly grieving and grieving hard but they remain positive. tophia, please learn a thing or two from this person. donald's friends are clearly grieving healthily, like a normal person would. tophia you say you are grieving but all you are doing is blaming the world around you.

    1. SupaSonicWhisper Share • 122

      It’s nice to see Donald had some friends who care and are actually concerned about Marie. Kinda makes me wonder what they think of his own sister being more concerned about money and fighting with people online about bullshit. I’d be pissed but I’m sure they already know what she’s about.

      1. Possible-Weather-439 Share • 71

        oh i'm sure they've pieced it together by now. she's worried about her tiktok acc getting flagged for not having a hoodie meanwhile donald's friends are grieving and worried about mamachu.

    2. lady_mollelle Share • 25

      thank you.

  5. ittybittyange1 Share • 124

    RIP Donald jr. I'm happy your friends are looking out for your mom.

  6. anthonyyjv Share • 105

    Cuz tophia is using this situation to make her seem like she’s the only person in America who has witnessed gun violence or any type of trauma but did she care when she threatened ppl with guns or made fun of people’s deceased family members???

    1. Still_Mission_1918 Share • 7

      She keeps using death, too, like people don't witness it every day. When I watch people grieve their families as they are passing before their eyes. And yes some people witness death horribly, but guess what they do? They admit themselves to physics to help but Tophia likes being number one victim no help no nothing just her the internet and the GFM money

  7. Purple_Grass_3225 Share • 84

    May this type of friendship find me

  8. hydra333 Share • 76

    Gd that hairline tho. He was reverse balding

    1. Puzzleheaded_Hat5722 Share • 10

      🤣

    2. irl_squishmallow Share • 7

      😭😭😭😂

    3. peachtits4me Share • 2

      They all have the tiniest foreheads. Which actually can be a physical characteristic of disabilities. Gotta house that tiny brain otherwise said brain would be bouncing off the skull with all the excess room.

  9. bethramone Share • 60

    Looks like he was part of a really tight knit community that cared a lot about him. He was fortunate to have such a thing in life.

  10. something_about_ Share • 60

    She is an actual ghoul, i can't imagine what would happen to me if I was in her shoes, id have a gigantic crashout, wouldn't even think about social media

  11. Adept_Election1532 Share • 45

    Dang…to be loved like this 🥺

  12. hydra333 Share • 43

    I wonder how the underage girls are feeling after this

  13. External-Mulberry-83 Share • 38

    oh wow that first pic is a jumpscare

    1. anonymousx97 Share • 19

      First thought I had before I even read anything

  14. Independent-Bat9545 Share • 31

    I know he’s dead but omfg his teeth…….

  15. IguaR3x Share • 29

    His friends seems to care more for him than his own sister. Sad. Good to see he had good friends.

    (I know alot will say not good because what Donald got outed for being a ped, cuz texting minors, im not going to disagree with anyone who feels that way either, but I don't think his irl friends are aware of it nor half the online stuff ngl. His sister sure seems to barely give a fuck which is messed up. So why say good to see he had good friends that did/do give a fuck. They even seen to care about Marie more than Tophia does.)

  16. tetsuothestoryteller Share • 28

    I'm pretty sure Donald Jr has told Tophia on multiple occasions to get a job. Especially that time she begging for $120 bucks (she started looking for at home jobs). But knowing how Tophia is, she probably said she'd rather take her own life than to work.

  17. w3stsidebby Share • 19
    1. Still_Mission_1918 Share • 9

      I see you 😑 im not going to laugh, just a chuckle. That's it

  18. Indigodahlia00 Share • 14

    i’m glad he had friends that loved him

  19. XxBigchungusxX42069 Share • 11

    Imagine writing a poem about a pedophile child predator....wtaf is what with these people

    1. rengokyo Share • 71

      tbf if they didn’t know that he was homeless or much about his life, then they most likely didn’t know he was messaging little girls either

      1. 111gct Share • 4

        I will say, he did post his gf publicly and followed her on all his socials... idk if they knew the extent but a few hd to have known abt her

    2. AzellPrincessMae Share • 9

      People can CHOOSE to grieve, are you PERFECT too??

      1. irl_squishmallow Share • 24

        It’s not about being perfect it’s about not being a child predator?? You’re acting like all he did was steal from Walmart

        1. babyhibiscus2 Share • 23

          literally, dying doesn’t make someone a saint. you can be sad that someone died young but also acknowledge that they did horrible things.

      2. Still_Mission_1918 Share • 9

        So I am just asking: when everyone on death row gets their turn, do their heinous crimes go away? Because I'm sure their families grieve, but does that take away everything they did? Does the person who did all this to Jr. And Marie get a pass now that he is gone? From how you stated that and others, it's like when we die, everything is swiped clean

    3. fuckthebarexam2024 Share • 7

      They probably didn't know lol

  20. Pure_Screen3176 Share • 8

    Not for nothing but when I heard her in those insta stories where she’s saying “oh my god my brother looked dead” it felt like a performance. Like why would she immediately post instagram stories after something like that? Because she only cared about the attention it brought her.

    1. CummedOnRokuRemote Share • 2

      Especially when she said "why did people on the internet..." all she cares about is being the victim and blaming other people.

  21. spriteunited Share • 8

    yea the difference is his friends just *actually* loved him....

  22. hotzombiegirl Share • 5

    it’s actually really fucking sad that donald’s friends are mourning him more than his own fucking sister
    i hate the people who are like “tophia is mourning too” when it’s obvious she has absolutely no empathy in her heart, she literally said that she wouldn’t care if her mom died

  23. Economy-Series-3672 Share • 4

    This is so heartbreaking

  24. NaughtyNurse1969 Share • 4

    He had some nice friends. Tophia has some nice…that’s right they aren’t her friends…Tophia needs friends too. Well if she didn’t hate every race, she’d make friends.

  25. DamonTheAlboner Share • 2

    man, this is so sad. i’m glad he has people who care for him genuinley unlike tophia who is using his death for leverage. i’m glad there’s someone who cares about mamachu too.

  26. peachtits4me Share • 2

    Lord have mercy that's one ugly human.

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  28. FeralPotathoe Share • 1

    It has been fun...well used to be. This Sub isn't that great anymore. Bai

  29. Past-Membership2000 Share • 1

    Tophia is a pos

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  31. Idatemyhand Share • -3

    May go rest his sou- do Neanderthals have souls or was that before "Superior beings " came along .

  32. FeralPotathoe Share • -4

    The situation is very sad but it happened to people who needed that lesson. I'm sorry someone died and someone is in the hospital but blaming the Internet for your poor decisions only gets you hate.

    Tophiachu's bro was not a good person in ways but he tried for his family. He should have cut tophiachu off and helped Marie if anything but ..yeah

    1. No_Pension2786 Share • 7

      Losing a family member to random gun violence is a lesson?

    2. tophiachutiktok-ModTeam Share • 1

      Please read the latest Mod post regarding content that is allowed surrounding the shooting incident on 3/11/25.