Gofundme

r/tophiachutiktok • by shitty_poopoo • Mar 31, 2025 4:01 pm

Just a note. If those DoorDashes ARE coming from the gofundme that was first meant for laying Donald to rest THEN family support that is a violation.

Gofundme is interested in any evidence regarding it btw.

I’m not saying one way or the other because I can’t say 100% and don’t really watch TikTok but I know someone who reached out and inquired as to what they’ve been seeing and IMMEDIATELY got refunded and asked to send any information they have.

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Conscious_Mark_7186 • Mar 31, 2025 4:07 pm Share • 19

I don’t think it’ll matter in the long run tbh. She can just say it’s left over money from the funeral expenses. Plus, I don’t think people realize it’s not going to be a traditional funeral. It’s not going to be flowers, a casket, a church, etc. it’s going to be a small group of his friends + her sitting somewhere (maybe a restaurant) talking about him/mourning and then Tophia will carry his ashes with her. It’s not gonna cost much.
1. shitty_poopoo • Mar 31, 2025 4:12 pm Share • 3
  
  And that’s totally fair and if that’s the case- well I’m sure people aren’t thrilled but it falls in that definition of what the remainder was for.
  
  At this point though it seems like nothing is being done. Granted I know it doesn’t need to be broadcast online but given the memorial was posted online, etc, it feels… off.
  
  Also know it can take a while for a body to be released even in an open and shut case.
  It would depend where the family goes. I used to work in the field and we had a place that did a direct cremation with all paperwork, no frills, around $500. The place I worked started $2k (which was absurd.) that was 15 years ago.
  
  I might also feel weirder about it because of my personal views and ethics. Like not saying he needs a gold-lined casket, but at least so he’s not in refrigeration.
  
  Hope that makes sense and doesn’t sound super cruel- it’s not meant to be nor is it to dispute what you said because that makes sense too!
  1. Conscious_Mark_7186 • Mar 31, 2025 4:47 pm Share • 1
    
    No that totally makes sense and I agree!
2. Agile_Scratch9273 • Mar 31, 2025 5:29 pm Share • 1
  
  A memorial shouldn't cost a lot of money. If that's the case what's going on with the body?
Jellybeanzdream • Mar 31, 2025 4:20 pm Share • 12

So Tophia claims she doesn’t have access to that GFM because it’s his friends, supposedly. I went to the page and sent a message for an update. I didn’t ask for a time or date, only if his services have been arranged. Hopefully I will get a response 🤷🏻‍♀️
1. shitty_poopoo • Mar 31, 2025 4:21 pm Share • 2
  
  That’s a great way to handle it! I hope you get a response (I didn’t) there might be though if there’s more attention.
  1. Jellybeanzdream • Mar 31, 2025 4:54 pm Share • 3
    
    Wait, you messaged them too, and didn’t get a response?? That’s no bueno 😳
Grand-Decision6449 • Mar 31, 2025 4:31 pm Share • 7

The fact that she’s eating away the money meant for a FUNERAL of her own brother, while bragging about it on her stories, is already disgusting…
1. Agile_Scratch9273 • Mar 31, 2025 5:31 pm Share • 1
  
  When we get into the specific it makes me feel uneasy and almost sad.
catshavestars • Mar 31, 2025 4:28 pm Share • 5

i thought she got the money from her gofundme that she put up and then took down/got taken down (idk which)? she claimed that she has no access to the money raised from the other fundraiser.