Heartbreaking
This entire day I’ve just been thinking ab this, it’s genuinely ruined my day because of how horrible I feel for her. It’s like secondhand heartbreak because I honestly did want her to do better and I feel so bad for mamachu and the fact tophia woke up to her brother just dead and slumped over. It all happened way too fast to process. I need to take a break and get rid of this anxiety for her, but I’m genuinely so worried about her. She’s done so many bad things but I can’t shake the fact we’re all humans and something like that can just happen. And brotherchu not knowing he wouldn’t wake up the next morning, tophias crying haunts me it’s just so brutal. Nobody knew this would happen. I don’t even think I can bring myself to even be active here anymore I genuinely am just worried ab the situation, and none of us have room to judge anyway, we aren’t our maker whether it’s god or the universe. None of them were angels but it doesn’t mean none of us can feel this way for them. If y’all are experiencing the same thing y’all are not alone and it’s not weird, it’s humane. Take care of yourselves and never take life for granted.
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She kept telling people including me that she hoped their families got in accidents and died. Maybe she will stop that now. Karma got her.
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Ur a very sick individual
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Karma came to her. She wished death to other's family's and now it happened to her. It's the truth
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That’s your thoughts, but coming at her during this time throwing insults and saying she deserves it makes you just as bad as her saying those things. If you really were better than her, you wouldn’t stoop to her level and show 0 sympathy for somebody’s murder
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She talked about my dad when he passed away. I have no sympathy for that monster. Fuck you and your bleeding heart.
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Why were you telling her about your dad knowing how she is. Why were you even interacting.
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I was asking for help because he had to be cremated and it was very expensive. She went through my reddit and made comments about some of the things I talked about in that post.
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Fuck you too pookie. ❤️ praying for your healing
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I came home to my dad having died while I was having a good time on vacation. He had dogs...thats all I'm saying about that. He died alone, probably scared, and I have to live with that and you should have seen the shit she said before she deleted it.
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I’m so sorry you had to experience that. Seriously. That’s so devastating. I can’t imagine seeing my dad like that. my heart goes out to you and your family, I hope you all heal as best as you can from that tragedy ❤️:(
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Idk I mean while I sympathize for what happened she's kind of right and I'd probably feel the same way if I was in their shoes.
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I dont think you’re a decent human being when you empathize with tophia and not with another individual who lost their family as well. What kind of response is that? Trauma isn’t a contest… and you’re def not making the world a better place.
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i’ve been feeling so devastated about this all day , even at my doctors appointment & today was supposed to be a good day for me because i was gonna go get baking stuff for my small business , i went to hobby lobby to pick up some things & i’ve just been feeling scared all day today .. i was happy to get my stuff but now im just sad all over again .. i wish i didn’t see that tiktok of her ig story , so so so heartbreaking 💔
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You get it. It’s the anxiety it provoked that’s really been bothering me most the day because I’m just so easily shook up. I know it’s not my life and I didn’t personally know him, but it’s the fact it happened so suddenly and brutally and the details and her ig story were just disturbing. especially because if that were to happen to MY brother and actually seeing it right in front of you. I just can’t imagine.
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so so devastating , i would be so hurt to lose someone like that , that is so so traumatic !! especially going out that way ! , my body has been in shock most of the day today , the gut feeling & nausea oh my goodness it’s so bad :(
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Take care of yourself and distract your mind with some nice hobbies. My prayers go out to her and everyone affected by this.
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Same, my day has been completely derailed after waking up to the news