Helping tophia
Let me get this straight people I just want to know really why do you bother helping out someone like her she's an awful person a terrible person! She is a lolcow she won't change she'll never change even after grief she doesn't change anybody would change! But not lolcows not her.. I mean it's ridiculous! Why support her? Why give money to her? Why bother acting surprise when she spends it all at this point it's just stupidity!!! But I'd love to hear from you all..
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Her brother dying was the best thing that ever happened to her. It proves her perpetual victimhood mentality, and it allows her narcissistic ego to feed off the pity of others. Add a GFM into the mix, and this is a dream scenario.
She never cared about her mother/brother/father. They were simply just attached by proxy due to shitty situations, and they provided either monetary or emotional gain. Make no mistake, shes not sad at all, maybe initially, but that was quickly blind sided by by all the positives, if you can call them that, that this situation provided.
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Honestly at this point I think her hysteria in the video where she broke the news was almost entirely just her own terror at the fact *she* could have been killed.
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100 fucking percent
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she abandoned ship with her mom inside the car
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The bitch of it is, that was the **one** thing I initially didn’t want to fault her for, because one can’t really control if they’re gonna fight/flee/freeze/fawn and she *had* woken up to gunshots and her brother dead and panicked…but let’s face it, even if her brain didn’t choose “flee”, she would have fled anyway. She’s never sacrificed anything for anyone and never will. I was being charitable at first because survivor guilt is suicidally brutal, but she **very clearly** has no guilt or actual grief about any of this. And personally, even if I fled the car myself I damn sure would have still tried to follow on foot while calling 911 if MY MOM WAS STILL FUCKING IN THERE.
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yep
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Literally this.
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they want to feel better about themselves
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Thank you someone says it!
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I’ve been saying this for the longest time, but I feel like the people who defend Tophia have extreme savior complexes. Tophia has an extreme victim complex. One needs the other to be a victim to boost their ego and fulfill their want to “save someone“ and the other needs one so they could justify their victim complex. But the gags of those people really wanted to save Sophia. They would be telling her to go get a job and to take a really long hiatus from the Internet because personally me if I felt that the Internet was the reason why my brother’s life ended in a tragic way then you would never catch me on here ever again, but that’s just me.
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You are not crazy to say all that! All I hear is fax!!
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The same reason, people filmed themselves crying over the tragedy that happened to her…
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clock it
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They want to appear as some sort of amazing person on social media. I’ve actually told her defenders everything she’s done before, and because they want to be seen as “she’s still human!” People, they’ll continue to help her. In reality they would never allow her within 6 feet of them, lol.
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Someone wants to have the bragging rights that they helped her out. It’s not because it comes out of the goodness of their heart and genuinely want to help it’s to fuel their ego. They want to be seen as a savior in the eyes of their peers.
“Even after grief” Idk man… don’t think she is grieving