I cringe so hard when I hear Tophia refer to her brother as my ‘dead Brother’ I don’t even know how she can say those words out loud right now. Tophia trying saying my brother who passed away or just my brother
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And for more GFM MONEY
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just in case anybody forgot!
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She’ll say the same when her mom goes too. And it’ll be the internets fault no matter what. 🙄
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I dislike the way she says that too. Somebody else mentioned this in a comment on another post here - Tophia literally cannot function without attention and sympathy from randoms. I could not ever imagine going on the internet if my brother just passed away and constantly using “MY DEAD BROTHER-“ it just feels..so wrong?? I’ve never really seen other people do that either. Most people , including myself, refer to loved ones as if they were still here unless needing to clarify..Tophia however is just odd
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Right like my grandma and grandpa both passed away due to pancreatic cancer 3 and 7 years ago, I have NEVER said “my dead grandma/grandpa” and I never will. It’s so disrespectful and gross. This whole situation just shows that she might actually be happy that something big happened to her so now she can get sympathy and attention from the internet, which is sickening.
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TOPHIA HAS MENTAL HEALTH CONDITION AND SHE SERIOUSLY NEEDS MENTAL HEALTH EVALUATION
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She’s against doctors and whatnot. She doesn’t believe there’s shit wrong with her besides the self diagnosed ptsd
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Don’t forget the self diagnosed disability that prevents her from getting a job
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The issue with this is that she also has some severe narc traits and that can make it easy for her to manipulate… I agree she has some very low IQ issues and I’m not sure she can get around that part but she is VERY manipulative and those people often get around evaluations easily..
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I genuinely always have and will believe she’s narcissistic, I made a post regarding her traits last night lol😭. Anyone who doesn’t know what she’s done is subject to her manipulation unfortunately
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I’ve never heard ANYONE refer to their family member as “my dead *blank*.” They always just say my cousin, grandpa, uncle, etc.
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i think the most disturbing part about this is how tophia is suddenly acting like her brother’s passing is no big deal 💀
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I'm getting so sick of her being like "I can't speak on the investigation just in case this was a targeted attack!" No tophia you dumb bitch 😭✋️ she keels saying the area she was at was "safe" and "the internet makes things dangerous for her" she thinks the reddit contacted the local abq fent addict to go get her when in reality ANYONE from abq will tell you that area was dangerous. It wasn't no troll setting tophia up 🙄 I'm getting really sick of her trying to allude to that
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This is just my opinion but I feel like it’s two things 1. They told her it was an open investigation, which is was and they closed it quickly but she is holding on to those words and can’t move past them. To her it’s not acceptable if it wasn’t a targeted attack because then it could be some of her fault.
2. They are telling her things are still “open” because her mom is in APS care and Tophia doesn’t understand.
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Emphasis on dead, and not on his name as if he wasn't, yknow..a person.
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She said don’t call him Brotherchu he didn’t like it. I’m sure he wouldn’t like dead Brother either.
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Would never dream of referring to my deceased loved one this way. I refer to her exactly how I did when she was alive. "My DEAD [blank]" Is callous, disrespectful and sick she's using it for attention and it's just so fucking sick dude
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He didn’t like to be called “brotherchu” anyways, my DEAD brother 🙄
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I think she’s doing that out of habit because for years before this incident she would constantly try to use her stillborn sister Bernadette as her go to excuse
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My late brother would even be better.
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That’s actually so disrespectful. I’d call my brother by his name if he EVER passed. She’s disgusting and I can’t stand listening to her right now. “My dead brother” EXCUSE ME?? She needs actual help.
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If my brother passed away, there isn’t any way I’d be referring to him my “dead brother”
HELL NAH.
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My mother passed away and i have never referred to her as such. She wants to make sure people feel bad for her that’s just her victim mentality.
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She only says thah to get more sympathy
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So this isn’t meant to be racist but In my experience certain people will use or over use certain words for a shock value but it doesn’t work it’s honestly just annoying
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wtf does that mean??? can u like specify that
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*Say what you mean*. If you wanna be racist, say it with your whole chest 😑
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People from low-income backgrounds often have a limited vocabulary, like she does, and struggle to articulate words. So, when she says ‘my dead brother,’ it’s likely for shock value.
Not all of us. I grew up poor, raised in a low-income household, and I’m a minority. But there comes a point as an adult where you have to better yourself. 😬
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It’s so disrespectful to say my dead brother. She has no shame. She only wants to say my dead brother for pity and attention