I don't think Tophia is gonna mature as some ppl hope
I was holding off on posting saying something for another day because this is a sensitive situation, but Tophia is about to start crashing out over money which we all seen coming.It was not her fault what happened to her family, homeless people are more likely to be victims of street violence due to them being in a vulnerable position.
However its the way Tophia is acting to supporters who have tried helping her.Tophia was sent money when she was informed her family was gonna be evicted and she sat right in those people's face and ordered junk food everytime she went live.People sent shelter information and she left every single one and she definitely blew the one that offered to help her with housing because she had elderly and mentally ill parents,she disliked that one the most.Then people sent her money again during the motel situation and she did the same thing and was ordering unnecessary products on Amazon and Temu ,knowing her fam was having financial issues and her brother was getting odd checks , she didn't save her money in case of emergency situations like that ,which lead to her getting kicked out of the motel.Now in the car , she spent over $600-1k at comic con when she could've got a new motel or put some money together with her brother to rent something simple.
And every single time it's the internets fault,her supporters,Donald Sr and Jr, and Marie's and nothing is her fault even though no one's the angel or devil on her shoulders she made conscious choices which lead to her being homeless and broke.Remember when people were telling her to go get federal and social aid because they can actually help her and she whined about having to stand in line for 3 hrs and she didn't even want to apply for the services that allow her to apply online?And she still can ! She really wants people to send her all their money just because she thinks she deserves it , she's entitled and doesn't want to better herself.Shaming and scamming 9-5 workers but want their money and acting suprised when they don't want to send her anything.These are people who are being generous they don't owe her anything period.
She's starting to crash out because people are sending money to Don Jr's car meet friends instead of her , but what did she expect ? Of course people aren't gonna send you money when you're know for being financially irresponsible and uppity when it comes to honest financial advice, people don't trust you.And the whole internet is rooting for her to do better.People are sending her vouchers and stuff aswell and she gets mad when it's not money being sent ,she's about to start going off and people are gonna start turning their backs on her because she can't help herself in these type of situations when people are trying their best to help her out.She wants everything on a silver platter and that's just not how life works.
Her intellectual disability can only be an excuse for so much .Her problem is that she lives in a fantasy world as escapism and her delusions are preventing her from functioning , the bosses daughter thing wasn't a joke at all , someone pointed out that Tophia genuinely thought or wishes Donald Sr owned a bank and had a music label named after her.Thats the life she wanted and it's so sad to watch her live life through a mean girl persona and Donald Sr delusions that he fed to her.She's emotionally stunting herself at this point because she knows what she has to do and she doesn't want to do it for herself, the homelessness and financial state she's in is comfortable to her because can act like a teenager or wannabe rich girl all day and when that high wears down she's back to self loathing.
I don't see her getting herself sorted out bc she's proven time to time again that she doesn't want to and it's up to everyone to baby her.Even after this traumatic situation and it's the sad truth, we are witnessing a traumatized entitled individual who has no desire to help herself , this is a fucked up situation to witness.I hope she can prove all of us wrong and finally put her big girl pants on,I don't wanna see her living in motels and in parks ,I wanna see the day she gets her own apartment and is financially responsible and stable and has changed for the better.
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It's genuinely all about cash to her , she's waiting for Donald Jr to be buried to collect whatever funds are leftover :/ , which is why she wants it to be sped up,look at what she did when Donald Sr went rouge and she started stealing her Veteran benefits,even if he did give them the go ahead , y'all rlly ain't gonna send that man to a mental hospital on his own dime ? The day all that happened he was out terrorizing the city and he's probably not in the mental state to realize his son is gone.
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I’m hoping that she is genuinely that stupid + grieving and doesn’t realize what she’s saying abd how it’s coming across to the viewers. And I honestly forgot all about her dad smh I hope she’s at least called him to tell him or maybe since it was widely publicized the jail staff told him?
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I hope he was told bc when he's in jail they medicate him so he can chill out,I can't even imagine, 2 kids hate him and want nothing to do with him and now the only one that rlly kept up with him is gone
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Oh fuck I just remembered that Papachu is in jail!! Does he even know about any of this??
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Also she has gained like 7,000 followers off her brothers passin people feeling guilty and having sympathy for her is just going to boost her ego uo even more and ontop of that people donating she never going to move on thats just the sad truth
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CaChing $$
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ATP I say, give her the money and let her fuck herself over. Brotherchu isn’t around to bail her out this time 🤷🏽♀️
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Even ChatGPT agrees
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I got a whole chatgpt chat dedicated to directing tophia because I cannot understand her at all.
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Omg same 🤣
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Perfectly said. I 💯 agree with you. I hate to say it but two things are going to happen here. 1) she gets her life together or 2) I don’t even want to say it………… the chu line ends permanently, so guys sometimes you just have to agree to disagree and some things are better left unsaid to her. I am sure her supporters are trying to help her. I am sure there are lots of people trying. Look how guilty we all felt when we heard the news with her brother….i know I felt guilty. I am choosing not to bash her anymore because if something happens to her I don’t want to feel like I was part of the problem. I hope that girl gets help. I honestly do, but I am afraid she won’t and one day a go fund me will be made for her.
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The chu line won't end permanently as her step-dad Donald senior had raised a previous family before he met marie.
He has an ex wife and daughter from his first marriage in south Carolina.
Not ti mention mamachu's extended family like cousins and siblings
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She's a lost cause. Im not trying to cynical but the biggest tragedy is that Brotherchu died out of all of them. Truly the only one with any potential of getting out of that situation. He had a car, a job and if wasn't babysitting Mamachu nor Tophiachu he might have actually been able to access help from his community. Tophiachu has no plans of working and has always been a delulu leech. Mamachu was also on her last leg before the event....
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dont worry shes going to learn. shes going to learn
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I’ll bet you $1
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I have to say agree with you. I mostly lurk and just like to read the posts and comments people make. I don’t hate Tophia, but I’m not her fan either I was always intrigued by her thought process and was genuinely curious where it would lead her and if she would change for better or worse.
I have seen the divide between people, half sympathetic and the other half not which both are equally valid within their own right.
I did feel sympathy for her the tragedy that befell her although I was not inclined towards funding.
Mostly from what I’ve seen, read, and watched any ounce of hope I had for her to “wake up” has gone. The route she has chosen will continue to be the same as it was before. People will continue to enable her habits and she’ll continue to view herself as a victim. What happened to her family was a tragedy, but it takes a stronger person to push past it and keep moving forward to better themselves. After reading some of the posts and seeing a few TikToks I don’t think she’ll ever get there.
She reminds me of a cousin of mine, (he isn’t homeless as our grandmother had managed to leave him her home after her passing. Unfortunately, my cousin’s father was never in his life and his mother (my aunt) became disabled. (Don’t exactly know how it happened though she does have fits of rage here and there..from what I was told as a kid she was diagnosed with Schizophrenia and Bipolar disorder)
My grandmother raised him but she also spoiled him and enabled his bad habits. Our family tried to help him with jobs etc but he always hated working and couldn’t hold onto a stable job because of his lack of accountability. He’s in his mid 40’s now and “works” as a one of those In Home Care workers that take care of elderly people. (Though he looks after his mom) I’ll be honest it’s not the best care as he tends to do the bare minimum. Back then they used to wonder, “What will he do when grandmother passes away?” Now they wonder what will become of him when his mother passes away. To be honest, it’s looking quite grim. I see a similar path with Tophia if she doesn’t make the necessary changes to better her life.
I hope she loves Mamachu enough to use this as fuel to force herself to find a job and provide a better life and comfort for Mamachu how ever long she may have left….but I doubt it
When I saw her story and heard her say if people would’ve donated sooner, I stopped feeling sorry for her lol. I actually was feeling somewhat guilty and felt bad for her that she got kicked out of the motel but when I heard that—she doesn’t get it and never will.
People go through shit like this and even worse shit DAILY and they get up, go to work the next day and go about their lives. Because they know that they can’t sit and dwell. For her to take no accountability and blame everybody else is quite puzzling to me. Not paying rent got her forced out of her apartment and when people WERE sending her money she was buying wigs and doing fucked yo makeup while Mamachu was in the back hacking + coughing and she’d even get mad when we asked was MC okay…