I Think This Is Where I Stop
I’ve been following Tophia for the past few years; not as long as Amberlynn, but I’d say about 2 years now. I really thought this situation would make her be like, “holy sh*t this is real life”, but we’ve all been proven wrong. I don’t have the stomach to follow her anymore. If one of my baby brothers had passed (one’s 19 & the other is 15) I’d be absolutely devastated. You’d never be able to pull me out of my grief. I’d be doing anything I could to get my ass in gear to better myself for the future and to keep them as a memory forever. A little more than a week has passed and it’s like nothing ever happened at all, but as soon as he’s mentioned she’s like mY BrOtHer waS MurDereD. Narcissism levels to this degree are so uncalled for. There’s been no remembrance post, no tributes, no nothing. Just, “hey guys I need to promote this hoodie!” SHE’S EVEN RECORDING IN HER MOTHER’S ROOM ABOUT STUFF THAT RELATES NOTHING TO HER?! No, “are you okay mom? Is there anything I can do to help you right now?”When my mother came out of surgery earlier this year I was doing absolutely everything for her as she tore her meniscus and ACL. She doesn’t care about anyone but herself and I can’t fathom it anymore. It makes me sick to my stomach. I wish I could say I hope she changes, but time has told that’ll never happen. I only wanted her to go up from the apartment-era.
I’m sorry for my rant, but for everyone else in the Chuniverse I wish you the best of luck in your career goals, finances, weight loss goals, and other regular goals! 🩷 It was a pleasure to communicate with you all.
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I was thinking the last few days how horrific it is that her brother died and Tophia is his sister.
I’m not saying he was a great person but imagine dying and Tophia is the person left to memorialize you 😬 I would be so pissed. She couldn’t help him while he was alive and she certainly won’t help him to have any kind of service. She’s so selfish and entitled, it’s unbelievable at this point.-
Jr. "Tophia tell my story" Tophia "It's AbOuT MeEeEe."
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Exactly
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Ya plus he was the only one in the bunch steadily working a job
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I mean that too, but to die and have Tophia be the person responsible to memorialize you, freaking yikes! Couldn’t find a more selfish person to never use the funds for a service. I bet she has already spent his lack paycheck.
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Ya that’s facts too
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Holy shit I didn't think about that until I read this
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It’s all I can think about when I think about this situation 🙃 I would be screaming mad.
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I hope he haunts her ass. I really do.
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Same, she deserves it.
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Stealing this ty
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You’re right. I was thinking about this earlier when I seen her arguing with people online again. If this traumatic experience doesn’t make her snap out of it and get her life together, then nothing will.
I guarantee if you do stop keeping up with her and then return in a year or so, you’ll find that she nor her situation has changed.
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All this did was make her think strangers would support her forever. Remember, she told Marie they are getting them a home together because they are traumatized. Ok, Tophia 🙄 use your mom to get shit handed to you, yup. Because she needs Tophia so, they need that safe home. It's more like Tophia needs Marie so she can have her guilt points
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This happened with a different lolcow I watch and I stopped watching a few months and came back and it was the exact same shit. So I haven't checked in since.
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That's how I felt. Nothing will change the way she is. I thought, well, maybe homelessness, but then I found out she was homeless twice before. If death ain't doing it, then what really will make her improve her conditions?
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Just based off of her behaviour over the past week or so, I think the internet/social media is more real to her than her actual life. The fact she's occupied with stupid internet/celebrity drama despite her brother's VERY recent passing + her mother hospitalized cements this, she has the worst case of internet brain rot I've ever seen
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I really wonder where she’ll be in the next 10 years.
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Living with Jungkook happily ever after obviously 😜😻😻😻
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She is stagnant, so the same place
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yea after it all happened i took a week break and im thinking of just ridding her permanently. i wish u well OP
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If Tophia really cared and wanted to honor he brothers memories she'd get off her ass and get a job to find a studio apartment for her to take care of her mother.
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I honestly wholeheartedly hope Marie is not going to her care. Marie will be better off in Assisting living unless tophia logs off for good and focuses on rebuilding their life and staying off the internet.
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Let's hope. But getting housing would make it easier to see her mother and if she able to live alone with out much help there would be a nice placing waiting or just to visit. But are her age this is doubtful plus at tophia to mix its not gonna happen.
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If my brother passed I wouldn't even be able to pick up my phone..I feel you.
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Same
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i get you OP, im not even as interested anymore because this situation just shows me how Bad she really is to the point its not even funny anymore 😭... so much sympathy she had just to turn back into her old ways is just baffling
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Absolutely everything you said is true. I feel we kinda need to leave her alone. Like she gets nothing, not even attention from her tiktok. But even so I feel she'd still try to make her social media presence a thing. I just sit back and watch the drain circle on down. Good luck in your endeavors as well.
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She needs a personal caregiver and put in a group home, along with someone handling her financial accounts.
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As someone whose meniscus and PCL were destroyed and had surgery, thank you for taking care of your mom because GOD DID THAT SUCK 🙏🩷🖤🩷
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It’s really sad. Tbh, I’m thinking of just following her in the background as I’ve always done, lol, but just not so frequently anymore. I don’t think there’s anything any of us can do for her except for herself, but 🤷♀️ Good luck, op, with whatever you do!
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I’m not very close with my brother anymore since he’s 7 years older than me, lives 4 hrs away, and has a wife & two kids (a newborn & a two 1/2 yr old) so he’s super busy but I would literally never recover if he died. I’ve been my brothers biggest fan since the day I came into this world and that won’t change even when I leave. I think my world would honestly stop spinning if my brother passed away, especially in such a horrific way.
I do not understand tophia at all, she doesn’t seem upset about it at all - maybe a little over not having his income anymore MAYBE (I fully believe all her tears are fake besides the video right after it happened, I’m sorry). I don’t know what’s wrong with her and I’m not going to diagnosis someone but she’s really giving off narcissistic and sociopathic vibes..
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You needed to tell us that for what……
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why r they booing you. you’re right
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Honestly lmao, it's a snark sub reddit lmao. Like? It would be unhealthy to stay here forever 😭
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Naaa she just outta touch. I ain’t got no sympathy left for her.