I think tophia is damaged from the start

r/tophiachutiktok • by Jazzlike-Primary2816 • Mar 17, 2025 1:36 am

am i the only one that thinks she was doomed since she was born? it’s so sad to me that she didn’t get the support and love from her parents, the guidance and correct hygiene, her mother was negligent and her father sick, how can someone be good while growing on an environment like this? she even has disabilities,

her case makes me sad even though a lot of people hate her

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RegularDiver8235 • Mar 17, 2025 2:01 am Share • 62

I’m pretty sure I saw a post on here from a genetic counselor that said that they were pretty sure mom and daughter had a rare genetic disorder that could cause developmental disabilities
1. abu_nawas • Mar 17, 2025 6:23 am Share • 29
  
  I've been listening to a Stanford professor on YouTube. He recorded a whole semester on behavioral biology.
  
  Basically genes and environment have a much stronger relationship than most people know, and we do not just inherit genes, we also inherit environments.
  
  I really recommend it.
  1. No-Macaroon-756 • Mar 20, 2025 6:40 pm Share • 1
    
    What is the name of the video/professor?
    1. abu_nawas • Mar 20, 2025 9:49 pm Share • 2
      
      Dr. Robert Sapolsky.
      
      Look him up. Tons of interesting videos on how behavior is biological and nature and nurture is inseparable.
2. perfect_fifths • Mar 17, 2025 7:19 am Share • 8
  
  KBG syndrome was my hypothesis.
  1. Thin-Ad-6200 • Mar 17, 2025 10:51 am Share • 5
    
    oh wow, i searched it up and she definitely has the phenotype, for the facial appearance at least. this is crazy, she should get diagnosed because 150 cases worldwide could make her valuable for genetic research (?)
    1. perfect_fifths • Mar 17, 2025 10:56 am Share • 7
      
      Only if she agrees to it. I have a feeling they don’t like or care for doctors
Disastrous-Coat3397 • Mar 17, 2025 1:43 am Share • 53

Yep but I still hate her. Lol 😂
She’s a product of her environment unfortunately. Both her parents aren’t all there (obviously) so it’s really not surprising that she turned out the way she did.
Imagine papachu as ya dad? Or Marie as your mom? Scary thought
1. Jazzlike-Primary2816 • Mar 17, 2025 2:30 am Share • 17
  
  yeah her childhood must have really rough
  1. tophiachuqueen • Mar 17, 2025 2:50 am Share • 25
    
    Her childhood was rough she’s said before on live thag she would be in & out of homelessness. Having to stay in homeless shelters or stay with relatives. That she would be embarrassed by it.
    
    But many others in the sub have shared similar stories that they went through the same thing, but instead being like tophia it actually motivated them to want and better there situation.
2. Disastrous-Coat3397 • Mar 17, 2025 1:44 am Share • 9
  
  It’s sad but she’s been given many opportunities to change her life but refuses to do so yk?💯💖
3. Still_Mission_1918 • Mar 17, 2025 6:46 am Share • 4
  
  But all that aside, she's a horrible individual, period. She wants us to allow her to hit the restart button and forget the heinous shit she has said all well, continuing the destructive behavior. She could have tried but poisoned her own soul with greed.
  1. Disastrous-Coat3397 • Mar 17, 2025 4:53 pm Share • 2
    
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4. Disastrous-Coat3397 • Mar 17, 2025 4:55 pm Share • 2
  
  I will mention that I myself have been homeless and did everything in my power to fix my situation so Tophia really erks me .
  
  I have no sympathy I just see it yk 💯💯
AnotherGarbageUser • Mar 17, 2025 5:51 am Share • 21

This is absolutely how it works. Setting aside the probability of a genetic disorder, Tophia grew up in a very unstable family. She probably learned that everything is random and nonsensical, so [she learned to be helpless.](https://www.reddit.com/r/tophiachutiktok/comments/1i52nol/the_psychology_of_tophichu_part_2_learned/)

https://www.reddit.com/r/tophiachutiktok/comments/1i52nol/the_psychology_of_tophichu_part_2_learned/
1. perfect_fifths • Mar 17, 2025 7:19 am Share • 2
  
  Yep.
anonymousx97 • Mar 17, 2025 4:58 am Share • 14

She never had a chance with parents like that. She was doomed from the start
Apprehensive-Leg-118 • Mar 17, 2025 7:58 am Share • 9

Yes Marie is obviously slow and has never provided for herself or her family and she had kids with a severely mentally ill man. Sounds harsh but those two had no business having kids.
Brilliant_Tax8581 • Mar 17, 2025 6:20 am Share • 2

I hope it is safe to assume that there was alot of Marie throwing treats and candy/snacks at Big T when she would get upset when she was younger as well. I don't think that's a stretch of the imagination. I think we can see that probably didn't help much either with her current state of health.
pricklybeetch • Mar 17, 2025 8:42 am Share • 1

Quit trying to diagnose her with some disability. She’s just fucking lazy! Being too lazy to do anything for yourself does not mean you are disabled.