I’m honestly worried about how Tophia will do for the time being
With Marie hospitalized, Donald Sr arrested, Donald Jr likely gone, and their car unavailable I’m seriously concerned about how she’s going to live now that she’s pretty much completely by herself. Because the thing is she’s completely homeless and alone. Not only is she horribly traumatized from this but even if her mental state recovers she straight up does not have the skills of a functional adult nor a good sense of reality.
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I’m praying for her manZ
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It’s crazy to think the dad got arrested and might not even know! When he finds out his son died omg how tragic.
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i don’t even want to imagine his reaction
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Marie miscarried before she had tophia unfortunately
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I really hope this is her final wake up call to stop acting like a bum and to actually get her life together. I don’t think it’s too late at age 30 but she’s got a lot of work to do
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I’ve seen ppl older than her getting their lives back together. She’s still young and has plenty of time to set things right
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Literally my mom went back to school in her 40s to change career, I know another woman who did the same thing after her divorce. If she works hard enough it wont be too late to have a good credit, a driving license and a degree by the time she reaches 40
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One could only hope
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They need to considering how dangerous it is to live on the streets. She definitely needs adult services since I honestly don’t believe she can function on her own so perhaps a group home. Regardless her situation is horrible and right now she probably feels scared since she’s alone.
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it’s never too late, but i honestly wouldn’t blame her if she didn’t. her current situation is so hard and i would be too overwhelmed nd mentally exhausted to even try anymore. its very easy to give up in a situation like this, and i honestly think she already gave up a long time ago. i hope she can turn things around tho :(
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It’s possible, just needs a lot of sauce.. I’m hoping one day I can see her prosper
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Seriously. I feel so bad for them all. This is so tragic, and I feel insensitive for saying this, but I hope this is a wake up call for her how important having a stable job and life is. I hope it makes her want to get herself and her mom off the street, because she realizes how dangerous it is. They were robbed, and now this, a horrible traumatic tragedy, all in the span of just a few months. living on the streets is not safe and it will end badly. I also hope this shows her that she could lose anyone at any moment and she needs to protect her mom and treat her better because you never know when things can change. I’m so sorry Tophia, you did not deserve to experience any of what you did. I hope you can get the help you need to pull you out of this situation and heal from experiencing something so traumatic.
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not to mention Tophia cannot drive. sadly, they did depend on brotherchu for a lot of things. laying her baby brother to rest will be devastating. I absolutely feel so sick and horrible for them.
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Just heartbreaking. He was the only one with a job, a license, a will to live, friends, a social life etc
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These people are fucking crazy! I never thought I would be showing actual sympathy and tears for Tophia. Being homeless, alone, and seeing your brother passed away? That sounds like the ultimate grief in the making.
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i agree, this is such an unexpected tragedy. the thought of it makes my stomach churn, i feel so fucking bad for her.
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In her story she said she was sorry for leaving her mom in the car and that she should’ve stayed with her :( that’s genuinely so sad and as much as I don’t like her this is so heartbreaking
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thinking about how donald was their primary caregiver and monetary flow im extra worried
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Although what happened today was a tragedy that no one should go through. Hopefully this will be a wake up call because I believe she hasn’t been alone by herself in her life. hopefully it puts things to perspective of what her life has become and learns from it. Hopefully she will get a job after the grieving and do better for herself.
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She’s a victim. She will get free therapy from the state. Hopefully she takes it seriously and will work through her problems.
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I think for the time being they’ll give her shelter and help, and once Marie recovers both of them have to start living in shelters too. Tophia will have to face the reality of seriously considering getting a job and stepping away from social media after all this
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Aunt Karen posted about Tophia needing a hotel room so I wouldn’t be surprised if she pays for one and or helps her get the funds. I think she needs to be put in the hospital herself if mamachu doesn’t make it bc she’s threatened to self harm so many times before idk if she can handle this
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She needs to go to a shelter and seek a case worker to connect her to resources such as public housing and job opportunities to provide for the family she has left. But I'm not confident she will do this.
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I'm not either. I think at this point she is kind of a lost cause. She has no drive or ambition or motivation to do better. She doesn't want to work some "minimum wage job" but that's all she will be able to get because of her lack of education, life skills, work experience, financial responsibility, and whatever learning and mental disabilities she has.
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You have to start somewhere. I have a job that sustains me now but I started in fast food. Wish she would understand this.
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Tbh I don’t think she’s capable of holding down a job given she has bad hygiene
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Exactly. Like this is some shit I wouldn’t wish on my worse enemy
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I honestly feel like she might unalive herself, i cant see her putting in the work to become a functioning member of society
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Yeah tophungus is a lost cause. She's made it abundantly clear she doesn't want a job and won't get one. This might send her over the edge cuz now she's really screwed. She has no education, no life skills, no work experience. She's immature and financially irresponsible. I don't see this turning out well.
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I hope they can go to a shelter or maybe have some money for a motel room. I saw a couple of people saying they would donate to help with the funeral of brotherchu. This is heartbreaking no one deserves this. I really hope Tophia will reflect and realize this lifestyle is not sustainable and get help. I know working sucks no one likes it but being homeless and vulnerable is not it for ANYONE. I know she’s on this subreddit and if she sees this, please tophia change your life it’s never too late. People WILL help you if you want to help yourself no one wants to see you like this suffering
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I'm afraid if people donate money for their funerals that it won't be spent appropriately, she's shown us time and time again that she will spend her last dollar and stupid frivolous sht and if she sees big money rolling in I think she will blow it before they're even in the ground unfortunately.
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Yeah I’m scared about that too :/ I really hope this day pushes her in the right direction towards helping herself
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only time will tell.
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I was thinking about that too like I hope she doesn’t end up somewhere on the street considering her brother and mother were helping her with their benefits
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Hopefully she can get a social worker that can help her especially now she’s going to need the support.
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hopefully she can go to a shelter. the ones in my city have long waitlists and are surprisingly very hard to get into, idk how they are in albuquerque- hopefully due to the gravity of the situation some strings can be pulled. bc she’s a victim of a crime and lost her brother i think she will be able to get free counseling and sometimes other resources as well
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Honestly I genuinely hope she takes advantage of the resources provided and connects to a social worker. A group home would be a great place for her which can also assist with her job training too. ☹️
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Honestly her best case is a group home, I don’t think she’s mentally capable of functioning on her own. Mamachu needs to be put in a retirement home as well
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I was honestly wondering the same. If losing the apartment and then the hotel weren’t enough for her to pull it together, I wonder if this horrible situation will do the trick.
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Me too. This is such a sad situation
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i heard aunt karen is raising money for a hotel for her. and for the first time in my life, i’m going to donate to her.
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Hopefully she will finally utilize the resources available to her to support her
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It is now time for her to grow up. I feel bad morally for her losing everyone, but I will not sit here and play pretend to everything terrible this grown woman has done and said. She can get up and get help. She's mentally disabled. To prove she is and get into group homes with a DSP and financial aid food stamps, everything she's ever wanted but was too lazy to do
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She needs to get into a group home, get therapy, and maybe take life skill classes and some type of job training. If she does not try and get out of this hole she is in , there is not much hope for her or Marie. It's ALL up to her now.
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lmfao you people are absolutely ridiculous. all of a sudden you people care about Tophia💀💀💀💀
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i have 0 concerns.
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She'll probably go to a group home or homeless shelter. The police do give some free resources like therapy, so hopefully, she takes advantage of that.