In common with tophia🧌
I was thinking to myself everything I have in common with tophia so I can better myself for me I have no drivers license what do you have in common with tophia?
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No drivers license either 😭 To be fair to myself, I have been in multiple crashes with other people so cars give me anxiety in general
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I can find a back way to anyone because I can not drive on the highway. Deep fear omg. Someone told me to get over my anxiety like that's not how it works and act like I never tried, and today, I still try. I can't 😪 I hate driving, but I have to. I don't have people to help get me back and forth to work 😒 😩
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Man maybe you should just stay away from cars in general for the safety of everyone.
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I was never the one driving lmao
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Maybe you should learn to be respectful of people’s traumas
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I have a tik tok account and instagram
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I don’t have my license either, but I have too much anxiety to drive anyways
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I can't cook.
I also don't want to have a job... but a lot of people feel that way. (I have a job)
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Yeah big difference from sucking it up too make money to have ends meet vs crying how the internet doesn’t do anything for you
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I said that to my husband this morning 🤣🤣 I lost a job, and the same day, I got a new one, but I didn't want to 🙃
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[() "I was looking for a job, and then I found a job And heaven knows I'm miserable now In my life Oh, why do I give valuable time To people who don't care if I live or die?
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Avoidance. It's been especially bad over this past winter. There's been a lot of stress with government forms, getting glasses fixed and eyes retested, motivating myself to workout and eat better, and trying to escape my head and be more social. I want to look for a second job too so I can actually start growing again as opposed to living paycheck to paycheck.
I'm starting to be more proactive, but I got a lot of things I need to catch up on now and it's overwhelming. But I'm tryin' :)
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Same honestly we got this
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100% 😊 Legit been using ChatGBT to help plan out workout routines and trying to build more structure and discipline.
The hardest part is feeling connected to the world and those around me.-
Real I’ve started walking every 3 days out of the week and lost 30 pounds
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That’s awesome! That’s my goal for this year too is to do more walking.
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I also grew up poor with housing insecurity and a severely mentally ill and abusive father. The difference is I very quickly learned that this shit was miserable and I never want to sleep in a car again (even though it only happened once and was for one night)
i even dropped out of university after a year bc of an undiagnosed learning disability but you know what i did? i sought out help and a diagnosis as i went to my community college to get my associates. and now i’ll be back in uni to get my bachelors and masters. ☺️
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Period I’m proud of you I hope tophia sees that there are people out there like her and she can better herself there are no excuses
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thank you!! im very proud of myself as well. honestly i think i keep up with tophia bc we have a similar upbringing and i like to see what i could’ve been if i stayed with my parents. it keeps me motivated
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I’m overweight and unemployed, but I’m also a stay at home mom so.
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Off topic but I only let myself listen to her lives when I’m doing something constructive (usually house cleaning, in work or sewing or something) so when I hear her voice now I feel the urge to be productive. I Pavlov’d myself lol I need her lives back soon.
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Real af her life style is my nightmare it pushes me to want to do better in my life.
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Impulse purchases. I make sure I can afford it though 😂
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Also no drivers license 😔
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I don’t have a job or a drivers license.. but I’m not 30 damn years old
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i'm fat
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I (and my partner) became homeless the same month and year she did just two weeks before she got evicted. We were on the streets like her but in Arizona right next door.
However, we took advantage of our resources, we even got lucky and stayed inside the shelter (it's hard to get a bed with overpopulation) and even a paid motel, it was part of their program.
Our social workers were.... questionable. So me and my partner became our own "social workers" while working with staff still as that was part of the program and researched a lot and saved up a lot and decided Arizona is too expensive and bounced to a state we could afford at the time.
Exactly one year to the date of when we became homeless we finally had a new apartment! A little studio with furniture we paid for. 🙂 I don't understand how these streets especially that fucking HEAT don't kick her ass into gear.
Even sitting in the library is blah but in the library there are plenty of job offers and schooling help on those flyers they usually have available to people. Even rental and utilities help. She just has to LOOK.
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Im so happy for you guys it’s not easy out there but you made better of your situation
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No drivers license, still live with my parents. I do want to get my drivers license, that’s my biggest goal right now but I don’t plan to move out anytime soon.
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I’m on Reddit often which probably counts as social media, and Tophia is chronically on social media. That’s the only thing we have in common.
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I also dropped out of community college….. but I’m
working. Kind of figuring out what I wanna do, but I’m really leaning towards beauty school and saving money for that.-
At least you have a plan and is working keep up the good work
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I can drive but it took me a while to learn. (aka last year and I'm 25 🤣) I would also prefer not to work but I have a job. I guess the thing I have common is I still live with my mom. 🤷♀️ rent is expensive and I have no friends that need roommates at the moment. 🤣 Also I guess her and I need dental work done, her probably more. Mine is because of genetics, going to take out a loan to get them fixed this year, so at least I have a plan..😅
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Real af keep up the good work I hope tophia is taking notes.
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I’m so happy things are better for you guys 🙏🏾
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I prefer not to work, too, but I grew up in the poor house. I finished high school, went and finished college a few years after high school, and now I’m just chilling. Like I said, even though I have my degree, I still would not like to work BUT at least I’m working in a field that I prefer (versus working in a field where I have no choice).
I just bought a brand new car and I have 2 pets - two birds. I rent an apartment, by myself, but I would love to own a home someday. Unfortunately, I don’t think homeownership is going to happen any time soon. The economy isn’t doing well and as we all know, the prices have gone wild.
I was the first and only one in my family to finish college and receive their bachelors degree. I think it’s possible for someone like Tophia, but she truly needs to put the work into it. There is no “easy pass” in college. It’s a TON of studying, homework, and exams, but if I can do it, anyone can do it.
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Why was this deleted
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Social media is now my full time job
Not plugging anything but yes
I have two hands, a nose......was about to say ears but I am not sure whatever she has on her neck can be counted as ears