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the way she goes about this is so weird to me. did the shock wear off THAT fast?
the jump from being ripped out of a car, seeing your brother pass away from a gunshot wound. to then watch as someone who just MURDERED your brother drive away with your mother! to then just hop right back on the interent to fucking argue of all things is insane. like THATS the most important thing to do right now.
i feel sad to say but i genuinely believe that tophia has zero care that this happened to her and instead is just worried about how much sympathy she can now gain from the situation from now to whenever she posted that video on her instagram story minutes after the carjacking took place "she was using instagram as an outlet because she was scared"
IF SOME SHIT LIKE THAT HAPPENED TO ME ID BE INCONSOLABLE ON THE GROUND NOT WHIPPING MY PHONE OUT! the way she just throws in donald and marie in the middle of her self absorbed rants about how much trauma she has is disgusting. and i fear she's going to be using this trauma excuse for the rest of her life. this is a get out of jail card for her. her brother's passing
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Her mind went right to “money money money”
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I don't like talking about my PTSD and trauma. I worked through a lot of it in therapy, but I remember that day like yesterday then it's black, but the scream I made haunts me. Then, for days, I just floated through life, not talking to anyone, crying; then they shut the casket. I knew I would never see him again. I hate goodbye because they are forever. I don't understand why she wants to be on here and not soaking every moment up with her mom since she so desperately wants to take her back to the streets to spend this 10k plus with her.
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I also have PTSD and trauma. For me, it characterizes in a way where I'm basically obsessed with it. I'm reliving it constantly, sometimes I talk about it even when I don't want it or when it's inappropriate... And yet, it continues to happen. I'm sure if you asked your therapist, they would agree that people react and handle trauma differently.
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She’s literally addicted to the internet. I was really hoping she’d get off
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She won’t step back and see that they lost their son. No parent should outlive their own child. She’s up in her own head and she won’t come out.
Do we know Mommachu’s condition? If she was in a private room, Toph could probably stay with her. Unless she’s pitching a fit, then she’d be booted. I wonder if she’s in the ICU?
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Marie's in a double, Tophia can't stay. No idea where she goes though.
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I thought she’d be in shock about it all but it doesn’t appear so.
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She doesn’t have anyone else to vent to but internet strangers. That said, does anyone know if Tophia has any relatives like aunts, uncles, that can help them out?
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She has an uncle that lives in Albuquerque who had offered them a place to stay before. She didn’t want to because apparently they had strict rules, one of them being no social media…
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I would put my foot down too if I couldn’t argue with strangers online to point they harass and dox me while simultaneously turning the house into a filthy house of horrors
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Not only that but she could’ve easily stayed at her original house or the various motels if only she hadn’t insisted on digging her head into the sand. They were not forced into homelessness by the internet or by unsolvable circumstances. There have been SO many people being sympathetic and trying to help Tophia pick herself up, to become more financially responsible, to start WORKING again, but she made the decision to do nothing. There has been a new wave of people trying to do that after this tragedy but it’s still going to result in nothing, because Tophia clearly refuses to accept people’s good will and change herself if it doesn’t mean she gets to keep living like she wants to.
It’s awful that Donald Jr. passed, in a better world he wouldn’t been murdered this young. Witnessing such a thing is horrible, the fact that her mother has to live with outliving her son is horrible, the fact that her elderly mother was injured at all is horrible. But these were entirely preventable circumstances. When you’re a 30 year old woman, you know what the consequences of being content living in a car in the middle of Albuquerque so you can keep spending money on Comic-Con and not getting a job could be. They decided that those consequences mattered less than being able to go wherever they want whenever they want and not having to be responsible.
I’ve been following Tophia and wanting to see her change for so long, but if this doesn’t show you that that’s never happening then nothing ever will. Even without the internet she would’ve kept choosing to indulge in momentary enjoyment rather than long term security. Tiktok didn’t make her incapable of managing money or unwilling to become responsible. She was incapable of that from the start and nothing we could’ve done would’ve helped her
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She has resources she won’t take them
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Her brain immediately went right back to groveling for her social media success. That's literally all she cares about on the surface; deep down I'm sure she cares about her family, but that part of her is hidden under many layers of selfishness and immaturity. She's still got that 13 year old brain where she only thinks of herself.