Is Tophia Showing greatfulness at all for Marie living and fighting for her life?
If my mom or any family member was a victim of gun violence I’d keep the room as quiet as possible. I’d prob Try to find a way to practice comfort techniques in her ie stroking the hair unless it’s too painful and make sure I’d watch her face for signs of distress. Tophia hasn’t expressed care for such things. Also I don’t understand her not expressing any gratitude at all.
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I just saw the one she posted about a man’s grave being shot at. It’s very telling if you read between the lines.
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Nah. You already know her, she can’t love.
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She doesn't care she's only thinking about the next FOOD
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No! I doubt she was even loving to her when she first went to the hospital. Prob yelled at her immediately.
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All she talks and cares about is herself!! Everyone and everybody that is around her is an obstacle..
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shes grateful shes not alone, thats all.
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If I was her, I would **not ever stop** begging my mom to forgive me for abandoning her. I’d be at her beck and call for LIFE. I know a good mother would say there’s nothing to forgive, but at least it would show Tophia feels *something* for someone else for once.
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Have you seen that clip where tophia was laughing while starving a cat? Like as horrible as it is, it’s not surprising that tophia seemingly doesn’t gaf about her mom given her past history with any living thing😭
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I wanted to forget that 😭 That video randomly popped up in my head very shortly after the shooting happened and my sympathy just…**immediately** evaporated. That poor baby was *fighting for its LIFE for a piece of food* 💔 I genuinely hope Peaches was really rehomed and given all the food and love she/he deserves.
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Right? I couldn’t even watch the full clip it was so bad… and her fatass was sitting there chowing down on candy and giggling?? I can’t imagine why anyone would choose to defend someone like that
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I believe Tophia loves her mom, but anyone who tries to tell her any different or tries to say things she should be doing and not doing definitely is an Obstacle to her. The end of the day Tophia wants to do, what Tophia wants to do! If Marie changed her ways and didn’t encourage Tophia to chase her pathetic dangerous Excuse of a social media Career then Tophia would label Marie as a road block and an obstacle. Tophia won’t even try to LISTEN to people telling her what she is doing is dangerous and not worth it, she will only listen to Rebuttal their argument and not try to understand their POV or their feelings and concerns. Thats why Marie should NEVER be placed in Tophias care AT ALL!
I hope Marie gets placed in Assisting a living or a Family member steps up and takes her in.-
The way she treats her mom is not love.
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I believe she loves her but doesn’t RESPECT her, and she knows her mother is a pushover. All Tophia has to do is whine and cry and yell at her and BOOM Tophia gets her way!
I think Marie was mentally and verbally abused most of her life by men, and Donald groomed Marie. I think Marie whole heartedly loves that man, and the reason I feel she coddles Tophia is Marie has a lot of regrets what her children went through from Donald Sr and instead of leaving the father she stood beside them and justified protecting them from their father. Coddling Tophia. I think it goes a lot deep than what I am saying. Thats my summary in a nutshell.
I also want to add I believe Marie is mentally disabled and her father is definitely Mentally disabled and Tophia learned how to peg them against each other from an early age and took advantage of her parents and their disabilities to get her way.
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I still don’t see it as love. Just toxic codependency on each other. I’ve stoped trying to reframe consistently shitty behavior as love even if it’s from a family member.
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Spot on. I'm so bad at explaining anything. That's exactly it.
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TOPHIA DOES NOT LOVE HER MOM AS MUCH AS SHE DOES NOT LOVE HERSELF
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NO!!!!!
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There's a point in your own declining self-perception that you feel so much shame that you develop a sort of holier than thou complex. Charisma on Command on YT has a really good video about this covering Elon Musk's psychology where you can draw parallels between the way both Elon and tofupa thinks & acts.
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the way i would be by my moms side the entire time holding her hand and talking to her. i would not be arguing with trolls online and spending every waking moment on my phone.
im tired of the “SHES GRIEVING! LEAVE HER ALONE!” because she’s not grieving. she’s acting like a fucking iPad kid while her mother is recovering from BEING SHOT IN THE FACE!!! why doesn’t Tophia and her defenders understand the severity of that situation?! YOUR. MOM. ALMOST. DIED. TOPHIA. GET OFFLINE!
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No. ❤️ She's too busy ranting about whatever pops up in her instagram feed.