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Eh people seem to be donating to her, gotta remember people will donate to anyone nowadays if they feel even a little bad for them
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The one go fund me was nearly 2k last I looked
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She’s so mad she won’t be able to spend that on temu jewelry. You can hear it in her voice
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It’s been getting some good traction
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Odd post. No update on her mom, only worried about the money.
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odd?? this is sociopathic
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And everyone was calling me a loser and pathetic for calling them out. First post back and it’s all about $$. I need that apology asap you know who u are
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She’s not required to give us updates
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She was probably told not to give any updates 🤷♀️
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Who could have possibly predicted this
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Like clockwork
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the people defending donating directly to her are in shambles rn. what a fucked situation
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this is disappointing but not surprised :/
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To anyone who actually sent her money to cash app does it actually say errror?? So odd
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Yeah, can anyone confirm?? I really don't want to believe that she's scamming. Please.
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i have no words honestly
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Her brother gets shot execution style less than 72 hours ago, and she’s already doing this. Irredeemable
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A lot of us already called this about her which is why we didn’t want to send her money directly but somewhere else that we know it’ll be put to good use.
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It is SO odd that her cashapp is always saying payment failed?? Even before the incident this is been happening, its so strange to me
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So many people probably have done refunds on cash app to. So cash app probably thinks she’s scamming so they are protecting whoever sends money.
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i asked about mamachu and she just said she couldn’t answer
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She's always got time and freedom to answer a question or two about how to send her money though!
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which is weird considering right after she posted two more stories about paypal/cashapp
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My god like all sympathy for her just left. Basically she is saying only donate to the gofundme set up by her and only her so she has control of the money. There is already one set up by his car meet friends and they are more than likely more trustworthy than Tophia. There is no need for another Gofundme, Tophia is going to misuse any funds given to her for stupid shit and on top of that she continues to push her cash app scam. Do not give Tophia any money, it will not go towards funeral expenses, it will not go towards medical expenses, and if it does it will only go towards the bare minimum needed and the rest will go to fast food and stupid shit. If you want to donate, I would donate to the gofundme set up by the car meet guys.
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She encouraged people to donate to the go fund me set up by his friends.
Look, it’s tactless that she’s posting about money so soon but honestly it doesn’t take away from the tragedy she went through. She’s still homeless and now needing to think of funeral expenses as well as whatever will be needed for her mother. It makes sense that finances are on her mind.
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you never had any GENUINE sympathy in the first place, lmao. yall couldn't wait to go back to reguraly scheduled programming.
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i swear. if the only financially stable person in my family was murdered and my mother was in the hospital, and we have NOWHERE to go because the vehicle we were residing at was totaled, i would be worried about money too. that’s the cold, hard truth about our society; you cannot worry about just one thing. the bias against her is stronger than the “empathy” they swore up and down they had. sad.
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Yeah you know me so well don’t ya.
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I thought the main go fund me was made by Donald’s friends?
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Yes. It is a valid go fund me. If you look at the ig accounts that Donald’s rainbow bright ig account followed (ie his car friends), they had this gfm by Ryan M linked in their stories. In addition, these are the same accounts that were posting very touching panoramic shots of all the ppl who gathered in the parking lot to honor the loss of Donald.
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Then people that want to donate should definitely donate to that specific one. Thank you for clarifying hun xx
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bruh
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well there goes that question about her character
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It’s almost like she’s a bad person 😮 who could’ve guessed!? People were really expecting that this would change her? She’s the same old selfish, mean, dishonest person, just with the added label of ‘traumatized’… all this situation will do is add to her victim complex. Let’s be honest with each other right now.
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What did I say? WHAT DID I SAY?!
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As a mod I was harsh on posts criticizing her/family yesterday just because not appropriate given the time frame.
This? I can’t excuse or defend her on. No update on her mother at all, nothing even about her brother. Just straight up “this is how you give me money.” Wow.
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Hardly even a thank you for the money she has gotten 😭 Even a “Thank you for the support, I can’t talk about anything yet but I am really thankful for the support during this difficult time and my mom is doing better” at the end of one of the clips would’ve conveyed the point & made her seem a lot less focused on the money 😭
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That’s what I am saying…like context matters. I get that she will need money to help support herself after this. Truly I get that and I am not against that.
But she is IMMEDIATELY hyperfocused on getting the donations and making sure she has full control over it.
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YUP 💯 Even framed different as a “I am so thankful for the support for me and my family right now, my mom is doing okay right now. I am taking a break and I can’t share much, but just wanted to share that my cashapp is down so any donations through cashapp are not coming through, please donate to my paypal instead. Once again thank you all for the support-“ would’ve come off vastly different than these stories did.
Ik it’s like a wording choice thing and that she is grateful to at least some degree, but it definitely js comes across as ungrateful or money hungry to spend 3 stories talking abt money and donations after all that has happened alongside w hardly any thank you or update abt her mom. Ofc she doesn’t owe an update abt her mom but ppl are genuinely worried about her mom so hearing that she is doing okay would be reassuring to some ppl.
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she doesnt owe anyone an explanation on the status of her family. we are lucky to have even found out before the news told us. we are lucky that she even felt comfortable enough to tell us right as it happened. yalls priorities are fucked.
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I wouldn’t say “we are lucky…” that is an odd statement.
She posts everything online, literally everything. We aren’t owed an explanation but when you post that your brother was shot in the head and your mom is in the hospital, I feel like that warrants some type of update rather than “my cashapp doesn’t work don’t donate to that gofundme send it to my paypal”
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we arent owed anything. idk why u think a person on the internet owes us every explanation on what they do. marie isnt our mom. therefore we dont need to demand or question WHY we arent being fed information abt someone elses family. its TOPHIAS mom… when she wants to share that information then she will. just bc tophia had been on our phone screens for the last year doesnt mean we are obligated to see maries recovery journey. and thinking we do is extremely selfish and odd.
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Never said I wanted to see Marie’s recovery journey?
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I don’t think “lucky” applies to anyone in this situation.
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BRO SHE STILL SCAMMING 😭😭😭😭
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Idk do we know where she's at right now?, I mean she could be at a shelter or in the hospital with Marie and have no money. It's very strange that the first thing she posts about is demanding money from PayPal though
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What did y’all expect HONESTLY 😭😭😭
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Last I know she was with the police and they were going to take her to the hospital.
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Someone show this to the person on here who just said they’re gonna give her a couple thousand dollars.
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Despite everything she still trying to scam people smh
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lol, wow it's NOT that crazy. Don't forget to Toph is. No updates on mama. Just focused on getting that cash.
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nothing about marie???
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shes going to be milking this poor mans death
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This is why I ain’t giving her a cent. Still feel bad for her loss, but seriously? You’re worried about the money?
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of course she’s still the same
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I won’t sent money to her. I feel bad, but funeral homes will accept donations. When I lost my loved one the funeral home said if I had problems covering the expenses and I had a go fund me that those funds can be sent directly to the funeral home or people can call them and they accept donations to go towards the cost of burying a loved one.
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She will use the bare minimum of the money to bury or cremate her brother and the rest of the money will be spent on “junk” like she always does. I would send the money to Marie’s PayPal account. We know Marie will spend that money to bury her son in the most honorable way. Mlucero471 on PayPal
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She has no shame
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Who's shocked, not me.
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Anyone dumb enough to give a lolcow money directly is dumber than the actual lolcow
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I highly highly doubt the go fund me posted here is a scam ugh I wanted to have faith in her but damn
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Thst gofundme was created by Donald’s friends so I doubt it.
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so we CAN or CANT donate to the gofundme that Donald’s car friend’s put together? I was planning on donating a little once I got paid but 😕 I know how it feels to lose a loved one
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Djrs friend probably wants to use the money for the funeral, and maybe tophiachu asked for the money to be given to her
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I understand needing money right now for the funeral but I still have that iffy feeling because she has a history of misusing funds…
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If you feel iffy about it, wait until they post where they plan on having the funeral and donate directly to the home. Everyone is still in shock about it, there’s no shame in waiting to donate. She’s been given thousands of dollars, and has yet to do the responsible thing with the money.
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Do whatever you want
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def just gonna send it to the gofundme…i know she can’t talk too much but the first update is about $ and not talkin about if her mom is okay / she’s safe / the convo with her and Karen??
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And this here is why I didn't say a thing. She is already thinking about the money she will be getting. She is a disgusting person, and that is why I will not give her a dime. Also, she will not take a break from the internet. She will use this horrible situation to take advantage of people and keep scamming them.
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24 hours. There’s goes the good will she had from people. She deserves the criticism that’s about to come her way
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MAYBE im just giving her the benefit of the doubt, but i hope its just the fact the police are telling her that she shouldnt/cant say anything about the current status of mamachu. i just dont want to believe that after such a tragedy, all she still cares about is money.
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That’s a big possibility because she deleted her story yesterday where she updated us and if the investigation is on going they most likely told her to keep quiet. Plus, Marie is a victim of gun violence, hospitals don’t play about privacy for victims.
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I was literally crying for her last night (don’t flame me 😭) and now she’s like “don’t donate to my brothers funeral donate to me instead” like?????
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No words. Oh my goodness.
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WOW.
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i’m honestly shocked any of you are. tophia is not a good person and tragedy isn’t going to change that.
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are y’all actually surprised.. of course she’s going to pull this shit
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Why didn’t she mention what the money is for? Is she asking for money to cover the funeral or a hotel?
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She doesn't want your hard earned money sent anywhere but her pocket.
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u/i-wanted-that-iced you were saying?
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Love the pettiness. People were coming at me so hard yesterday and now half of that half knows the people criticizing were right
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Iced is also defending the teen porn by lying claiming they were adult actors (they were not) and is probably a pedo.
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Bro you had a argument like that too 😭 that stuff is legit fantasy about underage teens !
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u/According-Date-2762 you too, since you were dumb enough to give her money
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What’s your point here? We can disagree with Tophia’s actions and still understand that she didn’t deserve to see her family shot in front of her.
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My point is that we should be rejoicing in Tophia's "suffering" (which she isn't bc she's back to scamming), not feeling sorry for her, defending her, or sending her money. It is objectively immoral to feel even the least bit bad for her.
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Get therapy.
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Already got reintegrative therapy, thanks for the concern trolling, pedo.
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I didn’t say anything yesterday because I knew this would happen-
If it quacks like a duck, it’s a duck.
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Cash > Mamachu wow
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Bro it hasn’t even been 72 hours yet and she’s back to scamming 😟
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tophia….
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she needs to LOG. OFF. oh my GOD how is my sympathy already being ruined for her.
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Lmaoooo 😂😂😂 🤷🏾♀️
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I'm not from America, why does her Cashapp never work? Do the people who send her money not get notified that their payment failed?
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Im 96% sure that tophia is scamming by saying payments didnt go through to double the amount she’s receiving from the people already gracious enough to give her money in the first place
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Oh, yikes. That's awful, thanks for clarifying.
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Can someone please edit this to have a gingerbread man filter? It's what I've come to expect
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Oh..
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You would think she’d be giving updates on Marie not this ??
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I don’t think her referring to her mom in past tense saying “my mom never liked mama chu” isn’t a good sign.. 😔
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The girls grammar is like shite. What do you expect lol
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I was just about to say that too. I don’t want to speculate too much because she’s grieving and also not the smartest but I have a bad feeling about that
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Brah shit just happened yesterday what if Marie wants to speak about what happened to her or anything seriously the lack of compassion is crazy
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Wow…just wow
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now everyone drops their act and is back to riding her ass. 😄
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Holding her accountable doesn’t mean we “dropped the act”.
A lot of you are very dense.
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Two whole minutes repeating the same line about money. Damn, people don’t change overnight do they. She’s traumatized but no mention of her mom, no decompression of the events, just money management. She deleted her last story so maybe she’s not allowed to say anything during an investigation?
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I’m going to still give her the benefit of the doubt and that is just me and my opinion. My father was in critical condition and it honestly it was wait and see. She doesn’t owe us any update on her mom, but we do want it, but it’s not owed. For the mean time I think it’s fine she’s making sure no one gets scammed. Again just my opinion
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Why are people saying she’s scamming? She literally said she doesn’t want other people to be scammed
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Every single gofundme me or fundraiser she had for herself in the past went to stupid shit and not for what the fundraisers were for. She also continued to push her cash app scam in the video. There is already a gofundme me set up by brotherchus friends so there is no need for another one.
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She said not to donate to the gofundme
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Why though? Why isn’t that gofund me enough?
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Wtf are you even talking about.. she literally says in the video not to donate to any that haven’t been approved by her
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Because her first statement right after this isn’t an update on her mom or talking about her brother or even how she’s doing it’s straight to money and cash app and go fund me.
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None of this means that she’s scamming people... she isn’t obligated to tell the internet everything about what happened, so I don’t see why you’re complaining about that. She also lost the car along with all of it, which was the only form of shelter she even had, so I also don’t see why it’s such an issue for her to be asking for donations either
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u have to understand that most of the ppl here will still find shit to attack her on. like someone said “why didnt she say anything abt her mom” maybe bc she was told not to? could be by police or the hospital. it doesnt matter tho, we are lucky enough to have been the first ones to be told what happened BY tophia herself. then she comes out and says “hey dont send money to gofundmes that aren’t confirmed by me bc ur losing ur money and getting scammed” then ppls first thoughts are “ well here she goes worrying abt money”… like she is still homeless, she still doesn’t have constant money coming in… her worrying abt money isnt a sign of her wanting to scam ppl. its so weird. and she doesnt HAVE to update us abt her mom, at least not yet. hell the hospital prolly will make tophia have a HUGE thing of medical bills that they also have to consider. yet ppl are rlly complaining that a homeless broke person who just lost a loved one and another in the hospital is worried abt getting proper help and ALSO making sure others aren’t getting scammed. let that sink in.
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Exactly... as much as people complain about her not being productive enough or doing anything about her situation (prior to this) you would think they would be glad that she finally as her mind set on the right things now. But nope, they STILL find something to complain about and criticize her for.
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Even after all that happened… unbelievable
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Like always, worried about the wrong thing
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Ok but what about Marie
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Idk maybe she can’t speak on Marie’s condition o guess but this is lowkey what I mean by definitely having so much sympathy for her but also so much frustration and a teensy bit of anger too
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Did you break your leg trying to record this?
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Yeah, she's all about the money right now but this time she really needs it.
She's just trying to make sure it's all going to her and not someone else that would hand it over to her .
If she spends it on stupid shit, I will never defend her about asking for money.She could at least update us on her mother.
That's who we are all worried about.
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Y’all were dragging the cord and running smear campaigns but here are y’all sat EXPECTING tophia to update y’all about HER mother that went through the most traumatic event in their lives. Shame on all of you that you’d even assume Tophia is required to give you people updates. Her brother died just over 24 hours ago and y’all are back to calling her a scammer… and who were the bad people exactly??
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Nobody expects a full update…just an “I will keep everyone posted thank you for the prayers/donations/love etc.”
Instead she jumped right into where we can send her money (in a way she has full control over it). I get it, she will need support, but to me that’s…odd and distasteful? And shows what is really on the forefront of her mind?
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What’s distasteful is the entitlement of expecting Tophia to put YOUR wants first. She doesn’t owe us anything, her brother was JUST murdered. She’s intellectually stunted, shes probably struggling to fully process everything. Some of the same people saying they don’t feel bad because Donald was a predator are sat here mad that Tophia’s asking people not to donate to any verified fundraisers for the same predator they were showing no remorse for yesterday.
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I don’t think I am entitled to anything. I don’t care if she updates us or not bc my life doesn’t revolve around Tophia fortunately. I am just stating why people would find this distasteful/be opposed to donating after her statement with no heartfelt sentiment behind it, just strictly hyperfocused on money.
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to think anyone expects anything good from her is laughable. What happened was tragic but the first thing ppl expected her to say was not “send ME the money”. she couldn’t have posted a little tribute to dj? or say marie is well?
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deeply sorry for her loss, but literally no one wants to donate their money to her.. there’s a reason most role rather donate to his friends