Let your mother rest!
As a healthcare worker it absolutely infuriates me to see the continued posts while clearly in your mother’s hospital room. Her hearing aside, a hospital is meant as a place of healing and rest. None of which can be achieved with you on your phone scrolling through social media and then posting your yaps. Zip it or leave the room. There are waiting rooms available or other common areas but patient rooms are not for you to sit and blather on with your nonsense. Let her rest!
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All of this. I’m also a nurse and have had no problem asking family members to take food, conversations or other disruptive activities OUT of the patient room. I can only imagine that the volume on Tophia’s phone as she scrolls is not at an appropriate level. You can 100% bet that social services and APS are both on the case and monitoring closely as they prepare for her d/c.
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100% I just pray the right set of eyes and ears are on that girl. I pray most of those nurses on that floor are whole heartily paying attention to her, and warriors of compassion and diligence of their position as a Nurse. I pray the social workers and APS are paying full attention, and are not overworked and understaffed, so things get swept under the rug. I know Nursing Homes can be Awful, and they’re usually Awful with Memory Care Patients,as sad as that sounds. Marie is fully aware and as awful as it sounds to some a nursing home is safer than being in the hands of Tophia and the care Tophia would Provide her mother. I Pray a nicer Facility has an open Medicare bed that allows Marie to go to. She will live a much happier, safer, stress free life there. If Tophia won’t change her mindset and lifestyle.
Well oh well at least she is only hurting herself this time and not her family.
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Tophia is also the kind of person to tell her mom, "If you want something, get your own with your money. This is mines" (T-HUH) (HEHE)
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I just told my mom that they run to the break room to talk about her.
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lol you’re being nice. Breakroom?? Try nurses station and full on in the breakroom sharing videos they found from Tik Tok, Reddit and instagram and Google to one another
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All of this. I’m also a nurse and have had no problem asking family members to take food, conversations or other disruptive activities OUT of the patient room. I can only imagine that the volume on Tophia’s phone as she scrolls is not at an appropriate level. You can 100% bet that social services and APS are both on the case and monitoring closely as they prepare for her d/c.
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Please correct me if I’m wrong; but aren’t there normally more than one patient in some rooms, she’s not just hindering her mothers recovery but she’s disturbing any other patients that are potentially in the room
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there’s a possibility! i’ve volunteered at diff hospitals and some have private rooms for everyone and some they’re just separated by a curtain
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My guess is she is still acute enough to require a private room.
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Tophia said she can't spend the night because Marie has a roommate. So unfortunately, she's bothering another patient with her yapping.
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Yes. I’ve only ever not had a roomate when in icu or due to infection reasons as I usually get sepsis or some other bad infection, so I’m kept away with others.
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No one has mentioned it but the monitors that are beeping are doing so because of three reasons aside from the iv being pinched. Low o2, high or too low heart beat, or blood pressure is too high/low. Tophia presence at the hospital is going to be Marie’s downfall at this rate.
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I said blood pressure. Notice when she really starts yapping, it starts to go faster. Peep pep peeeep
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Not only is her incessant yapping bothering her mother, but it is absolutely bothering her roommate! Jesus Christ, she has absolutely no self-awareness whatsoever.
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Honestly, hospitals are noisy and terrible places to rest. I’ve been in hospital several times and a whole family of my roomate was practically living in the room, it was terrible.
That said, Tophia isn’t equipped to take care of Marie and I hope a social worker steps in and helps .
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I hope TOPHIA sees this and pulls her head out of her 🫏
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MIND YOU she won’t.
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Surely the other occupant of the room can complain to staff and have Tophia removed...
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Someone call the hospital tell them she's live streaming and not letting Marie rest
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Oh if the nurses knew she was live streaming in a patients room that is a Possible Hippa Violation due to something could be said in the background
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HIPAA only applies to those working healthcare workers or non-healthcare workers in a hospital settings like a janitor.
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She's in the hospital with her mother. These could possibly be their last moments together, hopefully not, but damn Tophia.... You're still on concerning yourself with drama that doesn't matter, not to you anyway. It's just sad to see.
I wish Marie all the best in her recovery, physically and mentally.
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even just going on my phone while visiting my grandma in the hospital felt wrong
she was making CONTENT!? she’s so sick
She has said in one of her stories that the reason she isn’t able to spend the night at the hospital with her mother is because it’s a shared room. I work in health care, as a nurse I would be infuriated at this situation. Believe me when I tell you this, since this was a horrific crime all those nurses and Doctors are Very much aware of her Social Media Presence, and I am sure they’re investigating her social media Presence and Tophia is the talk at the nurses station area and the breakroom, and don’t you think for a minute APS or a Social Worker hasn’t spoke to all the Nurses and Dr’s on that floor, about charting everything they see and hear. As a healthcare professional they have to be welcoming and nice to her and show compassion, however if my suspicions are correct.
Most of those nurses right now want to shake the living shit out of her!
Tophia is the type of Daughter that would bring McDonald’s into the room, and enjoy her lunch infront of her mom and munch on snacks her mom once enjoyed, all while knowing her mom is on a pureed diet and is probably smelling and craving the cheeseburger she is eating!