My honest take of her lashing out
I’m very neutral about the situation going on with Tophia. There’s really no justifying her actions and blaming others for her brother passing but let it be known this is a popular stage of grief.
Tophia is known to say horrible things when she’s upset. This is no different.
I feel bad when I see anyone’s loved one passing away, but I 100% believe this is finally the downfall of Tophiachu.
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Plus Donald Sr is a military vet so Donald Jr can have the cremation free and be buried with a headstone in Arlington National. It’s an honor to be buried there. No one is saying this but they allow one family member plus the veteran to be buried together. My whole family is vets on my mom’s side so I’m very familiar with the process. That would require Tophia to pick up the phone. The only catch is Donald Sr will have to ok it which I’m sure he will.
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No. He was way too old and would not qualify as a disabled dependent child.
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I hope someone can get this info to her
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If any effort is required on her end, she won’t do anything.
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Ugh I fear you’re right 😭
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It's the onset of PTSD as if she wasn't traumatized enough.
It's only gonna get worse from here.
The sympathy train will come to a halt.
She's gonna be just another homeless person in the peripherals of a less than glamorous city, fading away into obscurity.
Maybe we'll hear about her in the news again some years from now.
Weird how Soni-chu got the good ending despite being deeper on the spectrum than Tophia.
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Right, idky people in other posts are surprised or trying to justify their ongoing efforts to bring her down more. When you lose someone like that you want to blame someone. At this point just leave her alone
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I think it’s weird to troll some one who is grieving but given Tophias background and lore, it’s not surprising what so ever to me.
Not condoning it, but she has heavily made fun of people for having dead relatives. She actually uses it as an insult and comeback quite frequently. Given that, I can see why the trolls are having a field day. She needs to get off social media and stop feeding into them but she won’t.
Endless stupid cycle of Tophiachu.
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A lot of us also need to stop acting like we don’t know what thjs subreddit was created for. There’s obviously gonna be a divide between empathy, sympathy, etc.
I’m honestly neutral about the whole situation. Part of me has a heart and part of me cares less cause she won’t ever change.
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She lives (lived now ig) in a car with no decent financial prospects on the horizon she was already at rockbottom there is no downfall needed
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Has she bern grieving for the last few years then cos this behavior is not new.
You guys can make up any excuse you want for her but this is who she is.
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She’s hit rock bottom.. hopefully she grows up from here on out that’s her only option.
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Tophia is a huge projector, so her blaming other people is exactly what I would expect from her. She’s projecting her feelings of knowing she is the main reason her family was living in a car. I don’t have many feelings towards the situation either because she was way too casual about her living situation. She has had plenty of time to get herself together and work on small goals, like a job, even part time, getting a license, applying for aid for her mother and family, etc. She had no responsibilities and all the time to work on at least one of those things. Choosing to be homeless and not using resources can be dangerous.
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How can she possibly have a down fall when we all pay attention to her when she does horrible stupid crap. There will be no down fall because all of the people watching her made her famous from negative attention. The negative attention has made her money. She’s been in a down fall since before they became homeless. Her life is a down fall… but if she keeps being a train wreck and posting there will be people to watch her
I disagree with this being her downfall. She was already in her downfall, people were finally realizing their efforts to help her were futile and she was even talking about jobs. She wasn’t getting anymore traction and it was good for her to finally get a grip on reality but Tophia being Tophia she’s going to milk this tragedy dry. I’ve heard her stories have been all financially driven, why would she need her OWN personal GFM when her brother’s friends said the money for the funeral AND to help them. The phrase you can lead a horse to water but you can make them drink is very popular on this subreddit. This is very much another popularity high for Tophia and it’s not going away anytime soon.