My sympathy is up with her, she needs to take accountability

r/tophiachutiktok • by ilyjklmao •

Alright that’s it im done. I understand people feel bad for her for obvious reasons but i can already see where this is going. She now has the audacity to come on the internet and blame us saying “oh now you all wanna help” “now you all wanna donate money” “you guys only care now that my brothers dead” girl nobody’s entitled to fund your life wtf? You wanna blame the internet but no lets really get into it. People told y’all for MONTHS that it wasn’t safe living in your cars like that and that you needed to get a job to help get your family out of there but you refused to listen. In fact you STILL aren’t trying to get a job and want to rely on donations forever. Im not saying this happening was directly her fault but what i am saying is this could’ve been prevented LONG ago if she had gotten a job when she was at the first hotel. If she had gotten up like a real adult and gotten a job they could’ve BEEN had at LEAST a 1 bedroom which is better than sleeping in a car.

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  1. Markaestus Share • 42

    Less than 24 hours later, she was already back to her usual self. Most people had hoped the experience would change her in some way, but as they say, you can’t teach an old dog new tricks.

  2. SecureWarfare21 Share • 14

    You really thought this was gonna change her ? Get real

    1. NaughtyNurse1969 Share • 12

      She didn’t even like her brother let’s be honest

    2. ilyjklmao Share • 3

      no i didnt…no where in this post did i say that

  3. Dabbing-queen Share • 12

    As soon as she started blaming the internet I knewwww she wasn’t going to do anything other than play victim. I hoped this would’ve been a reality check for her but she’s so far into her delusions I doubt she even knows what reality is anymore. I don’t ever see her getting a job. Even if she got a work from home job like she wanted she wouldn’t last long and that’s if she even started in the first place. Eventually the only person left in that family will be Tophia and I doubt she will get her shit together then either. It’ll just be another reason for her to be a victim.

  4. lalala070 Share • 7

    So agree! Since Tophia you like to get on here. Here's some word of advice since you don't want to grow up and be held accountable for things. You being homeless was 100% avoidable, and I want you to live with these thoughts every day. You can't say "I couldn't get a job because the internet would get me fired" bullshit! there's temp agencies that hire for daily work at different warehouses every day so you working would of been at different locations daily and people from the internet wouldn't be able to "find" your job to supposedly get you "fired". Would they be the best jobs? No, but at the end of the day, you would of had an income to provide a roof over your head. And guess what? Your brother would be alive and well. Your mother would be okay. So if you want to blame anyone. Blame yourself as someone who is the same age as you, you could of done better but you keep going down a path that shows you'll be a failure at life if you keep having a "IM OWED FOR MY HARD KNOCKED LIFE" mentality.

  5. afcm1025 Share • 5

    I mainly see people who are still sympathetic towards her saying things like “maybe this is how she grieves!” Or “clearly she needs mental help, take it easy on her!!” 🙄

    1. ilyjklmao Share • 3

      i don’t understand why people are babying this grown woman. I feel like a lot of people forget she’s 30.

  6. MeadowlarkClark Share • 3

    Fuck her 😒